Why Dating / Relationships / Marriage / Sex Has Always Been Broken For Millennials & Gen Z

As is the case with General History and Propaganda, there is always this false notion that everything is just "relative", including the idea that every new generation that comes that the older generation simply has a "grudge" against the new one and their "changed ways" as if nothing was markedly different with Millennials and Gen Z.

For starters, we need to admit the truth that the last generation that really still made mostly creative works and understand some level of Give and Take, were Gen X.

Now, to be clear, this is not to say that Gen X, not Boomers, Nor Silents or Others were Perfect Angles and without issues.

I have illustrated in the past how half of the Greatest Generation was corrupt and evil, and that they became the predominant faction to continue on their genes, which gave us the most corrupt generation known as the "Baby Boomers".

As bad as Baby Boomers are, and they absolutely are, byproducts that still came out from that generation and Gen X still existed.

Even up to Gen X, the Gen X still had somewhat a sense of who they are and did not suffer from internalized weaknesses in the same way that has been witnessed among Millennials and even Gen Z far worse so, and Gen Alpha will be even far worse!

But, my points in this article of course, are more to reflect on Courtship activities between the opposite sex, between various generations.

The Millennials for starters, have been dealt a really really bad hand from their horrible Baby Boomer parents, but the reason that such a distinct drop in Human Quality has reproduced is because of the fact that Millennials come from the large trash heap of who the Boomers are.

When the Boomers lived, they largely inherited what was already built and sacrificed for.

Gen X kind of lived half-way between the Boomers Successes and the Millennials failures although nowhere near enduring the financial catastrophe that Millennials have inherited, because largely, he Millennials and youngers are not capable of building generational wealth, but even in part due to their lack of commitment behavior with others, including when it comes to relationships.

Often times, when I meet a service worker at a company, I can always tell whether they are at least Gen X or if they are a Millennial or younger, because there has been a whole shift of attitude and horrible work ethic and energy, particularly Low Testosterone that comes from most younger generations these days, and while I would understand from the sense of hardship they endured, the problem is that even more of them are NPC's and so many are just shit bags to begin with.

I always feel a sense of lacking "confidence" around Millennials and Gen Z for the most part, and rarely meet exceptions to these rules.

But the key problems I see with Millennials and Gen Z that make them largely distinct from all previous generations are the two following facts.

1. Millennials and Gen Z never had been born in a time when they were expected to develop their own personality and place in this world, and have relied far more on Pop Culture, Music, Mainstream and Social Media to shape their values and ideas than former generations.

2. Millennials and Gen Z have largely been generations who were born into a time where more than 50% of their life is involved in Screen Time and Influence of sorts, whereas all former generations built friendships, hung out with others and spent time with others generally offline, and saw watching TV which was largely all we had, as a "shared hobby" we indulged in together but did not take over our life in the same way it is with newer generations. For example, while thought forms are nothing new, if thought forms developed in your local community, it became an integral part of your culture, or even down to your neighborhood or village, and meant something exclusive to you. The same could be said about things which are inside jokes.

These developments are quite normal and natural, and they further a bond and exclusivity between Humans that make them able to identify with one another in a raw environment.

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To grasp the scale of these effects on the Human population, are completely underestimated by the majority of people's, and I'm not even breaking down the matters into the Issues of the NPC's, as such.

The "thought forms" that are being developed today online in the Cyberworld, are often sterile and based on a very limited experience, through a screen, and wherever these people meet online, whether it's Gaming or Chat Servers and other Forum websites, they are developing these thought forms with people they actually would despise in real life, but will never know they hate the person until they meet each other, despite seemingly having "similar interests" including the love of a certain online game they play together.

The reasons for this is an Ontological reason for why they will not get along once they meet in public, and you see this constantly with people who meet others finally in real life, and they simply don't like each other like they thought they did.

We even see this from those who've met up with Goatis and then have betrayed him.

So how does this all translate down to Courtship activities between Men and Women?

