Another Note On Provider / Gatherer Relationships & Marriages
While many of you may have already recognized that I have already implied this in my writing over and over about the topic, but I would like to address this fact.
Even in so far as a Man and Woman may enter a relationship or marriage under total agreement or consent that they wish to be Provider and Gatherer / Nurturer role, it is important to recognize that under no circumstance can these relationships ever be authentic.
Both partners put on a daily act to coexist and get along which is why you'll often hear many of these type of couples talk about how they make compromises or have learned to give up some things to get, or that they put differences aside to get along, or how they supposedly have a "happy marriage" but also a difficult one.
These people are often passive-aggressive and borderline psychopathic in convincing themselves and trying to convince others that they really like and love their spouses.
But they are afraid to look at themselves in the mirror to confess to themselves that they got with their partner based on an idea, rather than attraction and genuine, natural interest.
A lot of times you'll hear such types add in some religious tangents of words such as how the Lord Jesus Christ saved their marriage or that they willingly give up certain things or try to be pleasing to their partner because the Bible states that God asks that of them and they want to respect God's commands, etc.
The relationships or any so-called "Love" or "Emotions" will be fake, especially more so coming from the female but meanwhile the Man will just be living an identity crisis of his own making so that also makes him not authentic in the process, and he may have even convinced himself to be with someone he doesn't even like, just because of these fabricated "ideas".
Unless there is absolutely physical and sexual attraction that is mutual, it's 100% Fake and Doomed, no matter how much these rabbits want to just blindly follow their own biology.
It is so much worse than we know, isn't it?
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