Why It's Important For Young Men Not To Care - And To Feel No Guilt
This message of course equally applies to anyone of older age, but the reason I am appealing it more you younger generations of Men, is because they are the "prime targets" for being recruited as Slaves into this world system we have, under a completely newfound form of Slavery.
Over time, that Meat became a "carrot" that was dangled on a stick.
Even $50, while significantly ahead of most low paying wage labor jobs, it's still really nothing when you think about it, inflation adjusted compared to what money used to be worth.
I just really would love to see a day of Gen Z kids unaliving their parents en masse, because in all seriousness, this is what needs to happen if we are ever to get any breathing room in this wretched world while it's on its way to hell.
Even while Men in former times were "dogged on" to work and work and work, there was at least an understanding that the Men had to be entitled to certain rights or a contractual agreement, even if socially, culturally or non-verbally bound in some sort of way, or what he ought to expect or be entitled too for his "Duties".
Meat used to be dangled to these Men on a stick.
Over time, that Meat became a "carrot" that was dangled on a stick.
For even younger generations of Men, The New Slave-masters of the 21st century, the stick has nothing on it and you are told to expect to get NOTHING but that you have to give for SOMETHING or SOMEONE.
Even in your inner most primal self, if you had no education, no experience or understanding of this world, your primal instincts should automatically kick in to make you refuse to give in.
If I were a young Man, I would absolutely refuse to work in this modern environment, unless someone is paying me like $300 dollars per hour, now assuming that you are SKILLED by some means and are doing your job PROPERLY.
Even realistically, a Man in the United States, cannot really live much of a fulfilled or successful life unless he is taking home a minimum of at least $300 per day for 5 days per week in the United States, and that is assuming no tax deductions or insurance coming from the $300, so I am talking about the necessity of coming home minimum with $300 per day in your line of work, and not assuming you work all these crazy hours either.
Consider this $300 daily earnings or $1500 weekly, to be the "bare minimum" of what you generally need to have as take home pay, at least in the current year 2025.
However, we're about to embark on the point where that number easily needs to bump up to $500 take home per day, as inflation goes higher.
There is no way a young person should be accepting $15, $20, $30, $40 per hour.
If you are making less than $200 per day take home (WORKING OVER 4 HOURS), and that's PRETTY bad, let's be honest, it's almost just better to not even work at all and live in your parents basement and don't even bother working. I know I sure wouldn't!
Trust me, even if you are getting all your bills paid, you can't be working 8 or more hours per day and TAKING HOME $800 or less after taxes and insurance... Life will just pass you by, and you're going to miss out on a lot of things in life, while life AS IT IS, especially POST-COVID has already passed most of us with anything it has left to offer. Think about that!
You'll just be living through the motions, and still barely having enough time to eat well, sleep well or have any reflection and hobby time in your life, if you work over 4 hours per day, nevermind 8, or 12 or 16 hours!
I will guarantee you something RIGHT NOW... At any job that pays between $15-$50 per hour, this will NEVER be enough, no matter how many hours you work, to ever get a "footing" on life, to build up a future for yourself or have any kind of play money / security and to be self-sufficient or any means to build your own wealth.
You will always be perpetually just living to work and never getting ahead, and likely working some dead-end job. The best thing of course is to always go in business for yourself.
Even $50, while significantly ahead of most low paying wage labor jobs, it's still really nothing when you think about it, inflation adjusted compared to what money used to be worth.
You can never get ahead in life at this wage, and even if you did, your health will begin to tank at the very least, so you still "lose" and become a "loser" in the process. Better off not working at all and living in your mother's basement, I'm not kidding either.
I would personally REFUSE to work for a job that only pays me $50 an hour. $200 I might consider, but $300 minimum for me. And I'm dead serious.
The Boomers have "distorted" the understanding of what a dollar is worth because they largely have been in charge of the system and have made long-standing efforts to delude and gaslight the younger generations into accepting cheap offers, bad deals, and basically getting peanuts in life.
