Children are not a gift. But the reasons why parents call them "gifts" are Sinister
Always remember that when someone calls a child being a "gift from God", that it is a Narcissistic tendency in them.
Cloaked in some sort of pseudo-spirituality to sanitize it and make it all sound good and virtuous to others, the reason parents view children as "gifts" is because they will serve as a buffer in their life as they grow older and view the child as the gift who will take care of them when they become ill.
The "gift" of a Life Insurance Policy.
I personally know two young couples who have pregnant wives right now.
I just know how much worse things will get once they have the children, and I will report to you on these 2 couples I know, because they just happen to also be about to have the children at the same time since the mothers got pregnant right around the first time.
What I can tell you about both couples, is that both the Men and Women in them are just horrible people and total Narcissists, and both of the Husbands are extremely naive about how things work in the real world. So I just know once they have their children in about 2 or 3 months, that I will report back and let you know the results on how everything changes from at least 6 to 12 months after. So you will likely get a report around the end of this year or into 2026.
The other thing I've also noticed that people do when they talk to others about children being a gift or a "blessing", is that it is almost done like a Holiday greeting or an affirmation like "Amen!" To other people to make sure everybody toes the line.
For example, I was on a walk last summer even as Anti-Natalism had made mainstream headlines, and I was overhearing a neighbor talking with another neighbor about a hard time that they knew a couple were having with their child, but yet as the conversation got more deep and personal about the issues, one of the NPC's suddenly announced "But, children are a blessing!"
And the other NPC just nodded in a nervous agreement with smiles between them both, as they wanted to still present an image of being happy and Pro-Natalist, and as if the "good" of having children always outweighs the negatives.
I just saw this infuriating tiktok video: https://www.tiktok.com/@tatortotztay/video/7457434495025728799
ReplyDeleteOf a women trying to make her viewers think her husband was abusive, by showing him dissapointed at another baby while she's doing a stupid jiggly dance. Imagine being that child too.
According to her, she and her kids are now 'safely' away from her 'abusive' husband.
And her 'evidence' of abuse is literally, him being dissapointed she's pregnant. SMH.
To be fair, men who stick their dck in crazy are also partially to blame
@T345,
DeleteSuperb Example Video! I also got so sick and disgusted after viewing this too. And the thing is, these are the real "insights" into the reality we are living in right now. These are the "types" largely having children. People who are outright destructive losers, and just look at the way she dances her body around like that, you can see what an obsessed Narcissist she is.
Imagine that "you" are bringing children into this world, who will one day have to go to school or share fates / destiny with the children of those parents and other parents like them, of toxic losers who will probably be a bad influence in your own child's life if you had one.
This is how the future is being setup, and yet most people see no problem with it, because "Humans need to survive at all costs". All that matters is that the Human Species survives.
This is how people think, even though basically anything that ever had value in the Human existence, is literally 100% GONE. Unless you consider having a nice nutritious meal or listening to good music, or being under the sun. There's nothing else, because you can no longer find good human companions not even in your family, in the workplace, or if one goes to school, etc.
Yes..... seeing people like this have kids always ruins my mood. Actually, I have considered leaving my body, and one HUGE thing stopping me is the chance of reincarnating as one of these people's children LOL.
DeleteWhen I watched this video, I just sensed this guy is probably the type who thinks it's a good thing to have kids for the sake of spreading his genes. That ugly disgusting dance was also very unnerving to watch. That sigh you hear him heave is just his true feelings coming out. Why the hell do men stick their dck in crazy tho, he isn't 100% the perfect victim either.
I totally agree, after you've pointed out it's a narcissistic tendancy, I've been seeing it all over the place. I can't help but roll my eyes when I see a women like this virtue signal & act like her having a 2nd baby was an objectively good thing, therefore if her husband doesn't like it he's evil. And....who wouldn't want her to have a child... gosh such evil people.
I also have never understood why people like this have so much confidence despite.... looking and acting like that.
Also she IMMEDIATELY responded to my comment on her video, despite her being a mother, I'm ....assuming.... having a job?, and the fact that there are almost 2,000 comments, so I guess she has nothing better to do...?
Yes.... I have thought about the logistics of having kids, and the amount of homeschooling and supervision you'd need to keep them from ATLEAST not going on the deep end would take an immense amount of energy, which just isn't realistic.
