What Really Happens After You Turn 30
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hh-xTFnslTc
I would agree with most of this video.
Even though you can have a lot of great things happen to you by this decade, where it's usually where someone finally gets very established in life, the problem is that it's generally "the end" for the most part, both equally for Men and Women.
Everything generally goes downhill from here, even if you have all the Money and Health you wanted.
The thing is, your friends you grew up with by this time have started their life and are also too busy to do anything, and so you will find yourself having less and less things going on.
Work also begins to get really stale and boring, and ESPECIALLY MORE SO once you hit your 40's.
I pretty much attribute it to be very worthless living mostly above 40, because life experiences just become very much repetitive and it gets harder and harder to replicate the experience of fun and novelty from earlier life experiences.
The thing is, your life basically becomes "finalized" once you turn 30. Even your destiny as far as relationships go. If you hadn't located a partner before then, it's not only unlikely you will after this time, but most relationships that form after the age of 30 are founded on a very problematic basis with another person and also whereby they did not get to grow up together, so that has serious implications and weaknesses for the relationship.
For example, I can tell you that my "last" defining relationship was when I was 28.
Anything after that ended up just becoming retarded and irrelevant. And that was how many, MANY decades ago.
As I've also stated too, once you get a lot older, Nature becomes your total enemy.
If you love Nature today, you will arrive at a point in your life where you despise Nature, the weather, and everything about how this world functions and realize it was a pointless ruse all along.
All of your early life experiences become like a "blip" in your life that you can barely recall.
There's just too much trouble and too many problems and constant stresses in this world to make this life seem worthy to live, and it doesn't matter how well off your life has been here.
Also, if you experience any life trauma, that trauma becomes "cumulative". Don't believe the lies that you "heal" over time. You don't, and you cannot. Healing is another bullshit industry just like Therapy.
The one thing that will also drive you nuts as you get older, is when you realize suddenly how often you constantly need to replace and repair things, and how much devotion you spend towards maintenance and cleaning of anything. It really begins to become a drag after a while, and by the time you are doing cleaning or maintaining something, you barely have the energy to enjoy anything after that.
Something I will tell you is that I have found most people among even my peers, that once they have reached 70 (as an outset age), if they haven't figured out how much of a scam and disappointment life really is earlier, they definitely begin to realize it during this decade, this is usually true for most people.
Once people reach this age and their children are also probably long moved out, the parents also begin to realize how pointless it was to have children.
Believe me, this is a real think many have even confessed to me, but in a very discreet tone.
Only some might choose to conceal it more out of pride.
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I’ve noticed Jake has copyright claimed the video of him running away from that guy that I sent here a while ago.
I haven’t watched the video but I did read your post, I can imagine my life ending up like this, even more so as time goes on. I’m a lot younger than you though so I haven’t yet experienced some of this
@zikeKEK,
DeleteWow, isn't that interesting eh!? The Walls are definitely closing in very quickly on jake. Someone's going to hurt him very badly real soon, so he's nervous.
But yeah Man, this stuff goes unseen at an early age until one day when someone crosses the bridge. When you are young, you want life to last as long as possible and forever.
Once you reach mid-life, you can't wait to get it over with. Goatis will one day hit that time too, probably in his 40's he'll resent this place and Nature also is no longer appealing.
I’ve noticed myself that even Goatis seems to show a bit of delusion when it comes to the perfection of Nature. He seems a bit TOO appreciative of it at times. But as you said, I’m sure he’s still just a bit naive in some aspects. Happens to the best of men
Delete@zikeKEK, Yeah, Nature is NOWHERE near beautiful or nice like people think it is. When people claim they love nature, they are only talking about the woods or the landscape, oceans, mountains or what have you, or maybe a pretty bird, but all that stuff accounts for only a very small portion of nature.
DeleteNature is actually an asshole, and it's even more likely to permit things or promote things to happen "just because", but there's no logic, rhyme nor reason, or a purpose. Nature tends to empower the parasites.
Some people are born into this world and see "Nature" as something that loves them or gives everything we need, but I've never viewed it that way.
I've always viewed nature with suspicion, disbelief, and as if it leaves us starving in a desert. It's a mean bitch, basically.
The worst part of it is that nature is run by Artificial Intelligence, so it's actually completely run by old computers and machines, it cannot function without that. Few people will ever accept that knowledge because it would challenge every other existing paradigm of what they came to believe about this existence.
I noticed you mentioned AI running nature, I do remember someone I know telling me that humans are just an AI themselves. Nature doesn’t care for you and it isn’t as “nurturing” as people say it is
Delete@zikeKEK, Yes, that is correct.
DeleteBeing a good person, or what you've contributed, or even if you a famous or "special" person, all of this is meaningless to nature.