To be quite honest, you need to have NO REMORSE for even presenting these challenges to the Boomers who want to think you are entitled, because even you as a Single Man, if you go out to Lunch somewhere these days, to even have a DECENT quality, healthy meal for Lunch and maybe 1 drink, you are easily already looking at a $50.00 Restaurant bill just for yourself, FOR LUNCH.
Back in 2009, and I'll never forget it, you could go to Italian Restaurants or Full Buffets for under $10.00 (maybe $15 at most, but that was still on the high end for a buffet) and leave as a Full, Satisfied Man.
If you noticed, COVID was also used as a "cover" to eliminate many buffets almost entirely, and if the exaggerated sanitary fears were not enough to satisfy getting rid of the buffets, ever-increasing costs of foods have almost all but eliminated buffet dining except at Casinos or High profile venues and Chinese Restaurants.
This is by design and no accident, and yet actually much of the food served in these Modern Buffets is extremely unhealthy and dangerous, and you pay all that much more for them if they do exist, whereas in times past, Buffets used to be healthy and have homemade food.
This all proves once again how multi-faceted the COVID Agenda was, and I remember even seeing how meat was one of the first things put under attack, something Goatis even rightfully called out.
In 2009 and prior, I was able to get full 3-course dinners at a good handful of restaurants, and there were even $6.95 Buffets around that time and earlier. Going out for breakfast was also very cheap.
In today's economy, there's absolutely no way for a young person to get ahead, even despite all these new technologies and options at their fingertips, because it's almost impossible except for a select few to really build a true cash-flow for themselves, and a financial cushion to where they can absorb random unexpected financial expenses, especially any that might have to do with running a business of their own, or even some unexpected life circumstance.
Boomers were handed all the opportunities, and created nothing for the future generations and in fact sold out all opportunities for the younger generations for a cheap buck (many).
That's why younger generations generally feel "doomed" from the start, and the level of Gaslighting that Boomers do, is at least thankfully becoming mercilessly challenged.
I just really would love to see a day of Gen Z kids unaliving their parents en masse, because in all seriousness, this is what needs to happen if we are ever to get any breathing room in this wretched world while it's on its way to hell.
NEVER feel guilty for demanding a high salary, but once again, this assumes that you carry yourself as a respectable member of society who is worth their weight in gold, rather than some kind of "hack" or "one-trick pony".
If this is you, you absolutely do have the right to demand the notion that you should be paid large sums for your work, and you also should not need to work 40 hours, not even 30 hours per week.
Optimally, the body only handles up to 20 hours per week of work, with 40 hours being the "upper limit" before serious health consequences begin to manifest.
The best thing for young Men to do at this time is to refuse to participate in a system and society or employment where they are despised and not given what they are worth, while meanwhile for Many years, society has placated to and given Women all the money that Skilled Men, would otherwise have earned.
It's absurd to think that Men would want to work under such a climate like this.
Even $100 per day for ANYTHING almost should barely be motivating money for you, realistically speaking, because it's chump change.
If you own a large truck, let's say maybe for your business, it could easily cost you $100 or more for a full tank of fuel. $100 is absolutely garbage. Today's $100 is like yesterday's $20. And yet, it ends up being the average daily "take-home" money that most low wage earners today get, or maybe between that and $150 or so, after all the taxes and bogus insurance they pay on their checks.
Do you pay taxes into the system? If so, you'll most likely have to hire an accountant, and even most accountants these days charge you around $300 for filing all your paperwork for which a computer or robot could actually do for free.
I am telling you this personally from my own perspectives, my own business knowledge and also experiences in price changes over many decades and how the quality of life and affordability has changed.
For me personally, I do not get excited for anything that does not at least bring $300 worth of value for some kind of job or project, or incident to take care of, and I personally do not like to spend more than an hour or two for that kind of money even. Just to put it into perspective.
Realistically speaking, if you live mentally in the "Real Economy", not getting at least $300 for something in a given day should probably never make you feel much motivation or effort to get out of bed for it.
