Great Anti-Natalist Commentary featuring Schopenhauer...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=diPCUWuumvY
WOW... JUST WOW...
I was listening to this last night while unpacking things from a long day of work. Holy shit was I blown away listening over my own thoughts being spoken in this video, although I am not sure which ones were the "narrated ones" exactly versus all of Schopenhauer's views here, but one really important point was made which I have often spoke about with when parents always talk about or show their "excitement" for the first time when their children speak or experience something from the same time.
I might have missed that Schopenhauer mentioned it, but it's crazy how he also came to the same understanding, because I've always said that those short bursts of happiness and excitement, are actually not "True Happiness", and not only that those experiences are very very small and short-lived in contrast to all the burdens and negative experiences with raising children, but the fact is that HORMONES are what make people see it as something "HUGE" or "MEANINGFUL", not Reason.
And it's not rocket science either, to understand whether it's Hormones or true "Will" that influence your feelings or happiness behind something.
The proof of that is that the same "child", once they become an adult, if they report back to their parents about the first time they tried some "New Restaurant" or "Experience" of some kind in life, it will likely not incite the same type of exciting response, and certainly not one where they will feel compelled to tell everyone else about it.
Although it is possibly, the enthusiasm will usually be more revolving around the parent only being curious to then have the opportunity to first experience something, say a new restaurant or going skiing or something for themselves, as their daughter may have tried out.
Schopenhauer likely was well-informed, as one of the best thinkers in world history and especially German history, I'd expected as much from him, in being able to recognize that all the micro-obsessions that many Parents have with their children were only tied into hormonal changes and attributes, and that they had more to do with the biological programming to perpetuate the species, rather than a Natural emotion or feeling of excitement.
I mean, think about it deeply. All the romanticization about raising "babies", the only reason a baby comes out as an "infant" in its "infantile" form that parents claim to love, is because it originates from a template to create a payload. An infant, is essentially a compressed Human payload only because a full-size Human cannot come out of the physical body.
Ask these same parents, if their children came out born as Full-sized Adults, already grown and not needing to be raised, would they really love and care for them and take such interest in them all the same!?
This is a question that if you ask people, I guarantee you that you will get "deer-in-headlights" looks and dead silence, and discomfort because parents never thought of it that way and the question bothers them.
It's really frightening when you think about it deeply, because when you question things further including this "programming", you cannot help but to begin to question what entities created us, and it leads back to the whole aspect that we live in a creation that is designed to serve the interests and desires of other "beings" rather than us. It's just so obvious.
Great points illustrated about how the Men who've contributed most to society, have almost always been Men who never have children. One left out on that list was surely the Austrian Painter, even while promoting Pro-Natalist policies.
I was even blown away by the Narrator comment about how the great "Pharaohs" who were buried, have a "legacy" today of tourists who take selfies of themselves over their tombs! That really hit hard with me.
The other thing here truly that I was super impressed with a point that was harped upon, was the fact that the ONLY reason that Men feel a purpose or excitement in the way they do for having the child even to the point of burdening their lives for the sake of the idealism behind raising children, is because the biological impulses and hormones influence the Men to look at it from a standpoint as turning their purpose to having children or raising a family in general.
And the point that was mentioned because while you can attribute a purpose to anything in life, it's only the attribution of purpose to having children or their specific children, is what prevents their whole mental world from collapsing where they fall into depression or see things for what they really are.
I think if there were any videos online that narrated some of Schopenhauer's views and if anyone still had doubts about why it's not worth it to have children and why one should never second-guess any regrets later in life or feeling insecure about their decisions to not have children, I'm telling you guys, THIS ONE IS IT!!!
Thanks for the lost. AS is a god.
ReplyDeleteGreat points here,
ReplyDeleteI actually feel so free & feel a weight off my shoulder the more I realize how much freedom I have without children. I also feel pretty young & like myself living this way.
