At Wits End With The Entire Family... They are Weird Freaks
Honestly I am slightly embarrassed to discuss these matters with you, but between all the changing dynamics, new children and unbelievable situations I see with my remaining family now and their integration with new Family Members who are not blood relatives, I'm finding my way and thought of a brilliant idea to withdraw with dignity and to save my own dignity by completely removing myself from the future.
Let's start off somewhere...
I discovered my family, is either deliberately or otherwise pursuing a Mostly Meatless future.
Almost 90% of the food they now serve at Holidays and Events is plant food, and where meat is treated as an afterthought even in dishes which should have a lot of meat.
In Holidays and past times of Family eating habits for my overall family, the focus on meat was at least 50-60% on average and the rest was a combination of plant-based foods.
They eat like this in everyday life too, it's not just the Holidays. In fact one of the family members has been criticizing their husband over eating too much meat and trying to promote salads.
In fact, the Salad Bowl today was the biggest dish that was served. Only one of the meat items was second place in terms of size.
And they are NOT poor people either. In fact a lot of them make even more than I do. They are well off.
The only exception where full meat is dishes by them is where a full meat item like a Turkey at Thanksgiving is the star of the meal, but even that was smaller this year.
Almost all the food including appetizers are nothing but Junk food.
Chips, Crackers, Dip, Vegetables and Cookies.
Nothing that's actual food.
Not even a single fruit is served.
Year after Year, their cooking skills also are going downhill massively.
I had tended to burned brussel sprouts which were tiny and mushy, ewww.
And now, nobody serves any Potatoes...
Like what the actual fuck!? What kind of German families don't eat potatoes!?
If anything, there should be none of these other Carbs and only Potatoes served.
Yet they serve plenty of bread and all the worst carbs out there, when potatoes would easily be the most healthy carb.
Also of note is that there has been nothing but Lamentations of the dissatisfaction in the new births into the family lately, between clutter, new gifts and no space, even to where it's actually been imposed on me.
There are countless other weird shit too.
Like they hide the trash cans which are nowhere near to be found, especially when you want to throw your trash away.
One of the events that was part of the gathering involved someone putting literal "trash" as decoys for gifts.
The clutter from gifts made the house unwalkable and unsightly like I've never seen in my life holy shit. Even the father of one of the children was complaining.
All power outlets blocked off, many objects covered because of the children and also gated parts of the house and doorknobs you can't turn because they are child-resistant. Felt like being in a prison.
Honestly guys, are any of your families this fucking weird!?!?
I can't believe I'm actually reporting this.
If my other family members were still alive today, they would be absolutely APPALLED from what has become of this fucking family.
I go to my Grandparents house for Christmas. most of my family don’t actually show up for Christmas, they just stay at home. It’s really only me and my parents who visit my grandparents on Christmas, it was the same as pretty much any other year, Turkey, Ham, potato crochets, prawn cocktail (prawns with Marie Rosie sauce on top of salad, the piece of salad was pretty small though) and brussel sprouts and pretty much been like that every year. It does sound like a step up from your family dinners though because there still is a lot of meat.
ReplyDeleteMy uncle did call in with his two kids and his wife later on about an hour before we left. I’m pretty sure more of my family did show up more often a couple years ago, but even then, it still wasn’t much.
Also, the thing about boomers I have heavily noticed is that, they seem to genuinely just live their life based on Idioms and Sayings and it always just has a way of working out for them, so they assume it’ll work for the younger generations and are very stubborn to see otherwise and seem to just think they are better than everyone else.
