Subtle Ways To Tell If A Man Is Ultimately A Big-Time LOSER

I think this is an entry that should get some traction and attention for what it's worth, since I believe that both other Men and Women should be aware of these signs to immediately detect guys who are ultimately losers and should not be trusted or taken seriously on any level.

However, unfortunately I doubt many Women will take it seriously, since they ignore such signs in a Man in favor of his Money and Status.

To begin with, any Man who identifies or repeats "common slogans" as his strategy through life, for example "Become The Best Version Of Myself", or a Man who believes in "Positive Thinking" or who is overly Optimistic.

All Optimistic Men are cowards by nature, and it is important to remember this.

If a Man is indifferent rather than optimistic, but the most Manly of Men are suspicious and cautious of anything, and are realists.

Men who are optimists often get taken for a ride in life by many scam artists, including Telemarketers, and other scams or things that aren't what they seem.

Men who also Text Message A LOT, especially as a replacement for a Phone Call, when a Phone Call can be much quicker and more efficient. Texting a lot and reliance on Texts, is a very effeminate and cowardly behavior of Men.

Men who give "fist bumps" as opposed to a "handshake" are cowards and not Real Men. These Men will never be someone whom one can put confidence in.

Real Men also are very much aware about market conditions around them, or the general prices of anything be it food, supplies, utilities and hardware, and this means that he should be able off of a whim to calculate something in his head, including a carriage full of goods and have a rough idea what the likely bill will come out to be without needing to calculate or check the prices.

Real Men also have general knowledge about important matters for life and living, particularly when it comes down to Food and Produce quality or grades and how to select them, what is good versus not, and should have general knowledge about building constructions and flaws or what to look for when purchasing a home, and to also understand the various quality of materials, including with things like Houses, Clothing or Fabric, and just a general overall knowledge about vast materials and how to grade or assess the quality or value.

While it is absolutely normal for a Man to get angry, aggressive and emotional, there "is" a particular trait that can manifest in a Man which is ABSOLUTELY unacceptable in the eyes of other Men or Women.

And this behavior is being a "brat".

And I am finding lately these days, that Men of all ages, some of them are acting really bratty, especially when I also try lend a helping hand to something, and they still just "fall apart" and throw a mini-tantrum and just don't want to be straightforward about something.

Frankness is masculine, withholding the truth about something or concealing something to another Man, is especially as it inconveniences both parties, is "bratty" behavior, and it absolutely makes me angry.

There are tons of Men out there like this. A bratty Man can never be a respectable Man, and it also demonstrates that he is lacking in responsibility.

Most Politicians and Leaders in Modern Society, are also major brats.

The New "King" of England is a Major Brat, who gets in a fuss over a Pen which doesn't work, or even can't deal with life if his servant does not prepare his toothbrush with toothpaste to be "ready" for him, along with some things to do with towels.

These are the type of Men who are "true weaklings", and it's unfortunate but the Modern world is fostering more and more of these types of Men.

Another growing problem I see with a lot of Men who are business owners, is they get very out of touch with the in and out operations of their Businesses, and haven't a clue at any time what's going on, whether it's with service contracts with utility providers or service companies, contractors, and other people.

There are a lot of Men like this, and they can't even "announce" figures off the top of their head for what they are paying out of pocket for any expense, and are too busy to even see what's really going on in the world around them, and many times they are also the type to have their employees who work for them steal behind their backs when they aren't looking. Truly, Gluttons for punishment.

Another thing you should watch out for is Men who are extremely Left-brained and Fast Talkers, or who are absolutely impulsive in a way that seems to skip the natural processes or considerations that should be under way before committing to a purchase, and these Men are often the types who are eager to get off of a phone call or always feel in a rush and can't be bothered to go over every detail about something. They make the worst customers or clients, and they absolutely also make Poor Husbands and Fathers.