And yes, even if you're different it doesn't matter because you will be pulled down by the people around you, and bullied for not being like them.
YES. I have noticed the way, even neighborhoods are built these days is for maximum efficiency to uphold a mass population, even at the expense of the quality of life. Like mass farming that ruins the environment to produce enough food to feed the masses of assholes.
DeleteThe neighborhoods, food quality, architecture, people, are all just getting worse, while life is getting harder. Meanwhile, pro-natalist talking points are somehow still getting traction??? Only people who are blind, or comfortable in the bad, must want to reproduce here, with some exceptions.
@T345, Even as I notice a lot of various couples of different generations even from my own, and seeing what "exists" out there now, I can tell you it's always the same song and dance with every family I see that comes into existence. No exceptions. In the past, even the "exceptions" were super rare, but there haven't been that many after the 80's / 90's period.
DeleteWithout exception, every parent I hear from their "struggles" with their children these days, has to do with their children experiencing Gender Dysphoria, and having problematic friends who use them or influence them to smoke weed or embrace LGBTQ ideas.
Every parent also has a problem getting their children to focus on anything, even when being disciplined, and every child is glued to the TV and playing video games, and has no attention span that could possibly earn them a future worth having.
If a parent doesn't buy their child the latest "iphone", by modern standards, that parent is considered "abusive" and as if "sheltering" their child.
This is what the game of life has become, to bring about "life" into this new reality.
And yes, Special Architecture rarely exists any longer, for multiple reasons. For starters, the Men who created beautiful architecture, possessed strong emotions, passion and imagination which led them to creating artistic expressions or aesthetics into even the building of structures.
We don't have those kind of Men as much any longer, but also even the "focus" on that has largely been removed as the industries demand stronger and stronger growth, profits and expansion of society and the population, and so it is a hindrance to put special care into creation, and it's preferred to create "cookie cutter" buildings with Corporate or Contemporary appearance.
@PSA Yes.... I'm even starting to get sick of people calling their parents mom or dad, as if that person is somehow different or special because they gave birth or shot some spm, or as if they are a good person or doing the kid a favor, when in many cases the kid is being used by the parent as some sort of life plan. Then they put on this virtue signaling parenthood act and make it some 'core' part of their identity, meanwhile you just know behind all that pretty wrapping paper, their kids are likely going to live a shtty parasitic slave life, become NPCs, do a bunch of drugs, and other ugly realities that would be too pretty to show. You know what.... parenthood is like the perfect excuse to be a narccistic bch, because you get someone who worships you and stays by your side for years. And you get a free pass to be an ahole in the name of your kids who somehow deserve special treatment?? and because society gives free passes to parents because it's hard for them to raise kids!!! As if it wasn't their choice to have them.
DeleteI find it funny and ironic how so many lgbtq and weed kids come from religious families. I often heard from kids who got sent to religious camps, that they did a bunch of drugs there. How telling it is that the most virtue-signaling families, who I'm sure emphasize religious family values, do not create the most virtuous children.
And yes, the last thing I'd want to deal with in middle age, coming back from work is some stupid debate about an electronic or having to avoid some stupid societal stigma from someone about not raising your kids right. Also, apparently if you leave you're kid alone for enough time you can easily get some sort of neglect charge which is crazy.
I used to actually get depressed by the architecture and neighborhood layout of my American neighborhood lol. I think it's very telling, that architecture is a reflection of the people.
@T345, The worst part or "absurdity" of everything with Natalism, is that the reasons behind why people have children, make it look like the parents who had their children by mere "accident" because of having sex, look "better" and more "moral" than the ones who wilfully have children, because the ones who accidently had children, could have possessed a sliver of desire not to bring any children into this world at all if not mere indifference, but the ones who wilfully want to bring children into the world, have a selfish desire.
DeleteIt's really interesting, because you can look at constant debates about it with people who have children and when they are prodded about it, they always act like what they are doing is so grand by bringing some "life" to come into this world, to experience things, while their final outcome will eventually be death and all what they've come to build or create here, will all be taken from them and have no real meaning in the long run.
These parents are not bothered by the idea that they will have children who not only will experience various forms of suffering, but that they are condemning them to the experience of "death".
