Always Remember That "Family" Only Exists Due To The Fault Of Mortality
Family may make it break someone in this world, but it is important not to rely too heavily on worship of the concept in the idea of Family from the sense that it is the be all, end all.
Family is a Means, and it actually is only a 3rd Dimensional Concept.
But this is also what makes it a potential danger.
Family is unnecessary outside of this realm, or you could say that your real family would be other spirits who descend from your spiritual line, but there would be no such thing as parents, aunts, uncles and so forth.
Family is really just a flaw of this existence because the only reason it exists is due to the fact that Humans are Mortals.
Outside of it, it has no purpose.
One thing that is really a taboo subject is that while most parents become disappointed in how their children turn out to be, it has been actually estimated from recent surveyal that worldwide, over 90% of children would have preferred to have been born to different parents if they had the choice.
Most Modern Families are not all happy and bundles of not like they make themselves seem out to be.
But they are mighty talented in putting on the act.
Family serves no other purpose other than the factor of Mortality and for continuation of the species and to think otherwise is simply just a romantic notion that isn't true.
One could be lucky to be born into a good family, but your chances of this occuring are far less than 10% no matter which country you hail from.
I feel like I grew up in a top 3 percent family because both parents shared the same culture, and we always lived in very good areas, always had abundance in food and other things. But, this was because my parent WORKED....
ReplyDeleteAnd had class.
It was no accident.
My family always shunned stupid people.
We even had a mob associate on my mother's s side, that would come around every now and then (usually with a get rich scam), and my parents just blew the guy off and the extended family ran him off and treated him like the black sheep that he was.
My father never took shit from anyone, because he had a gift of actually working, and doing jobs that nobody would take, because most people didn't have the mental or physical strength to do those jobs in contruction. So, he walked around with a confident attitude with others, because he didn't fall of stupid Jew Mind Tricks and was not a lazy prick. This also applied to his garden, the best in the area as well. I was fortuanate. And, I do try to have empathy towards stupid cultures like the Jews, Blacks, Irish, and WASPs....but it is hard to do....I mean, ,why can't they just stfu and learn from us....
NO. They prefer their slop. And they are the ones responsible for the mess we are in.
@Joey Aragon,
DeleteSome people do luck out. Initially when the Human Tribes were created, they were "intact" and had homogeneity and consistency in them that did not possess these types of problems. It's over centuries and thousands of years of degradation of peoples where the problems begin, and where family units begin to break down.
What has been going on since the end of WWII with changes though have been unprecedented, so family in general, rarely is what it once used to be, but there will be some lucky ones now and then.
Being in a toxic family feels like forced intimacy, in the same way sxual harassment is.
ReplyDeleteIntimacy can feel like one of the best things ever, or traumatic and disgusting when forced upon you or with someone you don't like. I think the same applies to other attachments.
I'm also tired of feeling guilty for my parents. I argued with them for most of my life, then shunned them a lot when I got older, even though it's their fault. Sometimes when I see their sadness it makes me feel guilty for not helping them and being a source of turbulence, but it's just totally who they are and how they've treated me that makes me like this. I also feel naturally repulsed by them so I don't want the emotional intimacy it would take to help them.
Also.... people like this will make you very angry and negative.... you take on the energy of those around you too so anyone should be careful of who they associate with.
I just wish it was easier for me to make genuine friendships, then it would be easy for me to leave the 'nest'.
Also, does anyone else cringe when people say, "Blood is thicker than water"?
My dad has said this to me a few times,
and it makes me feel so grossed out and uncomfortable.
I have never heard someone say that phrase before, I had to search it up and it says it means "familial bonds will always be stronger than other relationships". What exactly makes you feel grossed out about it? I have to admit it's a pretty fucking weird and arbitrary thing to say, especially in the context of family. However I can't help but mainly see it from a scientific definition where blood is just simply thicker than water.
DeleteHe probably heard the phrase somewhere and thought it to be somewhat "profound" and maybe "change your mind" or something.
The truth is your family is only a 3rd dimensional thing and while your "blood" (family) has a relationship to you that is of more substance than "water" (strangers, friends, colleagues) on a general consensus, it is not the "thickest". There are people out there that don't relate to you biologically, but you may be on an etheric level, while coming from similar origins and therefore finding yourselves finishing each other's sentences and being energized by the other's presence. This is not something "family" can replicate through familial bonds to such an extent.
