Being Nice And Competent Is Absolute DOG SHIT in 2025
Something that really bothers me lately too is that I have clients I've done work with for years.
And I should have known when these Clients contact me for some "VERY SPECIAL FRIEND" of theirs who needs help, and they become very bizarre about seeking my permission if they can contact me for assistance and even have the audacity to ask me to give them a good deal, sometimes.
I've found every time I get handed these people, from these Great Clients of mine, who maybe are not so great beyond the business they provide me, that the situations they hand me with Clients are absolutely ABYSMAL, I become like a dumping ground or garbage disposal to deal with something that nobody else wants or is willing to deal with...
So sick of this shit.
Have you seen this video of a girl finding his husband cheating with an old man? At least that's what it looks like..
ReplyDeletehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gSBzLPM-9no&t=195
I had just watched it, the woman is butt-ugly. And the husband IS a loser and is probably gay. The husband already had three kids with this bitch, and you bet she's gonna be demanding child support from him. Just more NPC shenanigans in a fucked up world.
DeleteNotice how both of these "men" have no hair and are bald. I consider it as a general rule to stay away from or beware of bald men, or for it be viewed as a red flag. There are exceptions of course, such as Goatis himself who was genetically predispositioned or the likes of Marc Faber, who just suffers from old age and/or some health problems.
But in general, if I recall most if not all the bald men I've came across in life, they were all unhealthy, effeminate, and losers in life. Hell, there was even this scrawny red-headed kid in school who is actually balding at 14. And a trend in the soccer team, where a kid would give out "buzz cuts" for fun and memes, and they would HAVE to take ice-baths as a ritual or they would be viewed as weak or being a pussy or get kicked off the team. It's fucked up...
Notice how the husband and the girl are calling each other Bro...
DeleteYes there are so so many wrong things in that video that even some, judging by their comments, think it's a skit but it's legit. Yes the girl is ugly asf.
Delete"Notice how the husband and the girl are calling each other Bro..." Yeah wtf is wrong with these people Lmao, just WHY... Why would you do that..
Found this gem on YT: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BpHXQ_Xy6d4
ReplyDelete@John Eston,
DeleteOh MAN, You nailed it!!!
Worst part about this "thing" , and I'm not even exaggerating, but these type of Women HEAVILY demand that the system finance all their medical bills, expenses and lifestyles, at the expense of Younger, Genetically Gifted people, especially YOUNG WHITE MEN.
@PSA,
DeleteI just find it unbelievable that a young attractive girl could even possibly grow up and turn into this "thing".
It's not even the same species.
Also, I am currently listening to one of Hitler's speeches, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S2LW3eP1io4
He's got a magical voice.
I have to study up on history and "catch up" because I am way far behind, the average teen today has spent so much time in video games and the internet that they couldn't even fight in a war, or have any meaningful understanding of history or reality, not even the bare minimum. It's by design.
When I was growing up, Hitler and the Nazis were always berated, ridiculed, and viewed as evil...
I would hear stories such of as a kid in high school just simply raising his hand up and saying HEIL HITLER, and being sent to juvenile jail or forced to undergo punishments.
We were trained to have sympathy for the Jews, when in reality they are the greatest scum of the earth. And it turns out the Holocaust was not a tragedy, but rather something to be proud about. In my elementary school days, we lived in Waterloo, IA, and there were so, so many blacks, and white kids began adopting their language and degeneracy. We were essentially forced to get along with them and adopt their culture, and this was the time when BLM was rising and the fear of "racism". Everyone is losing/lost their identity and they've mixed up everything into a disastrous mess.
I remember an old Sv3rige video called "Hitler was not a good guy", the video only mentioned how Hitler pushed for "Nazi Beans" onto the youth. But doesn't involve the full picture. The claim was based on Hitler's supposed dietary recommendation, rather than what he actually did and where he stood in the world.
Yup, this is very strong in other professions too. It's very draining and unfair as the worker.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure it's what leads to burnout in a lot of places too. I've had people I've been kind and patient with throughout the day dump their backage on me for something I have no control over that's that not my fault, plus it setsback everything else I have due significantly. Even if I respond in all possible ways- whether that's suggesting solutions, validating, helping, or simply listening to them, they don't stop. It's like they have no consideration of you or your time, can't accept not getting their way even if there's a reasonable reason why, sometimes I even question if they want a 'fix' by dumping it on me, or are just feeding off of my energy and attention.
This is why I want to live semi-offgrid, at least with a low mortage I can work less.