I also have noticed most LGBTQ people come from very conservative families as well, and particularly "Catholic" families the most. My reflections as to why this is the case, is because the method by which these "conservative" values are foisted upon them, is done so on a basis of fear and conformity and also by a rigid mechanism where it fosters no kind of spiritual growth or connection to what it is they are "doing", for example like with the Wife being "Submissive". The Bible doesn't explain why the Wife should be Submissive because it's in her nature or why it will make her happy, there is no spiritual component, but it threatens them with the Fear of God if they "disobey" God's Command to do so.
In addition, the most guilty types of parents and families tend to form around religions, especially like Christianity, and so the propensity of them to give birth to children who will want to "rebel" and stray from what they've grown up with, will only increase, not to mention many religious families are also heavily, heavily abusive to their children.
And what they do to "justify" their abuse is claim how it only makes children become a better person or understand the value in something, if even by depriving them of things and not telling them the real truth about anything.
Christianity also believes that any sexual relations with someone outside of Marriage is considered "fornication" and a major "sin", so this only furthers the desire to feel like a rebel by becoming promiscuous. Most Christians, more so than any other group of people are extremely promiscuous.
While Fornication is Pre-marital sex, "are a thing" so-to-speak in the fact that they are "defined" on the basis of not being Married, Marriage is a Man-made institution, and there is no God or any force in Nature that classifies Pre-marital sex as being something abnormal or contrary to morality.
@PSA Oh yes... I've seen people act like that too, like: "It was an unexpected surprise, but we decided to keep the baby!!" As if they're doing the child or world a favor...
DeleteI know someone who is a sibling of 11 or 7 children, and his mom was off to an abortion clinic with him but got in a car crash on her way there, which she took as a 'sign' to keep him. He's lived a hard life, has attempted scide, and spends most of his days watching anime & video games.
Mama sure blessed him with the gift of life!
And yes, I agree this reality sucks. Even things that could be enjoyable are hard to experience, especially on a daily basis. We are working harder than ever, for a worse world, whilst it's all meaningless at the end of the day. It doesn't make sense. But everyone is taking it so seriously, which just forces the rest of us, even if you don't want it, to participate in this game.
Very interesting about religious families...... that makes so much sense. Weirdly enough, my sis randomly announced she's Christian now out of nowhere and she has spent nothing but the past few years doing a bunch of drugs and other things i shouldn't mention. I'm also not getting the feeling it's spiritual for her, but rather a comforting idea to lean on
I met a guy that actually referred to his son as "his life insurance policy". He was an older man, in his late 30s...what a fucking NPC fuck...and he was being real.
ReplyDeleteso many losers in our society.
Goo goo, gaa, gaa....he was making these noises as well, with his NPC child....
I tried not to laugh, and I didn't until he left my presence....funniest shit ever.
@Joey Aragon, Isn't it despicable how there are so many people [parents] out there like that who are even shameless to hold that opinion and profess it so proudly!? They see nothing wrong with what they do.
DeleteOne thing I have also discovered in such Men like that, especially Men who are obsessed with having children and to get Women impregnated, is there is also an unnatural aggression they have to them in general that becomes annoying. You can even find this in Influencers such as "Bo Refec" who runs the Legion Of Men channel. I don't know how to put it in words, but if you see enough of his videos I think you know what I mean.
The other thing that gets me with "parents", is how they are able to put on such an act with them as a child before they can even speak. I can understand or relate to the desire to want to speak to someone, including an animal, as if they understand your language, and it helps the children learn, but it borders cringey territory when they act or make up such ridiculous or unreal scenarios and keep "going" with it. And then you see to what extent they will even go too, to get their children to believing in Santa Claus or the Easter Bunny or Tooth Fairy, etc.
So right from the get-go of most parenting, they already are comfortable with setting up their children on the path for failure and being a flawed individual, and having delusional beliefs.
And as they grow up into an adult, they become less and less interested as who they are as an "adult", and still view them as their little "child".
Thanks for the reply, PSA.
ReplyDeleteYes, that makes sense, how these narcissistic parents do view their children as "children", even when they are adults....
I remember a black woman yelling at her 20 something year old son, in the elevator one day, and he just stood there and took it. She was being so disrespectful to him, and he said nothing back, like a mind controlled slave. So odd that a grown adult would do that to her son. No respect.
And that is what we have today...
These parents teach their children no respect, and the children end up as little mutherfuckers for the most part. The cycle continues, and nothing gets better. The communities suffer, and the world continues to get worse and worse...
all in the meantime, the Elite are just laughing at us.
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