A Woman Even Admits The Real Reason Women Have Sex...

As I've said, many many times, unfortunately many Men probably think I'm joking or making it up that Women largely do not like sex the way the Man does, and it has nothing to do with whether you are "pleasuring her the right way or not".

I saw a post today where a Woman online admitted outright the real reasons Women desire sex from you... Attention & Validation, with a link to her photo and Facebook page below and the comment she left on a post.

Now, I've found these things out on my own, never from reading it anywhere or being told. What I've explained to you comes from my lifelong experiences with Women in the conclusions I've come to, from good and bad in the bedroom and even getting into arguments over sexual things with some stupid girls.

Years ago, telling these things to many guys gets you laughed at, scoffed at, mocked, or just told or made to think you are less of a Man, because most Men will not accept the truth.

Men, largely have sex for Pleasure, Adventure, Fun and Stress Relief, it's an exciting activity.

You also "get off"  to a Woman's heavy breasts that bounce around and her hard nipples, or her throbbing pussy.

Unfortunately it is not identical that she gets off to the idea of your "throbbing veiny cock or your chiseled abs."

But logically speaking, if Women's sex drives were honest, and not about exploiting Men, this would be the case.

But the thing is that Women don't even see sex on ANY LEVEL that you as the Man do, and what's worse, is she even has the nerve to manipulate and gaslight all Men into making it seem as though Women need to have an emotional connection to a Man to have sex with him, whereas this Woman even outright admits below that Women do not want sex through an emotional connection.

NOW LOOK, to understand why Women lie like this, you have to understand how Women think, because they are demonic. Women are always about strategy. When she lies to claim she needs an emotional connection, this is to absolve her from any blame or accusation if a guy claims he noticed that she was never into an emotional connection with her. It's for "cover". It is just a "show".

And she can use it to gaslight you even further at her advantage, because while she can pretend to act as if she is in love with you or emotional over you, if you realize she was just ever using you all the time for attention, validation and money, she can turn it around to say that she just "fell out of love with you over time", even though she was never actually in love with you or emotionally moved from sexual experiences with you.

Do you think Women would ever engage in such forms of prostitution, selling their bodies and exhibition if they had sex based off of an "emotional" connection as they claim!? HECK NO!

It's just like when Modern Men ask Women what they bring to the table in a relationship, she says something like "I am the table". This is designed to shut down Men's argument, rather than provide any tangible explanation of what she does have to offer a Man that is exceptional.

Women in fact, play a parasitic role in sex, because Men's desire is to share an experience with a Woman, whereas Women want to take from you.

Therefore, the Man is actually the greater victim in any sex he potentially has with any Women.

Women want to take "MEAT", and not the way you think they do, "Money, Energy, Attention, Time".

This Woman below explains exactly why sex "dies" after Marriage, even though you may have been having endless sex before.

And also, as I have stated Many times, to Women, you as a Man, are largely just a "reproduction strategy", so everything is about Finances, and Sex to Children for her on the basis of survival and to "feed" off of you, and nothing more.

It also explains the differences as to why Men and Women cheat for such different reasons.

In fact, Women do not even create milestones in their head about you or new sexual experiences, even if you are able to get her off a certain way that no other guy has... It doesn't "last" for her are some memory of reflection, as it would for a Man, or even if she introduced something to him, the effect it would etch in a Man's memory.

She explains that part where she talks about "scanning for all kinds of other choices" are available to her, and she is wondering if things might actually be even better elsewhere with someone else, never content with whether she made the right choice in selecting a guy.

For a Woman, ONCE you have had sex, once you've gotten married, and once you've especially had children, her REPRODUCTIVE STRATEGY has completed its objectives, and this is why she becomes bored, boring, dull and detached and wants someone new or different.

I have seen it happen MANY, MANY times to so many Men over and over in my life, rinse and repeat.

The Women who do stay married to Men, only do so out of obligation, either through Finances, Children or Religion. But they don't like the Man.