I'll admit, I used to wrongly see benefits to having kids, especially as a solution to the european population problem- which I now don't believe- the real solution would be extreme depopulation, in all countries. Without that, it'll still be a shtty place even if more better 'genes' get brought in. Also tons of europeans are not great people either, so....
But back to the kid issue, I also notice that people who have kids are almost always the ones who end up working the typical 40+ years fulltime urban/subruban slave life, living in the same place they often don't like, never moving or doing much, because they have to stick it out for their kid.
You can't even live certain lifestyles with them. Like I've been planning to move to a rural area, off-grid. If I had kids I don't think I'd be able to do that because of education & socializing issues & I would hate having to homeschool them because that would likely make them dislike me & it would be too much work for me. Moving off grid was the only real opportunity for me to work only 2 days a week & live a calmer more enjoyable life surrounded by pretty scenery & have more self-reliance.... I would hate having to work that long full time in an ugly basic suburb.
I'm also planning to go on vacation during my only 2 weeks off in the year-,
If I had kids, you already know that would be impossible because school is in session, or at best I'd have to bring them with me which would cost thousands & wouldn't feel like much of a vacation.
And ever since u mentioned psa how females age badly who have children, I can't help but see that almost everywhere. I notice mothers often look manly & exhausted & bitter or 'bad btch' energy. They also seem more prone to weight gain, & their bellies can look very deformed after giving birth.
I also don't like as you mentioned PSA, the love you have for your partner get's redirected to the children- but look if I had a partner who loved me I would want to enjoy that as long as possible. I think love from a partner is even better than love from your parents, so just loseing that in a short matter of years if you have children soon after would be very dissapointing.
There's also this 'forever young' vibe I get from people who don't have children. Or maybe it's a forever 'themselves' vibe, but whatever it is, I'd rather have that than become mature & parently or drained from a kid who is essentially a stranger who could end up being someone I don't like depending on what genes they get.
Sooooooo, yea. I guess I;m not complaining that I don't have children:).
@T345,
DeleteSome good points in there and yes as far as the European Population problems, what makes life very complex is that there are both Macro and Micro perspectives or notions on specific problems that are existential.
The Birth Rate problem for Europeans, unfortunately, is a Micro-problem.
What that means is that people focus more on the Micro aspects of why this problem exists, rather than the Macro aspects.
In the Micro-aspect, it means that European Nations are collapsing and the replacement levels do not meet the required numbers of births for these Nations and Cultures to continue.
In the Macro-aspect, the Birth Rates are low for multi-faceted reasons, some of which are from the after effects of Two World Wars that devastated the continent, and the fact that the genetic pools were permanently altered from these wars and changes that ensued after 1945, particularly with so many Decent Men dying off, and only scoundrels being left as the "Masses" who continued on in all of Europe and America after that point.
It also had a worldwide effect as well, because much of the Post-War and Economic Policies that were largely decided upon by Great Britain and America at that time, had ripples and ramifications that went Global, especially by the time the 1960's and 1970's arrived.
So that means that many Non-Western Nations also began to harvest the same ill fate of problems that existed in Western Culture.
Alas, even in 2025, China now has its own problems with Feminism and even McDonalds in its own country! 2 Products which were never creations whatsoever from Chinese Culture or History.
But to get back on topic, so yes, we have Macro aspects to this problem, and those factors are rarely ever considered when looking at the whole situation for Europe because people tend to focus on the immediate need (i.e. New Babies, Future Workers and Generations who keep the wheels spinning) and what not.
All the policies that have done decade by decade damage to Humans, are also ignored in the process.
But then we finally come to the issue of our own mortality.
What I've come to understand about this world is that no matter how many problems we solve in it, that more problems continue to emerge, and that the problems which are solved in a given time usually do not outlive the century before they are broken or become problematic by a new catastrophe or ruler or becoming conquered to where everything is eliminated once again.
It's crazy, but a large part of our concerns in this world only really exist for the sake that we have to endure this world, and ignore the fact that we have only been alive for a very small duration of life here and that when we die it all never matters anyway.