The beautiful thing is that Goatis even did a remarkable video on the topic relating to "Friends" and have a super statement to make about "Family" at the end of the video... So glad that this video is all back on YouTube now as well:
Deletehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VHYwQMspH1M
Basically, if you get the "message", he even is aware that Family are largely just "actors", only because you are "familiar" with them, which is where the word "Family" comes from anyway. But it's not because we have any kind of true connection or meaning with our families.
Ah! I remember that video, I first watched it on Rumble.
DeleteI vaguely remember a comment of his on youtube where he responded to someone who asked about parent's unconditional love.
He said that he when thought about it, and when he looked back at his parents, it's not true. I wish I could remember it more accurately, but I wouldn't even know where to find that comment.
Hey Prussia, what do you think about a woman marking a man with hickeys? Do you see it as a bad trait? Or is it just a natural trait for a truly obsessed woman? Recently, a relative came in with his neck covered in hickeys. Although I can understand the lust, etc., I saw this as some kind of territorial marking. Also, the relative didn't care, it's like he wasn't interested in walking around with that bunch of horrible hickeys. Do you think it's not that big a deal? Or is it a sign of submission on the part of the man to let this happen?
ReplyDelete@blood,
DeleteIt's all good stuff, definitely nothing wrong with it... Lust is a good thing, especially when it's wild, including marking someone as one's territory.
If someone sees hickeys they will definitely notice it on someone for sure.
But I don't see anything predatory about it, this is the way things used to be in the good old days.
If someone gets hickeys* they will definitely notice it on someone for sure, I meant to say.
DeleteRegarding this topic, I think it frames a lot about an entry that you also made about how family is only real when everyone is connected, and there is no difference between father and son and the rest, they are like a single soul, without a doubt this made me reflect, because it is precisely suffocating sometimes to think that family members are so different in the way they see things and you cannot feel connected even if you share blood, it is as if the blood connection is only an ornament, but really the rest is very different.
ReplyDelete@PSA "Family is unnecessary outside of this realm, or you could say that your real family would be other spirits who descend from your spiritual line, but there would be no such thing as parents, aunts, uncles and so forth."
ReplyDeleteHierarchies, control, etc. all BS of the matrix.
What you said about parents not being friends with their children really struck home at least for me. I've seen kids having good relationships with their parents, almost as if they were friends, but that didn't happened to me. My parents weren't abusive at all, they were great parents but but I always had this feeling that they can't be my friends. I loved when they acted as if they were but then felt heartbroken the moment they were threatening to take away my stuff if I did get a bad grade again for example, and they did actually several times. I didn't have friends on my neighborhood so it really sucked to not have anything to be entertained with.
My parents at some point just said that they don't know why I'm reserved to them and this kinda piss them off. I don't even call them dad or mom by the way, only indirectly, I just don't like it. Not that I'm traumatized by what they did but it made me realize that they just will be my parents after all, nothing more.
But I think it's related with the fact that I simply hate authoritative figures. Even if I never was a rebel child, deep inside I always hated being told what to do. That's why for example, I always cringed when teachers would act very friendly with classmates and they would be upset if you didn't engage with them and in a passively aggressive manner they would go oh it's my job dude and blahblahblah... Maybe they are chill persons and I know it's their job but still I simply can't have someone as a friend who has control over me, that would be crossing the line for me. This concept doesn't make sense to me, it makes sense to everyone else because it's all an act, as they are NPC`S following a script after all. And maybe at the subconscious level, I think they aren't really above me and that they are a joke and shouldn't be telling me what to do.
It's all a sick joke. No kid likes going to school, you learn nothing there, then there's the teacher who will scold you if you don't pretend you like school, then he will be upset when the kids want to have nothing to do with him even when he breaks character. Yeah it's all an act after all but the energy drain from school is REAL.
And this one of the main reasons why I would never have a child. Not only because we are living under slavery or that this dimension is a prison and many more things but I would absolutely hate to tell him to go to school or do his homework.
I don't hate my parents, I understand that's the role society has given to them and I appreciate them but they aren't friends, just family.