Men who spend a lot of time in front of the TV, especially watching sports, are also some of the biggest Losers out there, with no life, hobbies or other valuable interests of their own.

Men who gamble or buy lottery scratch tickets all the time "hoping to one day strike it rich", these Men are absolute losers and failures at life, completely without exception. This behavior also demonstrates that they do not value their earnings in labor and haven't given much thought how to not be a wage slave and rely off of "hope".

That being said, all Men who rely on "hope" are also losers and cowards. Many religions Men are that way too. Hope and Optimism go hand in hand.

Men who are afraid to be thought of "racists" or "bigots", not only in his profession, but also in front of his lady or the public, are also major cowards and losers, without exception.

If you cannot speak your mind and do so in the most "matter of fact" manner, then you are not only not a Free Man, but you are also a loser and a coward, or any Man who is that way is definitely such.

Loser Men get involved with things like "Skin-care routines" or using "Shaving Cream" and "Lotions".

Losers Men lack a "pro-active" basis for the way they live life, and so they often avoid the methods to use to prevent accidents or damage or other events to occur in their life, and just "deal with such matters" when they come along. The problem with these type of Men, is this behavior pretty much translates through every fabric of their being in how they live life, and what essentially happens is people who live or have to deal with such Men in any manner, will just always notice there are endless "cascading events" or problems that occurs in the Man's life, and he never can seem to get his shit together properly with how to manage his life and have structure in it, to avoid such catastrophes.

This could be for example, if a Man has a car and he waits "last minute" to get an oil change, or a Man who pushes the envelope on things in a way that are absolutely irresponsible or come with grave and unnecessary risks and may even create prolonged problems or additional expenses.

Another thing too, is that if a Man has a tobacco or alcohol addiction, and he's the type of Man who blows so much money on it, but yet cannot be bothered with buying in bulk somewhere at a Discount Outlet or Retailer that sells for much cheaper so that he can budget his money, because the temptation is too great to "drink all the liquor" and "smoke more cigarettes", this is a sign of a Man who lacks discipline and self-control, and it's a pathological problem in his character.

All Men who love being the stereotypical "tough guy" but when confronted with real circumstantial situations that they want to seek cover, these are absolutely the worst type of Men and they are total losers.

Men who insist on being "show-offs" at the bar by buying everyone at the bar a round of drinks... It's one thing if these people are friends or family, but while it otherwise might seem like a nice "gesture", believe me that the Men who do these sorts of things for strangers, are big-time losers and dumb pigs.

Men who are constantly trying to prove themselves to others in any sort of way, are also Ultimately Losers with an Inferiority Complex. A Real Man knows how to stand on his own merit and makes no apologies.

Loser Men embrace Pain and Suffering, especially unreasonable levels or occurrences of Pain and Suffering, all to feel more "Masculine". But the truth is, it's all rooted in insecurities, especially his own Manhood.

Men who are Marijuana smokers are not real Men. Smoking Tobacco is also not good, but Marijuana Makes a Man even less of a Man compared to Tobacco use, and Marijuana lowers Testosterone Levels.

Loser Men, are always concerned with Laws in every circumstance, regardless of whether the Law makes sense.

Loser Men are often the types who always relate to hypothetical scenarios of things, especially through Movie Scenes or Cartoons or Comics and Video Games that they watch or play. And they will often constantly do this. These are basically the "True Man-Childs".

Real Men prefer to stop bickering like cackling hens and to seek or sort out other Men to build things with in reality that are meaningful or fun, rather than living in a virtual reality mindset.

Loser Men plan their entire lives around Institutional Programs and Funds, particularly Investment Funds and Retirement Plans and dedicate their whole lives in service of these Programs and Funds, for a sterile secure "life" once they retire. But they lived a horrible life ahead of time to secure that.

I could put a whole laundry list of more items here, but I figure this would probably be a good list of explanations of absolutely ridiculous junkyard varieties of Men, that belong left in the "junkyard" to rot.