It is so unbelievably awkward though when I go to areas when most of my family DO actually show up. The only family member I can enjoy talking to is one of my younger cousins, and even then we don’t really have much in common. I will say though, I think there seems to be some sort of issue with some of my really young cousins (babies-toddlers) and they just don’t seem very normal at all to me. I mentioned this to my dad and he got pissed off and said not to say that, and to definitely not say that to their parents. That’s another thing, everything here is so fucking performative. It seems normal and even just part of the culture here in Ireland to be a backstabbing, lying, two-faced piece of shit. I swear the Irish just have an inability to be straightforward with others even when it would actually save hassle, get them in less trouble and doesn’t even benefit them in any way to lie or beat around the bush. It’s like it’s just part of their blood to be completely unable to be decent human beings. Even the way they look is off-putting and beyond ugly. I’m so glad I am unrecognisable as being Irish. People can’t tell I’m Irish unless I actually tell them. And it definitely has a way of changing others to be lynches like them. Even the way they speak just pisses me off and I hate that even I sometimes sound Irish in the way I speak
@zikeKEK
DeleteThe main thing is that Family Dynamics change far too much... In fact, discussing Family topics even outside of the scope of Anti-Natalist biases will probably another big subject I will talk more often on in the future, because family is very different for certain type of people based on their Race or Tribe as well.
For example, I think the large Extended families for Greeks, Italians and also people of Middle-Eastern Descent in general, MIGHT be a lot easier for them in general, because they tend to be a lot more homogenous on every level and in their line of thinking which leaves no stone unturned or confusions and dissonance within the family like it does for other races, but the challenges REALLY begin to mount when other races are introduced.
For example, we also have some French and other races who have mixed into my family in certain parts, and the Germanic and French mindsets are WORLDS apart, and it just adds more to the confusion.
But basically, there is almost nothing really that German left about my family anymore at this point, I'm now being strained at the "upper end" of the Family Tree to reconcile issues as we are fading out and also with how they think of me since I never had a family and quite frankly don't care!
The youngsters growing up now have like only 25% German AT BEST, probably not even that if they were going to get an Ancestry test.
I really am bothered in fact by how Performative families really are, it shouldn't have to be that way, and it's like, you can't talk talk with family about all kinds of things, the worst part is that you can more comfortably talk to a stranger about something sometimes than family.
As far as your Genetics go, yeah, your Irish side is probably subdued and representing a more passive or "recessive" role in its Genetic expression in you, both physically and onto-logically. In fact, sometimes the combination of the ancestry can present a conflict or hesitation in the expression even in part of your personality to where it might disable or leave issue with certain attributes, so that may be why you see the Irish thing the way you do.
>It seems normal and even just part of the culture here in Ireland to be a backstabbing, lying, two-faced piece of shit. I swear the Irish just have an inability to be straightforward with others even when it would actually save hassle<
Couldn't have said it any better! What I also find so distasteful about the Irish is how nosey they are about everybody's business and how much they gossip behind the backs of others, especially for anyone who's earned their way at something in life.
The Irish are insanely two-faced, they act all friendly and smiley with everyone but are actually resentful and jealous of them behind the scenes. So yeah, it VERY MUCH is a part of their culture. Everything you said, I have experienced first-hand in dealing with them, since I live in one of the most Irish states, unfortunately, and they are fucking bastards. Each and every last one of them.
They always just have to be a pain of the ass about things, just because, and basically the only way you can ever get along with them is over liquor. Alcohol plays such a huge role in their life, like I've never seen in anyone. While Slavs are also big drinkers, there''s just something the way that the Irish are about their drinking habits that are annoying AF.
Prussian you know how I could get access to your older blogs and WordPress
Delete@LifeisAScam,
DeleteYes... The old website may have performance issues or broken links / pictures, but that is because the Domain has been shifted to an Archived version of the page, but it has many of the old posts of mine going many years back, just be patient for pages to load:
https://web.archive.org/web/20230506002254/https://prussianamericansociety.wordpress.com
@LifeisAScam,
DeleteMan, speaking of which! It's been ages since I revisited the Archived Site, and with my mental state of forgetfulness, I even totally forgot about the awesome "Tales Of Barbarian Women" section I posted up there!
Hey and also do you have access to the older blog spot archive
DeleteEven the Musician Phil Lynott looks a bit odd because you can see the Irishman in him even though he’s not fully Irish
ReplyDeleteWow. No, your family is definitely weird. To me they are almost evil for not serving enough meat in this “special” occasion. My family would feel disappointed and even offended if we served junk food like chips at these events as appetizers.
ReplyDelete@nothingiserious, They are even more weird than I even can relay through words...
DeleteIn fact, weird is probably the best way to describe them all, and they are not even the "good" kind of weird.
