How I Lost Interest In Women Over Time & What It Takes

I understand that it must be extremely difficult for younger Men, no matter what we know or can see about Women, to let go of the sexual urges over them, but I figure I would give my own life experience perspectives as some reflection material for what might help you overcome your own situation, regardless of what stage you are in, at your life.

As I have told you in my whole life of regrets looking back, that my #1 regret is not about things like not traveling the world enough or things I should've done but didn't, but my #1 regret is how much time, effort and other losses I endured from involvement with Women.

Realistically as I had mentioned, there are only 2 of those Women out of all, maybe hundreds of Women I ever talked to in my life, that actually made a valuable experience in the time that I did anything with them, but the rest were nothing but a total drag and a net negative, and did not even leave a memorable thought even reflecting over it this many years later. In other words, they are forgettable experiences.

And this is also where I am being ultra conservative and choosy in the hindsight of things compared to all the other experiences I had, and also from decades when things were far easier and less troublesome with Women.

In fact, if it were only those 2 girls I would have ever had experiences with, I would've been fine with that and say to scrap the rest of them, because the rest are not all that memorable, not by a long shot.

But I wish the Men of my time were much more open about the reasons I was constantly warned about how much Women were a waste of time and why they should never be bothered to listen to a word they speak.

Nevertheless, my own father knew how much of a joke Women were in his lifetime, but spoke very little about the subject, and did not elaborate more on it until it came closer to his end.

But most Men, growing up, always would warn us to never get married, never have children, and the consensus was always to never bother listening to Women.

In fact, even as I grew up through the Punk Rock era and when Metal Music became big, this was also a huge thing in the start of those scenes too, and in fact while these Music scenes were highly Testosterone-driven, the reason for it being that way is not because the Musicians were against Women in the sense that they were not attracted to them, but it's because even the Rock Musicians at that time had a sense of how much Women would potentially "fuck things up".

While Women have no problem with singing, playing music or talent in Musical acts they get involved in, the problems with their "destructive" tendencies manifested in the lyrics, whereby it's been a non-stop assault since the 80's of promoting Music with Feminist themes, and also where even the likes of Madonna would sing "A Man Can Tell A Thousand Lies".

All these decades of Music promoting poison in their lyrics, has thoroughly shaped the youth and the behavior of Women today, and I believe that many Male Musicians saw this risk.

The problem with Women, is that I could sit here all day long like anyone's grandfather to tell them how much of a waste of time and how pointless Women are, and it still would never really "settle in" the minds of Men, but also is the fact that I would have to gain the trust of my listeners to not believe that I am trying to sell them any kind of agenda or purposely keep them away from having fun with girls, but that is the problem, because my own disappointments and understanding of Women over a lifetime, show me exactly why many of the Men from my time despised Women later in life.

It's not just the annoyance of Women being a HUGE financial expense in Men's life, but as you spend time around Women or involve them further in your life, you begin to see that their lifestyles, and the way that they spin lies become a total DETRIMENT and inconvenience that completely ruin your own life and disrupt the "order" or things you have going on for you, along with sucking away your life's energies.

And I made those mistakes. Regretfully. Even once I developed a strong cynicism for Women but still involved myself to some degree with them, but I became very disgusted with basically everything they are, and while years ago I may have suggested that we should not "knock" them for having menstrual cycles, even in more recent years I think we basically should knock and insult the fact that they have menstrual cycles and bleed everywhere. Fuck 'em.

The problem I've seen with Men and Women my whole life, is that Men are far too patient collectively to believe or have future hopes in Women, even  Women they are either currently in a relationship or married, to think that the Woman will absolutely see him in the same framework that he sees her, and eventually come to appreciate him more.

But he ignores the fact that the reason she does not appreciate him the way he wishes, has all to do with the fact that Women lack empathy, are not visual, and are generally NOT thoughtful.

Women lack so much empathy and dislike for Men, that Women don't understand why a Man wants a cold beer after mowing the lawn, or why Men leave drink cans of Soda or Beer around, or even when socks are misplaced.

And I  shouldn't even have to explain these things either, but any Real Man himself knows exactly what I am talking about.

And these same Real Man also understand how much of an annoyance it is to have some "bleeding" specimen around them who nags and mocks everything they do, even throwing a fit over Men who are usually good at preparing for the future such as with rations, or say you buy a whole bunch of charcoal, or buy some new speakers that she doesn't like and gets angry, or whatever the case is.

Women basically despise all hobbies Men are into, and no Man can be truly content with a Woman who he feels he needs to ask "permission" to buy something and possess or store it in the house.

Such Men become total pussies, and I see this as a majority of Men nowadays.

The thing is that, while Women are fun to look at, and might be fun to fuck, everything about them is basically not even tolerable, in my experience.

I also cringe how fake most Women are, and in fact, a lot of times when I were dating or in relationships with some Women, just some of the things they said alone because you could tell they were trying to pretend to be a certain way or were just utterly naive and sounded foolish, became a huge turn-off to me that I didn't even want to have sex with them after a while.