If anyone was granted a "free ticket" to escape this madness to a world or realm where none of these problems existed, they would immediately opt to redeem that ticket and completely leave this world behind, and there is no blame to be made on this, it's because I believe all people have at least some subconscious understanding that this world isn't worth saving or fighting for, and that also essentially has no worth or meaning to it. People attribute meaning or value to it as a cope only because it's all they know, and they fear the unknown or possibly a non-existent state.
>I also don't like as you mentioned PSA, the love you have for your partner get's redirected to the children- but look if I had a partner who loved me I would want to enjoy that as long as possible.<
Yes, and from my understanding of these attributes on the level of Humans who work this way, it all ties back to their biology but also the selection process from the get-go whereby they saw their "partner" as a reproductive strategy, in other words, they are into them more as a "means" to an "end". The "end" being the "child" and the "means" being the member of the opposite sex to have them with.
@T345, CONTINUED:
DeleteThey view the genetics in that person not as something to appreciate on its own and for that person, but instead for what it can "do" to create another being in their lineage, and my deep, deep research into the ontological factors compared with Biological impulses on this, have shown me that it is entirely rooted in Narcissism and the obsession with imposing themselves against that of others, with their genetic sets, so it actually ends up becoming something very evil in a sense, because they are doing it out of competition and ego-centric desires which are COMPLETELY removed from the person whom they are mating with. To be honest, it actually makes me nauseous!
It took me many years in life to fully confirm and understand these things, not only by my own personal experiences but also by seeing what Women chose what Men for the sake of reproduction, and I had come to realize that Women almost exclusively only ever choose Men for the sake of a provider and protector to raise strong and healthy offspring, completely ignoring whether they like the Man or not whom they procreate with, whether or not they are even attracted to him.
Women naturally know I'm not a "provider type" for example, and so they tend to not see me as someone who would be a specimen to promote their legacy through their offspring.
With Men, there also is of course is their own version of twisted desires with wanting their "legacy" through their Offspring, because it's the Men who believe it should be a right.
Why they care so much in the first place to have children is suspect enough, because children are a great responsibility, but the Men who are insistent upon Women being baby-makers are quite twisted fools!
@PSA
DeleteThis is all so unfortunately true,
The cycle of problems on earth, is pretty depressing, but now that you mention it, It reminds me that I really should engage as minimally as possible with this place & not take it seriously.
Even the way the baby boom happened, it’s great that the population is going down again, but I worry that if the baby boom happened once, it can happen again- at least in a world like this with so many resources. So it feels pointless to even wait on this world to get better or try to ‘fix’ it yourself. Take steps to make your life better- yes. The world or people- no.
It’s also like you said all of concerns that come with engaging with this world, also just never go away…. even though the world ‘improved’ technology & resource wise, it created new responsibilities that have made life very stressful.
>People attribute meaning or value to it as a cope only because it's all they know, and they fear the unknown or possibly a non-existent state<Yup….story of people’s lives….& they’ll get offended if you show that you don’t care about it as much as them because it invalidates their meaning in life.
Slightly off topic, but thinking about this makes me feel like being a ‘hermit’- if only property taxes didn’t exist, I might make it fully off-grid. If I lived in a good weather country that also let me do this, & was very unpopulated. I might even go partially ‘nomadic’ & live near a beach & sit in the sun for hours, perhaps using goats as food or fishing for food. Not doing my civic duty am I
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@PSA
DeleteInteresting how that’s on genetics, I especially can’t believe people who go solely for resources & stability, not even genetics which is also narcissistic- but at the very least the kid might benefit- can’t even believe my eyes when I see some women mostly, settle with someone they don’t like at all who possibly has bad genes- just so they can get the bag- not even the kid benefits from that- & I’d find it pretty distressing to watch my kid go through life experiencing the consequences of that.