The thing that's most draining is these gatherings are entirely based on the foundation of pretending basically everything, and I just find it to be so draining.
like literally, every single one of them acts FAKE, and FAKE the entire duration of the time.
@PSA At my age I really wish I could have an older family member of your generation, I don’t trust boomers that much, I rather listen to gen X’s than listening to them. So unfortunate they don’t want to take advice from you.
DeleteBy the way, what other carb sources besides potatoes in your opinion are ok to consume?
@nothingiserious,
DeleteThank you, yes the Silent Generation were a lot different than boomers to some degree, although some of my generation fell to the degeneracy that began under the Greatest Generation, because that's where the downfall, particularly of Western Civilization had seated itself, but their "children" were the Baby Boomers who were born with a silver spoon in their mouth from the get-go.
Many in my generation although we did well, not all of our lives were known for being as prosperous and easy like the Boomers, so the Boomers actually are a much wealthier demographic that completely overshadow both generations before them. They lucked out only because they were born during an Economic Boom that was artificial and stimulated from the War-time.
The problem is the Boomers took everything they were given and used it to cement their existence and legacy into the institutions they built up around them to exclusively benefit them while punishing and enslaving the younger generations, and that's why I have a serious problem with them as well.
I may be old, but I did not sign up for any retirement programs and I really dislike the fact that basically all of us are being held hostage in one way or another to the Boomer's fate, because they are in Mass retirement mode.
While there won't be any kind of revolution or anything like that, I do hope some sort of rebellion of sorts rises, even if it just means the lack of participation of Gen Z reaches a tipping point so hard that it threatens the Boomers existence and government checks and other incentives because of unexpected consequences.
That's really the only possibility of things that "could" happen.
Some Gen X are ok, the main thing that is respectable with Gen X is they were truly the last creative generation that still made largely good Music and other things that were worthwhile which I also enjoyed over the years. But many of them are very bad parents, if they had children. Gen X had maintained some of the legacy of the success the Boomers had, but particularly the older or more lucky ones.
Potatoes really by and far are the best Carbohydrates in terms of Starchy or "Complex Carbohydrates" whereas Sugar is a "Simple Carbohydrate". Some of the nutrients are also bio-available and in general just as a starch, it's much more easily assimilated by a long shot compared to other starches, and especially "grains".
I suppose if you were going to take it to the next level down in terms of what is the next best / healthiest or beneficial carb on a "relative" basis, it would probably be either Bread or Rice, depending on where the Rice came from because Arsenic is a huge issue, and many Wheat sources in the world have Glyphosate, especially in the USA.
But the problem is that even Bread or Rice, are a HUGE step down in terms of the consequences of eating them compared to Potatoes, because they expand in the stomach and act almost like a "glue" clogging up the gut, even irritating the Intestinal Wall "microvilli". They are almost entirely worthless calories.
With a potato, the most unhealthiest part of the Potatoes are the skins, which can easily just be cut away with no issue. Potatoes have Vitamin C, Potassium and B Vitamins, so they at least serve some micronutrients in the process whereas most Carbs only serve as a Macronutrient. Like Rice for example and Wheat are mostly nutritionally bereft.
@nothingiserious, On that note about the carbs, Pasta is even WAY WAY worse than Bread, which sucks... It is extremely bad in how it affects the Pancreas and Insulin. Pasta is actually considered one of the biggest Diabetic triggering foods, particularly because of how it's processed and the changes that it undergoes from being cooked, especially overcooked, it's even worse.
Delete@PSA Thanks for the advice. I tried to avoid grains like bread even before knowing of Goatis, in the long run it will make us sick and provoke irreversible damage to the gut. Rice makes me lethargic but yeah is not that bad compared to pasta, so glad we used to eat it 2-3 times per month maximum back home because it’s definitely famine food and way more processed than rice and bread, there’s a reason Goatis hates pasta aka grain sludge so much, even more than bread, he hates it too much lol
DeleteThat’s true, they were the last generation that made the best music, I never thought about this. Gen Z have shitty taste in music they only listen to rap. They don’t like metal. Even though some have interesting taste in music like the guys who make Goatis’s edits but in general they either listen to rap or some “too soft” type of music, or just mainstream pop. I used to listen to more music 8-7 years ago than I do nowadays, I can’t enjoy it anymore because I’m mostly depressed. I feel like an old angry grandpa sometimes.