Even Make-up sex is NOT something I can do, and clearly this is the activity of psychopaths who get a thrill from this, but if I become angry at Women and we fight a lot, I want them sexually less and less, and even to the point where these annoying bitches will start insist I must be "cheating" on them, and then they end up actually tempting me because of that, to go out and find someone new. Which I usually just ended up breaking it off anyway.

Most of the relationships I've been in, I was the one who dumped the girl, and I was surprised to learn later in my life that this is unusual because most Women are the ones who dump Men, but what I realized is that I actually have a much shorter fuse when it comes to many Men, less patience, and no tolerance for things with Women when I don't get my way, or if they are not pleasing.

Men stick around FAR too long, and invest far too much in Women.

The thing is that, it becomes a very lonely existence for you to be involved with a Woman who does not see eye to eye with you, isn't into the same things you are into and not for the same reasons either (even if she is), and where they constantly make bad decisions that imperil your own life.

What I had realized in many relationships, is that many of the so-called "successful marriages" and "relationships" you see out there, especially if they are long-term, that in almost all cases, these Men are actually paying up through the ass creek and taking all kinds of other beatings in their own identity and personal life, just to keep Women around.

But these Men NEVER talk about it with other Men. They rarely do, because they think it will make them "less" of a Man or make them look bad.

Fundamentally though, Men and Women really have nothing in common. Not on any level.

And I cringe in disgust every time I hear how Women want to try to convince themselves or others, that Women fall in love based on "feelings" for a Man rather than the way he looks, and that they can "learn" to Love a Man.

It's just so disingenuous, and once again, why it's pointless to get involved, even for sex, with a Woman who is not visual.

I remember once some many years ago, that a Woman who was a former co-worker of mine tried to get into "contact" with me, after she had finalized a divorce with her husband, and confessed how much she had the "hots" for me, and while nothing ended up coming out of her re-establishing contact with me because I was not interested in her after all that and her life having children and so on, I did ask her something about her taste or attraction in Men, including from where her "husband" stood.

Because her husband had a large beer belly (like a beach ball belly), but yet she told me once out of nowhere how much she found her husband handsome, and when we broke things down about her remarks on that or the importance of looks, she basically confessed to me about how while she typically would never go for an overweight guy, that sometimes you just "fall" for someone and then none of it all matters and you easily overlook it.

And I completely was in total disgust from her remarks on this, and how shameless she was to suggest that.

Such Women like this (and they are the majority) are dangerous, and it also is indicative of a lack of personality and identity, and usually coupled with low-self esteem.

The sex will never be good.

The thing is too, I began to realize with her, but also many other countless Women I have dealt with in my life, that everything they say about "standards" or their "beliefs" are nothing but a crock of shit, and that it all goes out the window once they decide on someone, every time.

Logically speaking, for a Man, it makes no sense to be involved with someone or to invest in them, when they have nothing solid about their personality or beliefs.

And even sexually, I do not feel comfortable having sex with such types of Women either, and I have found that Women who are not visual, outside of being "boring" in the bedroom, also respond or act certain ways during sex that completely destroy the mood, because they have sex for completely different reasons than pleasure and intimacy.

This is really a KEY point, and you will notice this because when you have sex with them or after the fact, that there seems to be a lack of "rhythm" or mutualism on what you are both doing or what is wanted, and this makes you want to do nothing more than get yourself dressed up fast in your clothing and getting the hell out of there.

Intimacy from sex, is NEVER something that should be negotiated away from, even from a casual sex encounter, regardless of what your feelings are about casual sex, if intimacy is not automatically there, and if the girl is not visual and not sexually aware, she is utterly worthless to have sex with.

The problem is, however, that almost all young girls are not capable of intimacy and it actually disturbs them, they have a huge problem with it, which is even more bizarre with the fact that they will show off their bodies the way they do and have some of the highest body counts that were almost rare even for Porn actresses decades ago.

Women overall, are just a totally bad deal. They just ruin your life, even in ways seemingly that you would never think they would before.

For example, when you live with Women, they love to throw random "shit" of yours away, which also demonstrates that they lack respect for you, or even the labor that goes into products.

Women will randomly throw away t-shirts, or hair gel, or maybe some special thing you like, even food that they think is "bad" even when it's perfectly fine, and honestly I feel like slitting their throats the moment I find that they do shit like that.

Men also need to get it into their heads, that MOST Women (with the exception if she is visual), are NOT anywhere near as into sex or physically interested in Men, the way Men are about them.

And it should be obvious enough based on how much Women generally ghost Men in society.

The experience of when a Woman is really into the sex in general and does it for attraction towards you, is a night and day difference, compared to Women who suddenly "decide" in their minds that they like a guy, which are the most dangerous specimens you can get with.

The problem is trying to determine how they arrived and when they did, at their desire or interest towards you, and that you weren't just based on her suddenly "whimsical" feelings.