There are very few Women who are all that concerned or thinking about sexual pleasure when they have sex. They just are good at acting like they do. Never forget that Women are very very good actresses to put on any kind of illusions by pulling the wool over your eyes with their charm and beauty.

Women will wear yoga pants to show their cameltoe shapes and buttcrack to you, maybe the nipples are poking hard through her top, but you as a Man will sacrifice hundreds if not thousands of dollars trying to court her and put all this effort and work only to find out yet that they are sexual prudes and horrible in the bedroom and almost disgusted by sex. Because once again... They are looking to get your "attention" and "validation", a reaction from you. They don't care about the actual sex.

In fact, Women are so disinterested in sex, and with so many kinds of mental hangups, that if they never have experienced an orgasm before or not even an intense one, they aren't even interested to learn. Almost all of them are not interested, and become irritated if you try to show them new things, and are just totally prudish assholes and losers. Trust me. I've seen it over and over, and 90% of Women are that way.

For many years in my life, and only really finding 2 stand-out exceptions, I could not understand why girls seem so luke-warm, ignorant and completely unaware in the bedroom, and the only time you will ever understand things is when heated or personal discussions come into play about sexual things or their unwillingness to try certain things.

When the girl is into the sex the same way as you are, it's completely different and there is no constant need for explaining things or dealing with frustrations of issues where it ends up feeling like a chore.

Please note that towards the end of my life, I never relived any of those experiences in any of my encounters for a very long time, all the rest of them were horrible in the bedroom. And that's why in 2015, I called it quits for good.

In fact, one girl I was in a relationship with for some time, as we were breaking up, things would become "revealed" by her to me, even about discussions about sexual things she was turned off by, and she explained how she has like this "switch" in her brain that she can just turn off to where it doesn't matter and she doesn't even think about sex. I even asked her details about sensations when she masturbates and other such things to get an idea, and you would be almost shocked how empty and lacking of any passion or desire within her existed, to the point where she is just constantly confused and indifferent, you'd think she was a robot. Well, they are "robots" in a way...

Monica Almaguer

a day ago ·

One of the reasons married women subconsciously turn off sex after they get married is because for women sex doesn't come primarily through emotional connection. That happens first outside of the bedroom. Through feel seen and heard. In other words. ATTENTION.

Women receive validation of their "worth" by how much attention they get from men they want to get attention from.

The ultimate validation is getting asked to be a wife by a man she is excited by as it is the highest level of relationship form that exists.

So what happens when she has accomplished the highest form of validation from that guy? Does that need for attention and validation go away? No.

She will continue to scan to see if her choice was a good one. She will continue to get attention from other men, and hopefully they are not assessed as being as top-tier as what she landed. And social media will have her questioning her choice all the time!

Why is this important to know?

Because once you already have something, it's not that it's buyers remorse. It's that you just take things for granted. You forget how hard you worked to land the man.

And this is why a man must come off as almost cocky and arrogant with his wife as to his worth in the relationship. Because your confidence in knowing that you are her best option allows her to stand by her decision.

If she ever gets the idea that she can do better then have at it...tell her "I'll help you pack your bags. But if you leave, don't think you're coming back."

A man can't show any jealousy he feels because what does that say to her? Jealousy is a fear that someone else is better than you and you believe they actually have a chance.

She has to believe you are her best choice, but YOU have to believe it too and operate the relationship with that knowing.

And if you come back up that confidence with actual real life experience of women hitting on you in front of her, then that's just going to make your relationship better. Because she has external validation of your worth.

I wish loyalty carried the relationship but it just doesn't. And this is why as awful as it sounds... a woman must be reminded that her decision was a good one. Because society will be telling her left and right that she has an infinite amount of options.

And this is why when you accept a low effort, sexually selfish wife when she's perfectly physically capable of showing up you are silently sending her the message that you are NOT her best option. But rather she is yours.

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