See, maybe I didn’t have the best taste in music back then but I never understood what guys saw in rap and its subgenres that make them so hooked to it, not only the lyrics are awful and transmit a degenerated message but the so called singer don’t even sing.
When I think of Millenial music Imagine Dragons comes to my mind and yeah indeed their members are composed of Millenials, so it’s not a great start… Some people online have recognized how some media (movies, videogames, programs, etc.) produced by Millenials are inferior in quality compared to previous generations, and they are known for injecting a lot of political BS in their products as well. Zoomers are too busy rotting their brains with TikTok after attending their cult called Gym and cancelling people, so we will never know how well they can produce music for example.
In which ways the Gen X are bad parents? Also do you think Boomer’s parents were too strict with them?
Woah.... can't believe the degeneracy reached ur family too,
ReplyDeleteI mean, you'd think with the likes of you there must be some gene in the family that keeps people away from degenerating but apparently not.....wow!
Europeans are doomed!
Slightly off topic, but I was imagining isn't it crazy how were around these people & they have no idea how anti society we are? Even I would be shocked if I found out my family member agreed with me on certain points, or was a very non NPC anti society type.
But unfortunately the more I talk with my family, the more I see how different they are to me. For example I suggested that they're may be a societal problem that makes finding the right people hard for me in a city like the one we live in, to my sister. My sister said that there was nothing wrong with society socially : |.
Also experiences with my other family members have showed me what a lost cause they are at us ever being on the same page, so yea I know none of them are a certain type of person.
I thought of this because I was just thinking about how some random American family has a PSA in it.... like I would find that crazy if one of my family members was like that, I'm actually surprised they don't seem to pick up on it albeit you haven't mentioned much if they have. Anyway, why can't my family have one of those...?! Kind of jealous
Talking about families... I remember my old therapist told me she gets more business around the holidays, suggesting because of family problems- which really says something about 'family'.
@T345,
DeleteI should be fair to mention that 2 unexpected guests actually did bring some meat based dishes later on including Shrimp after I posted it, but the fact is none of it came directly from my own and it was just by circumstance that they came along, but what's fucked up is that they would not have attended if it were not for the other recent "children" that have been had in the family.
Actually that's what makes this more maddening, because actually in recent years, the get-togethers were very "slim" and did not have all these sudden attendees, up until the recent pregnancies.
But then that goes to show you how fake families really are!
To be honest, this also might make me sound very naive, but it's also because growing up, you kind of only consider your "family" as the one you have in the moment, Grandparents, Great-Grandparents, Uncles and Aunts, Cousins and what not right!?
But over the years, I lost touch with both reality and relatives in the sense of the changes and impacts from the new marital and children decisions they made, and I have been having a "duh" moment about "WHO ARE ALL THESE NEW PEOPLE ALL OF THE SUDDEN COMING TO EVENTS!?"
I forget that the person they marry ALSO has relatives of their own who also come along! And then you are expected to get them gifts too!
To be honest with you, I really don't think I would be happy in any family situation even in the best case scenario, for someone like me, as I'm an Introvert, I think it would have honestly been best if I were born or became an Orphan child, and although there would have been some other consequences to deal with in that, the thing is I find the whole thing with family to be "enslaving" especially since I have no control over everything, and I also seem to be confused about how everyone all seems to interact and be on the same page simultaneously with everyone when I barely know anyone's name and my head is spinning and I can't even concentrate on anything and I don't even feel properly in place.
Growing up, I never really thought about this stuff too much.
It only further reinforces my belief as to why family is a trap and part of our enslavement here.
@PSA Yup.... I don't understand why people can't just accept that their families broken & stay away from events like this, kinda wish family were more like friend groups where you can kind of ghost or simply stop talking to someone you don’t like, without the rest of them ganging up on you or acting like you owe them something.
DeleteI’m sure they’re are people coming to your gathering who are just there to keep the illusion alive for they’re children... - of a happy family & Christmas traditions or something-
But you know what, I think people should stop sheltering eachother from the consequences of their actions and let the rot show because maybe then someone will do something about it.