Maybe you should do something similar PSA, by the sounds of it I would be so done dealing with that especially as I get older
@T345,
DeleteYeah, and I've been getting more of these type of requests lately. I almost wonder if these clients are "lying" about this person being so close to them or a great friend, all to try to "soften the blow" so-to-speak, because they know the job is outlandish garbage that nobody else would probably tackle, so they want to see if I'll be gracious enough to take it on.
Another thing too, while it has helped me get some more jobs lately with the fact there are more Temporary / Seasonal Employees for certain jobs lately, the fact is that actually also created another layer of stress and uncertainty because these people leave their jobs quickly and there can be unfinished work left after or bills that have to be accounted for, and communication is worse than ever from Management at some businesses. 2 Businesses that hire me in particular are really, really horrible.
I almost dread whenever that phone rings, honestly...
>>>Even if I respond in all possible ways- whether that's suggesting solutions, validating, helping, or simply listening to them, they don't stop<<<
EXACTLY! This is 100% what they do, and it gets worse, god forbid if it's going on through text messages and you need to take a break and eat something...
I think it will worsen too as more and more people who do skilled labor are leaving many Western Countries. Believe me, these places are going to be deserts for any kind of actual work, compared to a country like China. China has jobs in every field and a Full Middle Class.
@T345,
DeleteWhen "COVID" Began, I was searching for Off-grid arrangements actually, I didn't find any successful things that really struck my fancy, however I did find one that ended up being a close match, but the timing was way too short for me to take up on it.
Bro...... this happens to me so much, my pet peeve is when after all that, they butter u up with a low effort compliment about how well u served them or a 'extra sweet' thank you to make up for it, or they say sorry, then they do it again lmao. Like sheesh, if you wanna appreciate me just don't do it! i
DeleteSomeone on reddit once told me, "They ask you to jump, then blame you for not jumping high enough"....
And god forbi you set boundaries at work, because these people might think you don't care about them or are not doing you're job.
You'd think ANYONE who's worked would understand we have limitations, right??
No wonder so many skilled employees quit during COVID.
So I think you're onto something....,
maybe we will really see more and more people leave,
ESPECIALLY if the economy collapses
@PSA Is finding the right place the only thing stopping you?
DeleteIf so, I would suggest looking at Western North Carolina near Asheville.
It's mountainous, inexpensive, the town is small and kind of 'quirky',
but it's not dead or overly family of money focused.
So inexpensive, good geography, decent weather, etc.
Honestly I was thinking about making the move in the next two years,
but this economy is making me think I should buy the land sooner than I expected.
I know I've talked about colorado and arkansas earlier but there were some things that didn't sit well with me about it like this.
I'm looking at land 30K and under with at least two acres, and I'm planning to build a pier and beam foundation house mostly by myself. The utilities will be off grid as well. There are several options I'm looking at, like propane, gas, generators, using solar panels etc, and having a rain water filtration system.
Obviously there's going to be a startup cost and the taxes might slightly go up after I have the house, but the mortage + taxes for land like this are literally around $80-200 a month from what I'm looking at if I make a downpayment of at least 10K. This enables me to work 2 days a week only. In my job that would make around 12k-15k a year, which is more than enough for extra supplies I'd want, food, gas, etc.
I also lowkey don't really talk with anyone or engage with society much as it is, so it's not like living away from people is going to change much, if anything I bet I'll feel better working less and being in a peaceful place. As long as I'm close enough to Asheville it's fine, because I still like nice small towns and being close to groceries.
@T345,
DeleteWell the thing is Off-Grid Living is very hard work by oneself and especially being in a much later stage of life. I didn't get into it when I was younger and definitely never met the right people, not even in the duration of when I was running PSA with all the people we've met over the years.
For most of my life I wasn't considering going off-grid, up until a certain point probably in the last 15 years, but I'm almost just forgetting it at this point.
But the plans you have sound pretty good!
@PSA
DeleteOh that's totally understandable,
I also am not excited about the whole process, or having to drive far to places.
But you know what if you have the funds to afford something that's already set up,
or more what you want, I don't see why not.
My decision is definitely partially influenced by my current finances anyway,
so I think someone who's saved for longer than me or has a higher paying job could definitely afford something more their taste. I would honestly prefer that myself if I could.
Thank you!
Yes, this is increasingly becoming a motto of "I'm the only one who matters," even within one's own family. Because there are simply no more humans, only burdens.
ReplyDelete>>>Because there are simply no more humans, only burdens.<<<
DeleteThis is so true. Even in nature, you need a clan/family/people to survive, and at least they offered something back beyond just mutual survival, to make the burden seem less. Nowadays, people have nothing to offer, yet take everything, they are by the definition a burden.