I Don't Know Even One Relationship / Marriage That Is Successful Or Without Problems
I want to reiterate the fact that I have seen a lot of people come and go over decades, and while I have known some older people who had happy marriages, I can tell you that there is not one Married couple I know of, not even ONE on this planet out of many people that I know of who is alive and happy.
All of them have problems, and I mean SERIOUS problems in their Marriages.
There is also a major issue with Political views in most of these Marriages as well.
Every New Marriage I have seen, has gone sour in at least 1 year, and once they have their first child, it's ALL downhill from there.
Now let me be clear about something.
Some of these people are distant family relatives but also other people I know through other means, and the worst part about this, is that after these parents have their "child" they change for the worst and become hostile to deal with in general once you have to deal with them on any level.
They become annoying and intolerable, and also never have time for anything or properly communicate.
They are some of the weirdest people, once they have children. I can't even be around them.
Let all of this sink in when it comes to Marriage and Children.
In all honestly, I think Marriage and Children are actually EQUALLY as bad as attempting suicide and not succeeding, ending up permanently injuring or disabling yourself for life.
LoL,
ReplyDeleteAnd you can't even off urself once u have them, knowing the trauma it would leave them, just like u can't off if u fail and end up disable and can't do anything abt it.
Btw, I'm starting to hate seeing people act like life is such a miracle, "you're lucky to be alive" attitude, when someone survives with the worst conditions ever.
This is also the type of sht that fuels abusive entitled controlling parents, who expect the kid owes them something for her/him 'giving them' life, even though the kid didn't ask for it, & no matter how shtty the parent is. But to be honest, you gotta be kind of stupid or 'of the same thread' to fall for this bullsht after a certain age.
I heard this man saying he went to an expensive college he couldn't afford that he didn't need, bought a house he couldn't afford that he didn't need, and an overly expensive car, because his mom and dad wanted him to and he's now $250,000+ in debt. And he's 31, and asking the internet for advice on what to do.... at that point this is a result of a lack of critical thinking lol
Also isn't it crazy how many couples get divorced, and the #1 reason is related to financial issues LOL.
So much for the fairy tale virtue signalling love act so many people like to show off to others, with their 20 grand weddings, all just for some typical npc life that checks all the boxes.
My parents are kind of like this too and they have this weird codependent relationship, but they're personalities are like oil and water from eachother. I don't think their naturally into eachother in an attraction and similarity way, and I literally would want to die if I was one of them. Honestly I have no idea why they had kids, but they shouldn't have. Actually, me and my mom have been fighting since I could talk and was conciousness enough, because she is manipulative and controlling and narc, and she uses my dad to punish me.
I recently 'was acting rude to her' according to her, and my dad scolded me and told me this is serious and I need to make a grand gesture to her, or else she might not even let me stay in the house, as they give me shelter and food but I'm still rude to her lol.(Even though they can easily afford it).
But yea, this world seriously lacks critical thinking skills, and most 'love' and 'family' is driven by ego based desires anyway, which is pretty fked up but eventually they get they 'eat their cake' I guess.
But knowing the people I knew growing, how could I expect more from them. I'm so happy I'm free from thinking I need to be with someone or need to get married.
@T345,
DeleteYeah, it's all just really stupid.
But it all points to the greater issue here, which is how vastly "different" people are with their own personal ambitions, tendencies, altruism or not, because most people cannot get along and want to really use other people, because people are transactional for the most part, even on the level of "friendships".
It's just wild how it's like this, because no matter how cool someone is, nobody will want to hang out with that person unless there is something to "gain" from them.
Even a famous person, the famous person is not loved merely because they are well-known and respected, they are not even loved for who they are or for their talent. They are loved on the idea that the fan of them can get to spend time with them and "moonlight" off of their fame because of the fact that they might be able to ride the coat-tails of that fame by being in their presence.
Try to find anyone in this world who will naturally be happy for you (as a friend would) to see you have true achievements or happiness in your life, and even wanting to celebrate that with you. It's almost impossible for anyone to find these days, no matter one's age or country where they live.
20 k weddings are cheap these days. Try closer to 50-100k. And that is probably an average size.
DeleteYes, women just lost their minds. Men are weak as well, especially these inferior races that actually think they are equal to the Roman, Germans, or Greeks.
ReplyDeleteAll men are not created equal.
@Joey Aragon, Yes, one should be extra proud if they were born Greek, or still are of Good Roman stock as an Italian, or of Germanic Heritage.
DeleteYou have the right to your awareness of your superiority and to assert it even with audacity and lack of mercy.
Barbarians are not owed respect as a right ever, only ever as a privilege.
Treat them as such.
Yes PSA. Thank you for teaching this. Very important, perhaps the most important concept for people to understand. That all men are NOT created equal.
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