Ahhh yes, I can’t stand the social ‘atmosphere’ of these events either- probably is partially because of introversion on some level, but I’m sure if families were more ‘natural’ like you say, it would be smoother but for now, I feel similar to when I'm being forced to introduce myself on the first day of school.
> I think it would have honestly been best if I were born or became an Orphan child<
LOL. But I think you’re right, as counter common ‘sense’ as it sounds.
You won’t have to experience loss or hate, or be chained to anyone. It’s probably lonely on some level, but clearly that’ll happen anyway, & I think it’s a smaller price to pay compared to all the suffering from family- which will happen even if they’re good or bad. And some of us I guess suffer more than others in general, so it’s even more important for us to protect ourselves from it.
I’ve actually wished for things like this outside of family too. Things that seem like you’re giving up something that’s supposed to be important, or give you safety or comfort, but really you’re gaining freedom by giving it up. It’s too bad this world is kind of enslaved tho, there are so many things I’d like to do that are not dependent on people or work.
@PSA
DeleteAlso, if someone is a host, even if they think meat is 'unhealthy', at least for the sake of the guests make the meat anyway- otherwise they’re being a bad host because they’re putting they’re wants before the guests! Albeit I understand tweaks to make the dinner healthier but completely cutting out food groups is too far.
@T345,
DeleteFamilies in general, I think have just become so much worse now particularly over time with change as Old Members die off, and New, Undesirable Members come "in", and also with how everyone has changed and become more bizarre after "COVID".
Also, the family "rifts" from the debates about COVID is still a problem even in my own family, and it's annoying.
Basically, my own family's views about COVID and Trump are 2 "forbidden topics" to bring up or debate in particular, how ridiculous is that!? LOL.
After both parents were gone, my relationship with my sisters was done. One of them stole from me, and other one has been a terror as well, trying to steal from me.
ReplyDeleteThankfully, I don't have to worry about them. They are crafty Italians and will treat you very nice, but really just look for opportunities to take advantage of you. They continue to want more from me, but I have to let them go. They are in good shape, and I am glad, because I know my parents would want me to make sure they had their shit together.
One of the biggest reasons for their odd behavior is because of the Jew American Culture that really took away from what my Italian born parents were trying to teach us. They can't make that connection, and have no idea why they do the things they do, like putting money over family. My parents did not teach that.
In Italian culture, family ALWAYS comes first. Money is just an afterthought. Resources are something we can always aquire with hard work and being smart. But, if you are an Italian that values money more than family, you are outcast from everything. You are not well esteemed or valued in our culture.
Of course, the next generation Italian just got too "MTV'ed" and taught the Jew Mind, through media, and CNBC, or Dan Rather, or Fonzi, or some other Jew like Mark Cuban or Al Michaels. It creeps into the household, with a clever trick that is used throughout our lives. That it is normal to be an indecent piece of trash. Same with the public schools. Of course, these institutions are teaching the "Jew Mind". Even that Catholic Church, is another form of Judaism. Very sad. Teaching nonsense, and that is why the Italian communities just died out so quickly in so many parts of the East Coast.
These sisters of mine lost what it meant to be a good Italian woman. They will NEVER understand what happened to them, and why they think they way the do.
@Joey Aragon,
DeleteWow Man, that sucks!!!
It probably has been a growing thing within Italian families, because usually that stuff was not as common in the past.
They are crafty Italians and will treat you very nice, but really just look for opportunities to take advantage of you.<
Yes, I have met some... Actually this is even worse with many Greeks. Greeks [Modern Ones] and depending what region they are from plays a huge role, but they have a knack for gab and are able to make anything sound good, and a penchant for pretending to be broke while having all kinds of multiple cash wads stashed away somewhere.
They have a strong tendency for corruption and finagling stuff, and this is both true with the ones in the Old Country as well as the USA in more recent times.
Correct, the Church or Christianity in general is just "Judaism For The Goyim" as I put it. It's the way to get Aryans hypnotized under the spell of Judaism without them wondering otherwise.