Generally, nature only cares about power and consensus to permit something or someone through, but even only in that moment. Someone who might be powerful one minute, could be rendered nothing the next minute, day or will not be "put through" on the next run around.
It also is obsessed with procreation, but it serves no purpose or goal, so essentially nature is really dumb and pointless.
there is no soul in nature and humans (especially the ones today) have no depth
Delete@zikeKEK, Actually on the flip-side, there sort-of "is" a purpose to nature but not a real one in and of itself. It's designed to serve as a "framework" for Humans and other Life Forms to believe in it enough to see a purpose to reproduce or be involved in this place, otherwise they might view it as the true horror it really is. But yeah, definitely no soul in nature.
DeleteEvery time I hear some tree-hugging hippie claim that "But Mother Nature Still Loves Us!" I cringe...
It’s understandable why Goatis thinks the way he does, these tree hugging hippies are wrong, and even if they were right, they’d be right for the WRONG reasons
Delete@zikeKEK, Yeah it's definitely normal to think that way when one is young. Although I have not particularly been fond of nature personally even from a young age because I found this reality to be far too restrictive, especially in the confines of our human bodies.
DeleteBut after a while you just really begin to get sick of this damn shit, including every time you become ill, every time the weather bothers you and things rotting out. This place is truly a sick, dumb joke and I'm long LONG tired of it.
The thing you realize too over time, is just how LIMITED Pleasure really is, and even if you try to increase the Pleasure, it becomes "difficult", for a whole host of reasons, plus the chances seem to always become "less" that you will ever experience something equal or greater to the first experience of something.
Yet there's ALWAYS a new threshold of a new type of pain or extremity of pain and suffering you can experience. I can't tell you how many different and new experiences of pain and suffering I've experienced in this life and body, and even "new ways" that I never experienced before that are always introduced that are unbearable. Just when you think you've experienced it all, you have not.
It actually makes me become very angry and nasty when people talk about how great this life is. Because it's NOT.
Yea I feel like anyone who talks about how great this life is pushing what they want others or themselves to think,
DeleteAlso the 'nature' types who think everything in nature is beautiful are like this for me....
I remember my teacher showed us a video of a lion eating a zebra alive and I thought it was absolutely horrible and I felt so sickened and distraught by that, other kids were shreaking too, and the teacher said there's nothing to be scared of it's beautiful because it's nature....?! Also when those nature videohraphers are told not to disturb nature, and they film an animal eating another one alive....?! I kind of understand if you aren't able to do anything but often these guys have huge vehicles with them & could at least beep the horn.
Then they'll promote human rights at the same time, but then act like saving an animal from being eaten alive is a bad thing...?!
I would've loved in my youth to live in a group that was more 'natural' and where we all had more freedom, but this doesn't necessarily make nature any better it's just less matrix and social structures. Also, even in spaces like that, there's no telling if you'll have issues with the people there are not
@T345,
DeleteTrust me when I say it, but even while some bad things plagued the 70's and 80's, those decades were still "humming" with life... But the rot was already well under way. By the 90's, the decline began to manifest, but once the 2000's hit, it really went full circle especially once 9/11 happened. Then people basically have decided to give up on being fun or carefree, and have also decided to become more of assholes than ever. Sure, they were around in the times before this, but there was enough of other people and things happening that still made life more manageable.
Not any longer. And yet you have Propagandists including Presidents and the Media or some pathetic Boomers out there who want to convince people that the "greatest days" are yet to come, when it's so obvious the glory days are gone and not coming back.
We're in a world now where there used to be things about life (as much as life still sucks) that people treasured, which are no longer existent even in whole cultures or daily mode of life.
Yes, Nature is extremely brutal. As much as water gives you life, it also can take it away from you instantly from so many different means. Water is an extremely destructive and corrosive element.
The annoyances that water bring us in our daily lives, are often ignored in favor of the benefits that Water gives, including the fact that we depend on it.
And yeah in terms of animals, if you see another animal which is viciously hurt by another animal, it will of course trigger a sense of being disturbed in someone.
The worst thing about Nature, is that it doesn't have to make "sense" in the grand scheme of things and yet Humans will still endorse it, because it's all we know.
But it leads one to question, if this existence is entirely about robbing others of their life force to survive and thrive, who or what ends up being the arbiter of it all in deciding who should live and who shouldn't, and also in terms of granting "might".
The only easy answer I can give based on what you question, because you bring up a good point, is that Humans are "morally confused" because on one hand, there really are no such thing as morals. But on another hand, Humans want to act as if they are "morally superior", which is why they like to think of having the upper hand on things.
The fact is that this existence was a cosmic error from the get-go, and it has so many things flawed about it, that it's amazing how many people will overlook it and think this world is even "relatively fair".
The only reason we need to consume animals or others for energy and survival for example, has everything only to do with the fact that this is an Enclosed system with limited energy resources, which is what curses us with the need to eat, and to constantly "top off" our energy reserves not only to be able to function but slow the aging process, otherwise facing famine and death.
