Another Brief Reason Why American Society Has More Social Problems

I decided to kind of add this on to the last entry from my experience earlier today too, after reflecting upon what happened.

As bad as things are with Feminism and Gender issues in Europe or anywhere else - and I have spoken about this in many different contexts and topic points -  but the fact is that Americans really have major complex social issues unlike any other country, and I believe a lot of this stems from their "Work Obsession" culture.

Americans are so obsessed with work and chasing money, that when I really observe their interests, they have no Hobbies or Passions of their own outside of work, and I have noticed this to be true for at least 90% of the population no matter what race or age they are.

Americans do not concern themselves with beauty, aesthetics or etiquette in anything because live the most according to a ratrace lifestyle, once again, bringing us back to Goatis in his astute claims that Americans are the biggest slaves on Earth.

How can you build Friendships or Romantic Relationships with the opposite sex, if you are always and only ever working and have no real hobbies, passion or knowledge about anything in life outside of Work!?

It's not just limited to the Lower classes either.

I've found that many Top Tier in wealth categories in much more recent years, are very naive about anything and very skittish, fearful and not very open or unfolded, probably busy trying to "secure" their nestegg / retirement to keep it from others discovering it or something.

The point is that just about everything about American way of life, is completely at odds and incompatible with Friendships or Romantic Relations.

I think in Europe, that people at least STILL have hobbies even if other things are depressing and bad.

If that has changed, let me know, someone please correct me.

But without Hobbies or Personal Interests and Knowledge, it's really hard to see how anyone could connect with another person on any level, even in casual conversation or between acquaintances.

I will tell you another experience I recently had some months ago as well when buying Bird Food, and it happened to be a Hispanic girl who rung the bird food up.

She was not being direct or entirely honest, but it sounded as if she was trying to get into feeding birds herself. She could not answer how many birds she had or identified any, so she is even more newer to it than she presented herself, or she hasn't even started bird feeding at all or doesn't want to or will not admit her living space / quarters situation, and this is how it is with everyone in this country when you talk to them.

But I could tell that she automatically adhered to the American ways of "fake it till you make it", because whenever it comes down to serious discussions with anyone in this country, 99% of the time, my experiences is that when the conversation is too real for them, they get uncomfortable or begin to act strange, or something gets revealed about an inconsistency in what they said.

Although it would not have been someone I would ever had considered, the point is that this is something I notice very specific about Americans, they have this thing where they like to either make things out to seem to be more than they are, even with something they might be into or are hoping to sound more experienced at it even if they aren't, and then become too prideful to admit if they aren't, and because of it, they start behaving "funny" or act non-responsive or want to cut the conversation short.

So it's no wonder why society in America is collapsing as fast it is, not to mention that they are the highest in NPC's in the world for a country, but even as bad as NPC's are, they are nowhere near conditioned to this extreme in other countries. It's ridiculous.

Although this has always been a big characteristic of Americans going way back, many decades, I can say that it is absolutely ubiquitous these days, and it's rare to find anyone in this country who can be completely unfolded, uninhibited and just natural in conversation for any reason, even if it were over small talk, even that's a problem, and yet I hate small talk.

But Americans really ruin everything with their fakeness and ego, and the disturbing part about it is that I notice that they aren't actually aware of this level of fakeness in them, because they view it as politeness or trying to be "liked".

I also live in one of the worst states with Fake people, which is reputedly supposed to be much more "real" and "down to earth" but I disagree with New England or Massachusetts being a place where people are real. They are dreadful and cannot stand one another, just as I cannot stand them, but perhaps it's the real face of America, since most people do not like one another among Americans, particularly when there is no money to be had.

That being said, people here also tend to talk over you so quick and have almost no time to be bothered with not being hasty or going over full details in a proper way, especially on the phone or any interactions, it's like they cannot be bothered, even though it's to their own benefit to properly listen and consider all options.

It got way worse after the COVID lockdowns with how unable they are to even spare 5 minutes to go over all details about anything, they don't want to hear it, don't have time for it, can't be bothered with it.

I've met and known FAR better specimens in states like Washington, Colorado and even Louisiana or Alabama compared to this nonsense here. But the fakeness is still a problem, even in the "slower-paced" Southern States.

I also see that Social Media has become a major vector in terms of how it has perpetuated a sense of "envy" and "disconnect" from others in real life, because of the fact that people lack any real culture or connection here, and they live out of touch with reality how to interact with someone in-person or how to be real. They are almost allergic to realness, I would say.

And it becomes a death spell / vicious cycle for these people as well, because this is the routine and modus operandi that they know of and anything else seems "suspicious" and "vulnerable" to them, even though for the longest time, this is only what Humanity knew.

Friendships or Connections with others only come at the behest of vulnerability. No Vulnerability, No Friendship.

If you are someone who talks like you know something here in public, people more than ever, especially more so since COVID get so uncomfortable and give dirty looks, either because they work too much and don't have time or money to do that, or some other head complexes they have, and it's been really really bad this year with how people are like this.

It's not just Women either, because I was having a conversation with a Male bartender at a Microbrewery some months ago, and while at first the conversation seemed to flow normally, it became hostile in a passive-aggressive manner shortly into my stay, probably since the guy doesn't get out a lot, and also was married with children.

Just a completely toxic country. Considering how bad and extreme these conditions, it's absolutely a no-brainer just how far gone America really is, and why a revolution wouldn't even be remotely possible or in the cards for such a country, nor any return to how life used to be even when times were better.