Also this goes for the males who settle to- I've seen males go for like... the worst types of females just so they have a partner &/or a child rather than just be single. Like why would u ever want to be around someone like that, much less combine your genes with them?!
Also, surely you’re missing out on life not having that romantic love/connection/relationship with your partner, if anything that’s the best thing! Having kids would pail in comparison to it I imagine, speaking from experience of the one, albeit completely online, bf I had.
If there wasn’t mutual love & enjoyment in that relationship, & I had kids, I would still feel lonely in life… I’d probably feel like they were a roommate & even come to resent them.
This reminds me of Erika & Charlie Kirk. I had this feeling that Charlie liked her because she looks like the stereotypical ‘All american blonde 10”. Which also he as a republican & NPC guy would probably feel like is the dream girl & best partner he could possibly have. Not saying she can’t be considered attractive, but I notice a lack of chemistry on both ends with them. I wouldn’t be surprised if he was one of those guys who mostly choose her for baby-making purposes. Weird imaging that…. Like what do they connect over? Does he mostly only just show interest in her when he wants sx or wants to show her off? Do they just act their roles in the household not sure…. Sorry but a relationship like that seems transactional robotic.
Ughh! So glad you see the problem with this PSA, very feminist of you! Lowkey ironically tho, I think some people would have a more positive affect on gender relations than many so called feminists would.
I forgot to put this in- Child = responsibility, Partner = Unconditional love & free intimcy. Which one would u pick....
Delete@T345,
DeleteYes, indeed!
In fact, as a German, I even look at this world from the standpoint now, with what happened from World War II, even with the most optimistic mindset applied.
The fate for Germany was actually sealed after World War I, truthfully, even I admit this as someone of Prussian descent. Let's be honest about it, Germany and Europe completely were destroyed from World War I alone.
The mood and sentiment was never the same in anyone in Germany or elsewhere since that time.
But Hitler took a country which basically had every unfavorable condition imposed upon the country and himself, and for an actual short duration of time, Germany actually was even in a winning position and rose above the "underdog" status under his Leadership.
At one point, it almost seemed impossible or improbable that the Allies would be able to defeat Germany, we became that strong and had that much support and influence, and it was all too much to the point where the Americans hired the mob to get involved.
So we learn a lesson in all of this. No matter how good, how right or even righteous Hitler was, and even no matter how close that we were to winning, lies and deceptions, particularly from the British circles won and basically took down Germany and evil has absolutely prevailed even stronger ever since.
Very few people detected it at the time, because of a big Economic Boom, but when we lost Germany, Evil rose to a whole new level of confidence and gluttony in its expansion since 1945.
And it's no accident that countries like Germany and Italy, both 5 years after the Post-war period, that the interest of having children in their populations declined SIGNIFICANTLY, no matter what kinds of prospects of "hope" they ever had for the future.
But what these events demonstrate is that no matter how "good" things become, eventually they get destroyed again and again and again throughout Human History.
This tells us, objectively, that there is indeed something fundamentally flawed about this place and our existence here.
And even when Evil is put in its place, it's always just a temporary setback, for an eventual even stronger return.
In fact, I would say Evil is more compatible for this world because of the Law of Entropy, since Creation is much harder and longer to carry out compared to Destruction, so it even makes sense that Evil has an omnipresent home here in this existence.
As far as a "new" Baby Boom, I'd be in a totally hard disbelief about one ever happening again anytime soon, for a whole host of reasons, and if the prospect of it were to return, it would have to be after a major population collapse first.
>Interesting how that’s on genetics, I especially can’t believe people who go solely for resources & stability, not even genetics which is also narcissistic<
This is what I always found insane about this existence, but I began to recognize that no matter how decent I looked, this was always looked in favor for Men who have status, no matter how horrible, overweight, bald or creepy looking like a pedo that a Man is. All of my life, I saw that Women are largely MARRYING these type of Men and having offspring with them. Not concerned in the least of their offspring carrying Pedo genetics or whatever other undesirable traits.