All forms of decay, aging and the existence of death tie in with the fact that this is a closed system depending on Entropy, otherwise it would never be a "thing".
@PSA water can be extremely dangerous like when swimming in the sea. Also heavy rain can destroy the things we build. Drinking too much water also leeches minerals in our body. Eating food is really just delaying the aging process because if we all stopped eating, we would probably have 3 weeks left to live. The lack of water also kills is quickly aswell. Everything in this universe has an expiry date, even the stars.
DeleteI think a lot of the younger generation accelerated their mental age by watching fast paced videos, and also the endless tiktok scrolling. Scrolling and watching 500 different videos every couple minutes with different themes and scenarios in each one basically fucked their brain by immersing themselves through a screen in different situations and locations with it. They are still immature in other ways though. We are hedonistic by instinct and nature. We constantly try and find ways to have any pleasure or euphoria, but the pleasure will always be fleeting and the pain will feel MUCH longer in comparison whether it actually is or not, and this gap only increases as you grow older. I’m actually under the age of 18 and I am aware of this, would be great if more people were though. Some people can’t even enjoy the pleasure at times because they always have problems at the back of their mind and may even understand that they are going to feel like shit after the “happiness” lasts and you’ll see people’s “baseline” state of joy only getting lower and lower.
ReplyDeleteI’m sure you enjoyed life as a little kid and everything was almost “amplified” in terms of the enjoyment you got out of it. As you found a hobby or thing to enjoy, as you mentioned, the first few times nearly always feel the best, and it sort of “fades” as you get older. Many people still choose to stay with these hobbies because they like the familiarity and comfort it brings, or even foolishly trying to relieve these experiences and trying to making it feel as good as it used to such as drugs or sports. for example. People actually get into fights and seriously getting harmed over things like people running around kicking a ball into a spot or throwing a ball in a hoop. They like the culture and community from it and unfortunately it’s such an ingrained part of the world that people don’t really see these things as WEIRDO behaviour.
This is why EVERY single person experiences “nostalgia” at some point in their lives. Even if they had a really shitty life that got exponentially better over the years, there’s still a feeling of melancholy and allure to the past, this is even more so with those who are very conscious. Not many people actually prefer their present life over their life even a few years ago because it gets dull. To be quite honest, I actually tore up a little bit writing this.
@zikeKEK,
DeleteI believe someday there will be a lot of regret and a strong mid-life crisis with Gen Z when they will look back to realize with how much of their life was spent in front of screens, rather than actually living "life" outside of screens.
I don't blame anyone for attempting to relive experiences, the only problem is there is always something eventually working against you. The experience or item might not be made the same, over time it gets more expensive, or just what made it memorable tends to become lost somehow.
There are few things that can be replicated again and again where the same magic is experienced, however I have noticed with Music, that playing Music CAN somewhat be close to creating and recreating the same experience over and over. But then sometimes you might need a break from certain types of Music, unless it's really really REALLY good.
What humans generally have to consider is that relatively many humans have a set of diverse genes that seemingly sets in a mechanism that causes (to varying degrees) mild myopia if the environmental factor is: too much screen time /near-work *indoors* (during the teen years especially). So the global rise in mild myopia could be explained by a combination of genes and environment. There are also people whose genes allow a reversal of myopia if they spend more time outdoors in real life without wearing glasses. Eye doctors know this, by the way, but you won’t find much about it in academic papers.
DeleteExcellent video.
ReplyDeleteAlso, the demons know that as people past age 30, they are usually going to be more difficult to control...and that means less LOOSH production for them.
This is why it is so important to evaluate your social circles. If you want to see where you are going in life the next 5 years, just see who you are around TODAY. Those people are going to influence your ideas and your opportunity to evolve in life. Losers that go to bars often, or rarely read high level books, or are still thinking that women are angels...well those people are going to assist in your destruction.
As an example, I stopped going to casinos. I just can't think of any solid people I have met in casinos. They are losers. From the employees, to the customers, to their loud noises. All of it is total trash. The only thing worse is a bar. Talk about trash.
Over 30 is tough.
And as I have gotten older, I really just can see the scams from so far away. It will usually involve the idea of easy money, or great sex, or gaining more material things. Or the idea you are you missing out (FOMO), fear of missing out....so you will buy these useless product.
Remember, the demons just want your money, which is your energy.
@Joey Aragon My biggest guilty pleasure on what you listed is visiting pubs and bars. The two biggest problems I see with that is the health and money it costs to drink in those places. Another point you would probably bring up is the lack of quality people in those places, it’s never a good idea to socialise with the drinker who is always at the bar. I would assume 1-2 times a month at high quality drinking venues, with good people is the right balance.
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