For starters, even though these religions are all large fairytales, one ought to wonder, right, if Jesus was allegedly a "Jew", and the Jews rejected Jesus and did not believe he is the Messiah, than what are these Christians doing wasting their time following Jewish ideas and not questioning then who is this "Secret Messiah" that the Jews are actually waiting for? That would be the most logical questioning process these Christians would have, or why there is so much connection in Christianity with Judaism on every level, including the Old Testament in particular.
Don't trust Italians from Sicily or Naples. These people will take your eyeballs out.
DeleteI don't hear too much about Northern Italians, but my cousin visited and didn't think too much of them.
My mother and some uncles, from Naples, are just off the charts street smart.
My father is from Calabria, and these are the best Italians on the planet. They understand family, have class, and don't put money as a priority in life.
As for the religion and Catholic/Christianity thing, so many just "go along to get along", that they don't want to do the work and find what is truthful. They just play the game with their stupid gay priest and go from there. That is why I can't stand to much of my people, because they don't question things too much. They are just quiet about even going against the powers that be at the time and in the current time. Just going along to get along is there thing. My grandmothers, for example, just revered Mussolini. They never talked shit about the guy. And rarely do Italians talk shit about their government, because they have a fear of them.
Italians are like Jews in many ways, except we put family above money, in most cases. That is really the big difference. Also, we are better at cooking, arts, conversation, making buildings, and just about everything else in this world. I hate that we are similar to Jews though, it really bothers me. Even with some of the big noses. Smh.
I went to the family gathering with a special pig I bought and really like, and I simply ate it half-raw in front of everyone. Some were surprised and scared, but then when they tried the cooked pig, they liked it. What I found funny was how conditioned everyone was to say that it was bad and dangerous while they ate other junk vegetables and processed food. Many looked at me strangely, but I'm not going to waste a good pig for these people. I don't care about them. Besides, I'm also doing this to see who's worth saving, because those who are curious and ask questions aren't completely programmed yet, and that way I save myself from getting to know them all completely, and I already know who's worth it.
ReplyDelete@blood,
DeleteI always think about how interesting it is, to the degree of social conditioning that exists in people.
For example, if I saw someone like Goatis in public but never knew him or anyone else who was suddenly eating raw meat, or if I went to a family gathering or some event where only one person in the group was eating meat raw, years ago before Goatis, I would have just thought "Oh, that's different, I don't see that everyday..." But I might have started a conversation with the person in curiosity how they got into it and had mentioned about certain raw dishes (although not many) that I've had in times past.
But if you notice, most people are absolutely horrified of the notions of eating raw meat... That's how deeply programmed they are, so much so, that they may even not be willing to be friends or to be seen in public with someone who is eating raw meat.
The fact that people still think eating raw meat is bad or strange, proves we are living in, Idiocracy.
ReplyDeleteI bought two nice ribeye on sale, yesterday, and just chowed them down, on the car ride home.
Seems normal to me.
However, the stupid NPC sheep still don't get it. Instead, they go to their local bbq restaurant and eat dried overcooked meat with sugary sauces.
@Joey Aragon,
DeleteOne thing that's interesting too is that between different generations of Family and People in general, if you remember back, I would always hear people who would say that they would treat themselves to Raw ground beef dishes or Steak Tartar or indulging in nearly "Raw" or very Rare Meats, but the consensus always was that they "don't do it today as much" but usually the suspicion of it comes down to the way it's handled or processed... Not that there was something wrong with the meat or animal as such. In most cases where I've heard people who are put off by it, at least people around my age or a bit younger, it was more to do with how Modern Practices have become because you can't trust the source in how they handled it, but I mean, some German Dishes have even historically been raw. So the thing is, Goatis is definitely right whenever he talks about how it's much more that just in recent times that people are more averse to eating Raw Meat compared to times earlier, it seems to be something that spawned the 20th century and bled over into this century.
But isn't bbq like briskets are still supposed to be fatty and rare still not as rare as a blue rare steak but rare enough not to be dry
Delete@LifeisAScam,
DeleteBriskets, maybe, because they are typically cooked to a lower internal temperature regardless. It's an unforgiving cut, so the worst thing is if Brisket is overcooked, especially through BBQ.