It's much much worse in America I think than a lot of other countries, but it still has prominence everywhere in the world.
As far as my choice!? Partner = Unconditional love & free intimacy 100%.
>This reminds me of Erika & Charlie Kirk. I had this feeling that Charlie liked her because she looks like the stereotypical ‘All american blonde 10”.<
This is EXACTLY what I also saw in Charlie Kirk myself... 100%...
@PSA Yes I agree, truly as great & impressive as Germany was in ww2, perhaps it was too little too late. But perhaps it's an inevitable reality that SOME European populations deserve as a natural consequence to how manipulatable they are & how their own people could not produce as rebellious, independent, & brilliant thinkers as what came out of Germany.
DeleteGermany was definitely Europe's last chance, & unfortunately as you like to say with destiny sharing, the rest of Europe brought Germany down with them.
Shoot, I don't even think British people ever had a revolution in the past 1000 years, except from fighting between the celtic populations they invaded, and then later the norman classes who now ruled celtic lands, fighting between eachother for control.
Even the way they switched from an absolute monarchy to a constitutional monarchy, was a movement pushed by the ruling elite, NOT the people, the ELITE who wanted more power, lmao.
A country like that was never going to be receptive to Germany's vision of the future & values. I don't even think British people are connected to their identity or know who they are. They also have one of the weakest cultures in Europe....
There are definitely more failures throughout Europe, like who controlled Russia after ww2, so I suppose Europe has been long gone for a long time.
And yet ironically you'll see Eastern Europeans & British dance on the graves of the Germans, without realizing they're basically celebrating their own funeral.
And I see the same issue with modern whuuuites to this day.
Yes..... Unfortunately it does seem that about good things don't last in this world....
DeleteI also notice people find purpose in life on 'fighting' evil or trying to improve themselves or their lives- especially in the name of future generations, but how many tens & hundreds of generations of people before us have had that mentality & things haven't gotten much better, if not worse? And outside of that, if we were to suddenly overcome all suffering then what is our purpose?
Now that I think about it, it seems like our whole lives revolve around avoiding suffering aka survival aka avoidance of death. What type of purpose is that?
But yes PSA, that is a great example of the ridiculousness of people! I still can't believe women choose men like that! It is insane, I don't think I'd last very long like that...I'm very surprised you noticed this a lot, albeit I'm out of the loop with most females in this regard. No wonder this world is always bad with people like this around.... I'd hate to be their kid too.
Also I think having sx with someone ur not attracted to would be at least dissapointing, if not repulsive. I wouldn't be surprised if someone like that cheats too.
I wonder if in a few generations this'll come out with the most materialistic people being noticeably uglier, & those less being more beautiful, & maybe that's even happening now...
@PSA I suppose I expected that choice lol,
Deleteslightly different topic but I also don't get why people are so into hookup culture. Like if you like sx that much wouldn't it make more sense to just stay with one partner, you can do it more & not have to engage in the whole pickup game.
If the younger generations supposedly love sx so much, I don't see why hooking up is preferable to just having one partner.
I heard hookup culture was pushed by degenerate sources like hollywood, so no wonder....
@PSA
Delete>This is EXACTLY what I also saw in Charlie Kirk myself... 100%...<
I'm glad to see it isn't just me!
Another thing I forgot to mention that your comment about good things not lasting reminded me of is, the few times in my life where I felt like I liked & naturally got along with someone, I only knew them for a short while.
And ironically this only happened when I went to Minnesota for summer camp & like one time on a plane.
Another issue I've found is there've been times in my life I actually had a lot of potential with someone 'friendship' or relationship wise, & we were actually very similar & could get along well, but the issues I inherited from certain family & life traumas, or a bad result from mixing or brainwashing from early in my life, ruined my ability to fully connect with the person.