Even $100 - $150, if someone presents that to me, I still feel more like "I'll come around or drop by to do it / get it when I'm in the area or have the chance".
Trying to put this into total perspective for you.
So never feel guilty that your own demands are not met.
If I were you, as a young Man, if I did not have other reliable friends we could move in with and all get along and split rent (assuming they are reliable), I'd choose to live indefinitely with my parents for as long as possible and leech off of them.
Who cares what anyone else thinks!? Meanwhile, save any money you can for as long as possible.
Your parents owe you a debt of sorrow and regret for they brought you into a world that is not primed or prepared to permit young Men to get ahead in any form, no matter how hard they try, and the worst part is that the harder you try, the more the noose will tighten around your neck while you become further enslaved in this system.
If anything, your parents are responsible for bringing you into this world, even if they thought the world wasn't such a bad place some years ago. They had very short-sightedness in their planning.
What the older generations have done to the youth, is "cut" their limbs and then yet DEMAND that you try to walk or pick up objects. When in reality, they owe it to you to take care of you and have to pay for you because of their actions, complacency and negligence, because they robbed everything from the youth, but particularly Young Men.
Don't let anyone make you feel guilty about it, and you need to always tell anyone who blames or shames you, that for every dollar you don't have, that Women have stolen the earnings of Men through Government, Charity, Corporations and being Favored by Men and People in society who choose to give them free cash and pay for everything for Women constantly, at the expense of Men.
While handing out all that Free cash that someone else ended up maybe "working for", the problem is it creates a whole set of unfair dynamics over time that will manifest in very undesirable ways, especially since Women have become so accustomed to living with getting everything for free in their life, while Men not only have to pay for everything, but also even get the shaft when it comes to the ability to find or create a job or opportunity in the Modern Economy.
Young Men should be ripshit, and to be honest, while you should leech off your parents, you should not resort to the video games. Video games softens you up. In fact, if it weren't for video games and drugs, especially Marijuana and Fentanyl, Younger generations of Men would have probably long already revolted over this nonsense 20 years ago. So you see, the drugs and video games are working to keep everyone distracted.
Houses are worth often even up to 4 or 5 times their value, compared to even 20-30 years ago, which is absolutely absurd. Who would want to pay for something that much older, and houses DETERIORATE overtime and become a greater liability.
You have to ask yourself about this market, how bullshit that is, because while desirability factor and scarcity or desirability and other amenities play a role into Real Estate prices in the market, it can ONLY continue to go so much higher until the houses become worth less due to natural deterioration.
Most Newer houses also being built right now, at least in America, I can't speak for elsewhere, only have a 70-100 year lifespan to where they might become unlivable due to cheaper materials and labor practices used and issues with boring insects or other problems in the design.
The way houses used to be built before in America, an old house could be expected to last 150-200 years, and possibly several centuries with PROPER upkeep and maintenance.
So why would any young Man work himself to death to own what will one day be an unlivable properly, especially early on his life as a high chance?
In addition, I strongly want to encourage that young Men need to become more bold and brash around Family, Friends, Society, even around your Teachers or anyone who accuses you of not "Manning up" by turning the arguments over to Blame Women.
Women need to be made the "focal point" for any "failures" of Men, whether real or perceived failures.
Women need to become the new community punching bag, taking place of Men's position of being that punching bag for many decades now.
It's long overdue for Women to get the blaming they deserve, and Women deserve nothing but a total avalanche of hatred, vilification, scorn and malice that is inflicted onto them for what they've been doing for decades, but especially in the last 60 years.
Women have damaged far too many Men's lives.
So My message here for you young guys is to marvel in your so-called "Sense of Entitlement" or "Peter Pan Syndrome" or whatever other garbage remarks that others want to blame you for not contributing or playing a role in society that seeks to exploit and abuse you anyway for participating in it.
You need to trust my words on this, and that it's not worth it. It's not even worth it to risk anything either, not putting your health on the line either, because not only is there no longer any reward for risk-taking, but everything is so augmented, orchestrated, regulated and controlled with outcomes these days, but the risks are designed to trap you, and are not randomly received from the "nature" of things or life games, so-to-speak.