You will NEVER want to be involved at all with Women who like you because of the way you make them "feel".

Because this ultimately means you will become a "Slave" and a "Doormat" to her, because you will always be at the mercy of the ways she suddenly "feels", and you'll know if you'd been in a relationship or marriage like those, because those types of girls always pull the random "We need to talk..." or "I'm not happy" or "I'm not feeling the same way anymore about you like I used to." and so on.

In this type of relationship (or marriage), the Man must constantly change and adapt to her ever-evolving needs and demands, all to prevent her from leaving him.

There is no genuine attraction.

The scary thing is that most Relationships and Marriages (over 90% of them) are based on this, the so-called "feelings" which are just feel-good chemicals in the brain, and often are roused from Men giving them money or paying for things.

She is not into the "guy" for who he is, and his looks.

The breaking point for me in my life is when you eventually come to realize that basically, all Women are the same, and that all Women have this particular "weakness" and "cringe" factor to them in how they navigate the world including your relationship that make them completely unattractive and a turn-off to be with, after a while.

I also hate how childish Women are, and how much you have to teach them everything because they are so naive about everything and always do the bare minimum, constantly.

The sick part too is that if you are a person who is very hot-headed and get angry often and easily, many Parasitic Women love guys like that (and for very bad reasons), because they are feeding off of the negative energy from your frustration and in the way you get angry.

They will also try to find more ways to make you angry going forward.

I also found that Women become such a huge distraction from the order of my life in the way I like to do things, or things I wanted to do, people I wanted to meet in my lifetime or special events, because for some reason, Women always seemed to fuck things up and make it hard to plan for these things that I wanted to do.

They just ruin everything, even my own hobbies.

For example, I once was even filming some birds on a trip I did with a girl I was in a relationship with, and she couldn't even understand how I was cueing her to be silent as I was recording some video footage, and she ended up spoiling the whole footage because she was talking while I was recording it, and I wanted it to NOT have any Human voice and told her ahead of time.

Then afterwards, she tried insisting how "you will spend all day with the birds but not me", even though I was nearly around her almost every moment and while we were on a vacation trip together.

Shit like this completely angers me and makes me feel imprisoned in the relationship and immediately shuts me down and makes me lose any sexual desire for them that I once had.

It also makes you feel like you constantly need to justify yourself, and just shows that the girl herself is not even interested in your activity on any level.

Women generally have absolutely NO RESPECT for Men's hobbies or personal interest, so how the fuck can we even be bothered to have them around in our personal lives!?

I also came to despise how much Women will wait until the last minute to tell you something important, especially like something broken, or something that could have been "mitigated" much easier if they told you early on.

These are the ways Women will ultimately destroy your life.

I also despise everything Women do with endlessly smiley faces in text messages, or how they become obsessed with a new word that they discover and they act very corny about it, and I also despise how much they try to act like they are properly informed about something that they talk about when they actually don't know jack shit.

It makes me resent them, massively.

You can never also feel like you can fully be yourself around Women, or they are also constantly misinterpreting the way you are because of either your habits or how you do things, or say if you even fall asleep at random times.

You get tired of having to justify everything, and also how Women get suspicious of everything when there is no reason too.

Most of my relationships eventually evolved to where we would be constantly fighting and having war matches and me screaming, punishing them, breaking things and wanting to constantly unalive them.

In the long durations of time I've spent away from Women, and especially now as it really makes no sense at my age, I have realized how much more balanced and less problematic my life is, and how  much there are not all these other constant expectations they have of you to live up to something where you can't even have "down" moments in your  life, and I will tell you that having this life balance and the ability to completely be yourself around yourself, is never worth giving up to simply have a Woman around in your  life.

While Men even feel or believe that "absence makes the heart grow fonder" and might believe that in times when he is not around the Woman that he develops stronger feelings for her, her feelings in fact begin to decline, and Women do not consider the portion of time for any reason that you are not in the relationship, as time you were involved.

Most Women will even cheat on you if you are away from them for even 2 - 4 weeks, which I had experienced such situations like this only because of making arrangements to "move" from one location to another to be with them, and that is a stupid mistake I wish I never made those attempts in my life, and if I could go back and rewrite my own life I would have put a stop to those things.

Another thing you'll realize about Women, is that when you take them to places or introduce them to friends or other people you know, is that Women say some of the stupidest or most inappropriate things that look bad on you, and I have had so many countless experiences of this in my life.

When you realize the total price it comes down to, just to have a pretty looking thing with a nice ass around your house, the price still does not end up being justified in the end.

One thing I will say that Porn will deceive many Men to believe, is that you can ever often reach a sexual experience with Women were you both climax at the same time. While of course, "possible", it's extremely rare to find such sexual compatibility, and especially because Women have sex for completely different motivations than Men do.

Women aren't even into sex for the sheer fun of it, most aren't at any rate.

At that point, it becomes hard to really want Women.

I really do believe Men and Women need to ultimately call it off between each other. For better or worse.