Not sure if it's some ethnic difference to because I live in a pretty ethnically diverse city, & the whuite people here are largely either Irish, italian, eastern european, etc & the people in minnesota are more german I've read- but whatever it is,
for a personality like mine & the values I hold I just don't trust or feel on the same 'wavelength' as certain people, I just know we don't understand or relate to eachother or would agree. This makes it harder for me to open up or naturally socialize with them.
Sigh..... another issue with the life & country I was born into.
Also PSA, I notice a lot of people on this blog happen to be mixed, do u think it's just a coincidence?
I want children because I want to give them the best possible nutrition, upbringing, and life because I want to see what potential my genes were always capable of under the right conditions.
ReplyDeleteYou’re telling me you realized how much damage bad parenting can do, including what your own parents did to you, and you never felt the urge to try again, to do it right this time?
If I had a daughter or even more so, a son who grew into a Chad, then I would feel it was more than worth it.
@publicusername1488,
DeleteBut you see, the problem here is this all boils down to what "YOU" want... Not what your child wants... That proves that your desire in having children is rooted in Narcissism, and that is more than certain your own genetic potential comes from a lineage of Narcissists.
The fact is that Non-Narcissistic people, have been breeding less and less and less, and especially less since 1945 and beyond.
Your genes were created by the Elojim, so it's kinda redundant or a moot point to really be all that curious what your "genetic potential" is capable of, because nobody is born choosing what genes they get to have, and you don't even own the rights to your genes or your own body.
Your body is a genetic experiment in somebody else's laboratory, and souls are endowed or embodied within some of these physical flesh vessels.
I've always had the urge for sex, but I've never once had the urge or desire, nor curiosity to have children. For me, it just never made sense, and it actually seemed downright terrifying.
>If I had a daughter or even more so, a son who grew into a Chad<
The fact that you used the word "Chad" to refer to what would be a handsome Man, well, that pretty much explains and sums up everything there... ::sighs::
You’re right that part of this comes down to what I want, but that doesn’t automatically make it narcissism. The main thing I want children for is love and connection: to create something beautiful in the world and give someone the conditions to genuinely enjoy life. I wouldn’t place expectations on them; they’d be free to become whoever they are.
DeleteAnd yes, I used the word Chad intentionally. There’s nothing wrong with acknowledging that good-looking men are treated better in this world, especially growing up. I don’t care about my child’s appearance for my sake, I care because I know how much it matters for them. That’s realism, not vanity.
You say you’ve always had sexual desire but zero urge or curiosity about children. Sv3rige, in his infinite wisdom, is right on this: if you have an appetite for sex, then you want children. There’s no deep philosophical mystery here. What stops it is fear, by your own words, not some higher insight.
@publicusername1488,
DeleteOkay, but then what comes after you do all those things by raising the children the way you want them to be, good nutrition and so on and to see the potential of your genetics.
What if you find out they don't really like existing here, and also show you no respect even after you do all those things for them?
Or let's say they become majorly ill after all the efforts you put towards their good health.
Even if you do all the right things, the fact is you won't be around someday to see the bulk of their existence or capabilities anyways, and someday they also will have a funeral.
So that means everything you would have done "positive" was technically in vain, and never really mattered in the long run of things, and especially not at all as far as the universe is concerned.
The world is not a very beautiful place, so the ideas of adding beauty to it are more idealistic than realistic to say the least.
It's just what it is.
>You say you’ve always had sexual desire but zero urge or curiosity about children. Sv3rige, in his infinite wisdom, is right on this: if you have an appetite for sex, then you want children.<
If that's the case, then why have I always been obsessive about not getting a girl I was with pregnant and even have nightmares about the scenario of having children?
I don't identify with this burning, aching desire for children that some Men and Women seem to express, it's very distinct, even outside of their sexual appetite.
The whole notion of feeling "incomplete" or a life wasted by not fulfilling some "capability" of my reproductive organs, has never been a "thing" for me like these types of people describe.
You (or Sv3rige mainly in this instance) are confusing the tricks and traps our biology uses into getting us to desire wanting to engage with an act with someone in order to keep the species going. But that does not simply mean that I willfully want to get someone pregnant.