Look at the stories and experiences of Men whom for decades have surpassed you, and what kind of condition their health is in today from becoming abused by the systems, and their slave jobs.
I would be almost totally risk-averse, if I were a young Man right now. In fact, even at my late age, I am closing myself off to any risks now, even while if times were different, I'd probably be open to an occasional risk now and then.
Even friendships these days are too risky. This is how bleak the world now is.
I hope some of you might one day find the courage to "delete" the Boomers, and you know exactly what I mean. It has to be done, and no mercy should be spared.
Also, NEVER feel guilty for being told what you want is "too much" for desiring Instant Gratification.
Instant Gratification is a natural and primal response to a society which has betrayed you and broken too many promises too many times. That's the reason why it's so prevalent in America, especially much more so than other countries.
You deserve to get what you are worth first, and should not have to "wait around" for everything.
Patience is not a virtue, and there is no honor in suffering. Always remember these words.
Suffering, if you allow it to take you over, it will zap all of your life energies / pranic energy very early on in life and you can never get it back. You will burn your candle too quick.
Well said, thank you for putting this into words and giving us this validation.
ReplyDeleteI've seen everything you've mentioned here.
The more I work the more angry I get seeing how many people who do minimum amounts of work get swarves of money for it, meanwhile backbreaking draining jobs that keep this place running often are stuck around the $20 an hour mark.
I recently got my first job ever, at first I applied to simple min-wage jobs like Mcdonalds and pet stores because I was worried no job would hire me without experience, and they didn't even accept me.
Thankfully, I got my foot into a field that is more suited for me and appreciates my 'personality type', plus my manager is likely the best you can get, and even then, the money I get for it($17 an hour), does not feel enough for the mental and physical stress I feel every shift.
You have to deal with tons of people, with constant tasks that have a deadline, and much of which are backbreaking, emotionally challenging, etc.
I'm so drained at the end, I feel angry at anyone who talks. Actually, my stupid fing mom started ranting to me about a random topic that had nothing to do with me after a 12 hour shift, I told her to shut up- and she got so upset I had to be 'lectured' about how they were considering kicking me out of the house for that and my mom gave me the silent treatment for 2+ weeks.... what!?! I also came back from 2 12 hour shifts, another 12 hour shift to go, just to find my stupid slob sister who doesn't even work left 30 minutes worth of dishes to wash and my dad would be angry at me if they weren't washed so I had to do it. I was so angry I barely slept.
Things like this keep springing up too.
Plus my coworkers who are technically 'above' me, don't help me unless they have to. I had one 12 hour shift recently I wasn't able to take a single break, meanwhile my other coworkers all took theirs, and I would frequently see them sitting on their phones, talking about what houses they wanted to buy, or just obviously not busy. Then they would get mad at me when I was hesitant to interupt the task I was in the middle of to help them when they asked for help.
Now I know it takes longer education to get certain high paying jobs, and honestly if not for my horrible ADHD(my parents 'accidently' picked an egg donor with serious ADHD), lack of direction in college, and personal lack of 'star factor' or confidence that make people naturally believe in you or trust you with a job, I probably would have pursued something that gives more money but idk.
I still think for what I do, and the emotional and physical stress I get, the money I get isn't enough at the end of the month. Btw, I'm making about $24,000 a year BEFORE taxes.
Thankfully I'm still living with my parents and they buy me food and stuff, but this is NOT my dream life.
Just to see people like my old therapist make $180 an hour, or someone like Trump..., actually at this highschool I went to, the ED teacher made $126,000 a year, and she would literally just sit at her computer sending emails or handing us extremely simple assignment sheets!
Although I can understand a level of education or maybe even 'giftedness' or talent that makes one good at something, I just sometimes look at what they do and feel like how can they do so little and get paid so much and I do so much and get paid so little?
And there is literally nothing to work for in this life atleast- living in an American family without really any culture or identity
@T345,
DeleteYes, so at least you can see how the system is unfairly skewed. Boomers are skimming the top of the system, constantly, meanwhile. And that's why they are so obsessed with the youth working like slaves, because in order for their systems to continually "deliver" to them, they need slave workers and someone paying taxes into the system for them.
To be honest, I think many young people who enter the workforce, ignore the initial stages of what is entailed from the requirements and stress of your job. It's not just a degree or study field you would be in that was enough weight on one's shoulder.
But when you start a job, in most cases you need to learn their "systems" between policies, procedures, and their computer systems, along with a whole bunch of otherwise useless information and things you must due which are tedious and stressful, and which have no direct benefit to you and if you lose your job or quit this knowledge will become completely useless and worthless.
There are so few high-paying jobs left in the West these days, but probably even less so in a country like America or Canada. Canada is in fact worse than the USA in just about every category of life. A fucking worthless country, and they are going broke even quicker.
Yeah, I also wouldn't blame you for continuing to live with your parents, you might as well for as long as possible. Nothing is going to get any better or easier for the future, the only variable that young people have for anything changing or improving with their own life is by the sheer chance of circumstances that change which offer something to open up in their lives, because the system is totally suffocated at this point and every stone has been turned over, just as every seat in the restaurant is always occupied.
@PSA Thank you, I appreciate your comment.
DeleteYea, they're just like the billionares telling people to have more kids all of a sudden, what joke.
Actually, I've just realized how much expectations I had on how my life should be, how I should treact my parents, how I should have kids and some high paying job one day, but letting go of that has felt more freeing and good than ever.
But it all just shows me how much brainwashing there is around what you're 'supposed' to do in life.
And yea, I wouldn't be surprised if most white color jobs are lost to AI too, or you have to be extremely lucky and pool the right strings, be born very naturally talented or gifted at something or just work your a*ss of studying for years of your life which is not something I want to do, even if that means less money.
I was in school for about 16-17 years in total, which is shocking to me looking back.
And most of it was a waste of time, and didn't even prepare me for work outside of some basic writing and math skills, and 'how to behave'.
I barely knew how to take responsibility, talk with people, or stand up for myself when I got onto my first job placement.
Making just all of those years of pain and stress over unnecessary info just shocking to see how useless it was.
And yes- the way you described every seat is already occupied is exactly how I feel about this world. Even with simple mcdonalds jobs you might have to work hard finding one because there can be tons of people with more experience than you they rather pick.
*special education teacher
ReplyDeletePerfect timing, the youtube channel 'Sith Mastery' uploaded a video yesterday about the importance of being selfish:
ReplyDeletehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6yeWsVHmgR0 - The Dark Power of Selfishness | Sith Motivation
This modern system is designed to enslave men, and to condition men to give up their energy, time and even their life to benefit the collective; and not expect anything in return. As a result young men sacrifice themselves at the altar of modern society for the benefit of the 'elites' and women...
@Library of Hermes, Yes exactly, this is why I strongly am advocating that Men do not play into the system, whether it's Work, Women, Driving a car (unhealthy anyways) or participating in anything of society. Everything is geared to officially destroy Men, no matter who you are, or what country you live in, but it's made to NOT seem that way on the surface. Governments, Corporations and Women have really tightened their clamp down on trying to wring out the last drops of Blood from every Man and compelling them to play into this system, which is why I hope as many younger Men receive this message as possible. Even I'm not playing into things that otherwise in a normal would, I still would be right now.
DeleteStarting your own business with like minded people (same race, etc) is a smart move. Be careful who you align with, of course. Better off doing it by yourself.
ReplyDeleteSo many reasons to start a CASH business...
Even something as simple as an ice cream stands.
Working for The Corporation is a terrible move, as is going to college. College just sets you up for a bad corporate job. I feel so bad for many of my classmates that ended up working for companies like Price Waterhouse or IBM, in the 2000s, where they were treated like shit. Eventually, they wised up and started their own firms, making millions. That is where you want to be. In your own business, working about 20 hours a week.