You keep saying nothing matters, everything is in vain, and the universe doesn’t care, yet suddenly it’s treated like the end of the world if a child doesn’t like existing, doesn’t respect me, gets sick, or dies someday. That’s incoherent. If nothing matters, then none of those scenarios matter either. You can’t run full nihilism and then selectively panic about possible negative outcomes.
DeleteIf my child were genuinely hurting from existence, not a phase, not confusion, and truly done with it, I wouldn’t cling to them out of ego. I don’t own their life. Helping them exit humanely would be a responsibility, not a failure. Respect isn’t required either. I’m not creating a slave. I’m not raising them to succeed inside NPC institutions or become a good little worker unit. If they respect me, fine. If not, also fine.
When you say “you (or Sv3rige) are confusing the tricks and traps of biology,” that tells me you fundamentally don’t understand Sv3rige at all. There are no tricks here, there is only nature. Sv3rige isn’t tricked by nature. He aligns with it. He doesn’t moralize against biology or try to escape it, he cooperates with it, even when it’s brutal or immoral in the eyes of slaves. He’s a willing accomplice to nature, not an NPC fighting it while pretending to be above it.
And nature rewards that alignment. You actually do want children, the desire is there. But your fear is stronger, and it eclipses it. That fear has taken the driver’s seat.
The way out isn’t avoidance or intellectualizing it into philosophy. It’s harmonizing with the fear itself. Let it come up unresisted. Let it make you uncomfortable. Let it shake you, overwhelm you, even “destroy” the version of you that’s clinging to control. When you stop fighting it, the message that your body, or animal side wants to send, gets delivered. And the fear subsides. And then there is peace.
@publicusername1488,
DeleteExactly, keep it coming, because it's the same rhetoric all abusive parents (or parents to be) use because of their egocentric desire to justify their decision.
But your comments prove that you don't actually care for the child yourself.
You care for what the child can do for you, how it can impress you or please you, it is an object.
Interestingly enough, even AI admits that parents mostly have children for selfish reasons, and while I'm no advocate for AI, it puts that information together based on common knowledge about this subject.
I don't think you understand something fundamentally about me or why I don't want children.
There is ultimately no purpose to it. I don't want the responsibility of anything relating to it.
You're pretty dumb if you can't see out of this ideological framework about just because someone likes to have sex that it means they want children.
That's something a neanderthal would think.
Nature is not your friend, nor one of Goatis either. Eventually Nature starts to turn on you, especially after you reach your 40's.
As you get older, you'll understand. I won't spoil it for you.
"It reminds me that I really should engage as minimally as possible with this place & not take it seriously".
ReplyDeleteJust a brilliant comment here.
The less I engage, the better my mental peace.
This includes not promptly returning emails and not working too hard or working at all.
100% Joey...
DeleteAnd yes, you should engage less and not return e-mails as quickly, I've found more than ever lately that the quicker you return business e-mails and calls to customers that they become more demanding, and less tolerant if you even go an hour without returning the call, and they also begin to start developing abusive tendencies in certain ways, even expecting that you'll do more.
They need to be throttled back!
This world is so fucking bizarre these days.
DeleteI said hi to 5 or 6 people at the park today, and only got ONE response...
Now that is just strange...and is more evidence that these people are not human.
@Joey Aragon,
DeleteThe world IS definitely a bizarre place at this time, although as with everything there is an explanation for almost everything, even things we don't know.
But in this case, the evident truth is the fact that for example, America is largely a culture where people innatively do not like one another and never have. The families that came here were largely either from criminals or otherwise opportunists, and they did not settle in this country for cameraderie, in fact, they were usually greedy, so the thing is they naturally want to exploit other people and have no concern or compassion for other people.
Which basically translates to where people lack any civil decency even when being greeted, the first thing they probably think is "What do you want from me!?" or some other nonsense.
America is a fucked up society. To say the least.