I work about 20 hours a week, as an independent in construction sales, making about 150K. Not a bad gig. But, the best part is that I pick my own hours, and control the process.
Younger people just need to NETWORK the shit out of life an jobs...you can do it...
I know a Jew that makes millions by importing fine linens from Italy into high end hotels. He started this at age 30...and doesn't have to work, but does it because it is low stress. Things like this. Get the backing from others, write a good business plan, and build your network. It only takes a good 10-20 years of decent saving to retire as well.
@Joey Aragon, Your situation you have is very ideal, that is definitely a comfortable existence for the most part for a Man especially if he's single, and great keeping it at about 20 hours per week.
DeleteDespite having a job, I can’t move out my parents as it would be too expensive to rent. The thing is I work 20 hours a week which is brilliant, but if I wanted to move out, I would have to get a second job. To rent a one bedroom flat in my area is literally a whole months wages once you also include bills. That doesn’t even include any food or my car. So I would have £0 left after paying for the flat.
ReplyDeleteI like the $300 an hour valuation for what men should be paid for their labour. Surely that would just be for skilled tradesman? In your personal opinion what would you say garbage collection men deserve to be paid per hour for the labour they do? It’s a physical job but not complex and does not require any mental effort.
Right now I am fairly frugal so I tend to try to save money. If I wanted to actually enjoy my life and do things I wanted to do, I would need to get a second job working another 40 hours a week. But that trade off doesn’t seem worth it to me. Even then, after all that extra effort, I would likely only be earning twice as much as I do now, which wouldn’t go very far.
They really have got us in checkmate as it is so hard to make money these days. When you do try to work harder, they just tax you more. Then we have the billionaires who have insider information and just live from the stock market which harms the poor working class man. Money seems like such a rigged game when you aren’t born into the right family. Especially for men because we all know that even the poorest woman, can use her female privilege to get protection and money.
@Kyle,
DeleteYes, trust me Man, it's not worth it... This is why I made this post, because basically the message I'm trying to convey to Men is that the "bump upwards" just to have your own place but to basically be some wage slave with no life or good health while taking on extra responsibilities for some type of job or multiple jobs, is JUST NOT WORTH IT.
Even if you have a more meager existence and have to live with your parents, take on all the stupid shame or "You're not a real man!" nonsense that the society will throw at you, just bear it, who really cares anyways, your own health and peace of mind and ability to have some freedom / legroom in life are far more important.
The Tax Brackets are definitely very rigged as well, because they just so perfectly arrange them for where when you begin to breal "poverty level wages" and can make a self-sufficient income, that bracket is often where most people will get taxed the most, where you'd need a ridiculous amount of more money in your paycheck to not feel the pinch of the taxes taken out.
@PSA as annoying as my mum can be you are correct, it’s not worth paying an extra 40% of my monthly salary on rent just to have that independence. Almost everyone my age lives with their parents. In fact I am struggling to name someone right now who doesn’t. Which really shows how destroyed our economy is.
DeleteThe only threat is getting kicked out or parents passing away. But even then, you can do house shares with people. Although I am well aware you can easily end up with criminal NPCs doing this so it may be better to fork out the extra costs for independence if this is the case. Some people even live in their cars however my concern with that is the poor sleep quality, increased risk of being kidnapped, the winter, and general lack of space, whilst also having to still pay for the car and its maintenance.
It just goes to show yet another enslavement of our existence that we have to live in houses otherwise our life quality suffers, but we also have to suffer elsewhere via work if we do want to live in these houses. In fact sleep is the number one reason why we need a home because if we didn’t need to sleep, homelessness would be a lot easier and we could even pick up a quick 6 hour nightshift to kill the time and have the whole day to enjoy with some money.
The taxes are a joke as they use the excuse that they are taxing the rich. But in reality they are just taxing the middle class who are earning £100,000 per year. The true wealthy millionaires and billionaires don’t get taxed. So again it’s set up in a way to suppress anyone from the middle class from getting into the upper class. It’s pretty much impossible to earn a few million these days and sadly you need a few million these days to feel some sense of financial freedom. It’s extremely unlikely to happen and it only comes down to sheer luck.
Work in general is such a soul draining thing and I say this working only 20 hours a week. I couldn’t imagine working 40 hours a week although it could happen soon if my workplace implements it. It’s not only the 40 hours, (or 20 in my case) of work that is the problem. I also dislike the strict schedules. I understand strict schedules help the work places run smoother. But it can be a sad thought when you are enjoying yourself in your free time but then you realise you have work tomorrow. Or when you have to give a few weeks notice to book some time off. Another problem is the commute to work means everyone is committing more than 40 hours a week to work as some people even commute 2 hours a day to their work place. So now they work 50 hours per week and have to pay for their transport. I really don’t understand how some people can spend years of their life working 60-70 hours per week and not even be getting great money from it.
@Kyle
DeleteMan, I get ur pain.
I'm stuck too.
But honestly, I feel like ur even more trapped than I am living in that sh*t country.
ACTUALLY, I just came up with a plan, take it or leave it but, honestly if ur just working garbage like that, and by the time ur parents die ur spare money will be basically up,
just ditch this,
try to move to another country like Spain, portugal, etc- which will be esp possible if the UK joins the EU again. Maybe try learning Spanish in ur free time it'll give you something to do i guess.
- Go to spots with British tourists and sell fruit cups or ice cream or fresh beverages or something like you see with those Mexican food vendors. Live off that cash.
Southern europe is slightly cheaper than the UK anyway.
And if it's cash you get the British government can't tax the fck out of you.
And you know what- to avoid deportation or something, you can just country hop- stay in one destination for a few months, and then switch to another country, and then back and forth.
Easish job, good weather, and out of that close to london living with ur parents hell hole
@Kyle
DeleteAlso, about my suggestion earlier-
If you're self conscious about doing this-
just know- from my personal experience working with people hella a lot even tho I used to have extreme social anxiety, they don't rly give a sht about workers and however they treat you as long as you're atleast being cordial and chill to them- is a reflection of themselvse. Also, don't let them control you, but you'll get used to it in all due time.
Also, grow a beard, eat healthy so u get lean and slim. You will fit right into wherever u go in Europe.
@T345 interestingly enough I did want to move to Spain. It was in my mind for a few years that when I turned 18, I would go. I wasn’t consistent enough with learning Spanish and learning another language is pretty difficult, especially if you want near fluency which is how you can get the most out of the language. I turned 18 in 2020 and a month after we went into COVID lockdown. I realised it was a scam so was very unsure of if I was ever going to go to Spain because during those times I seriously thought that by 2025, everyone would be microchipped, populations rapidly declining and general WEF end goals occuring. So I gave up on Spain.
DeleteI’m slowly rebuilding my optimism again but we all know those globalists can and will continue their agenda.
@Kyle Man, so many things got affected by covid.
DeleteIdk kyle...... follow ur gut.
When I was 18, i immediately knew i didn't want to be at my college in the uk, and wanted to go back to the usa and do wwoofing. My parents convinced me to stay there plus that brainwashing of sticking things out when really if u see the red flags, believe urself.
Unfortunately because I stayed, i continued to feel lost and depressed, spend a year in a place i didn't like and subject I didn't like,
then had a 3 month long period of heavy alcohol use to ease my 'social anxiety' just to have my first ever r(trded sxl experience with someone i didn't like who was awful who didn't deserve it because of external influence convincing me it was my fault for not acting a certain way which was why I was lonely, just to learn I should've listened to my GUT in the first place.
Just to think I could have avoided all of that if I just listened to myself. It's almost 4 years later and I haven't done anything like that since. I think things like this happen when we get swayed by external influences, listen to urself kyle!
U still sound young, so i don't wanna say something that cuts u off from a good life in the uk, like maybe good friendships or a relationship with a gurl if that's ur goal.
Also it's definitely not easy to move or be alone but I'm thinking it might be good in the long term if it works out for you.
Good luck kyle