Outside of the fact that almost all Millennials and Gen Z are NPC's, the lack of being involved or part of an integrated culture and instead relying on Social Media for cues and wisdom, has essentially meant a generation who lacks commons sense or connection to their instincts in the wild with another Human Being, and it was not until the Millennials that all these kind of "strange" dating rules came out, especially as far as what someone should or shouldn't do, along with viewing others from a very transactional standpoint and whereby there was an obsession to avoid intimacy and that the relationship winner was viewed as the person who can care the least.

Believe me, Millennials and Gen Z are allergic to Intimacy and Vulnerability as if it were poison ivy!

I'm not saying Gen X And Boomers did not ever engage in this behavior. But to any large extent where they now "do" exhibit these behaviors, it had become learned and normalized from influences of Millennials and the Internet, because most people did not have these ideas or the "gall" to try to pull them off, largely because a general sense of "innocence" and also a more indifferent approach to oneself, used to be more prevalent in people's rather than today's Narcissistic, Solipsistic worldview where everyone wants to think they are a "10" and that they deserve the world to be catered to them, even for doing "NOTHING AT ALL".

Millennials and Gen Z play by rule books in the Courtship process that were not common with older generations and even still, if such activities were indulged in, they were done so sparingly or on a conditional basis.

Even the amount of "partners" older generations have had, for both Men and Women are considerably less than what today is deemed "normal" for most Men and Women.

For example, while many couples in the past may have only slept with their Married Partners, generally someone who today is well over their 50's on a relative basis would maybe have 3 - 6 partners at most in their lifetime, but I am realizing that this is probably only more accurate for today's Silent Generation or older.

In fact, in terms of partner selection and marriage choices in the past, most people decided within the first to third or so person they ever dated if they wanted that person. It was not like 15, 30 or Hundreds of Dates.

This new trend is from the Millennials, and yo the extent Gen X or Boomers do it now they learned it from the Millennials.

The social contract between Men and Women has been breaking down fo decades.

You can see this in the fact that Millennials and Gen Z are willing to date and have sex so freely with people they don't even like, and that Hookup culture originated with them.

In the past, there were far, far less social or mental hangups as there are today, and less confusion as to whether someone really liked someone or not. It was far more straightforward, but this began to break in the 1980s.

When the Middle Class began to be put under attack, particularly with Feminism, a Man having a Woman in his life or ability to get pretty girls became seen as "status symbol" in society.

I lived through decades when this was not the case, but it also was the time when the Middle Class was vibrant.

It all changed when the Middle Class was being dismantled. Immigration policies, Feminism and Outsourcing.

There seems to be a wholesale issue with Millennials and Gen Z in any ability to be real, raw, unfolded or completely frank with someone they date, and this has a lot to do with the shaping of their personalities from social media.

It has led them to be more dishonest in their interactions and also less willing to be nonchalant and open-minded.

The Millennial And Gen Z don't know what they want, are confused about who they are, and change their personalities or "journeys" on a whim.

To them, commitments look like slavery, but to be honest, without maintaining commitments, you cannot have a stable and static society where a general sense of public trust and opportunity can still exist.

This is why there are significantly more challenges for younger generations, and I feel very bad for the decent members of them, who are very few in numbers, but they have been gaslighted into believing this is normal, and that you have to go through life to explain 50-500 partners or dates your whole life story over and over only for it all to go nowhere and for there to be no meaning behind it all.

Trust me, even as bad as older generations are and also had begun trying out these behaviors, most of us are still far, far reserved and hesitant to engage in these behaviors like younger people seem to do so freely and without thought.

Having looked at the dating scene for what it is, and even having previously dated "Millennial" girls, I have also come to directly experience the direct difference.

Also, you young people are way too influenced by Negro culture and influences including their Music, Ebonics Language and attitude, to where I see many white guys and girls who speak like they are "Black".

Almost all Gen Z youth now listen to Rap Music and/or Act Black.

Gen X were the last generation who did not get into Rap Music and also had been more free to speak against the influences of foreign culture.

Millennials and Gen Z are also heavily racially mixed, to a degree that has not been prevalent with Gen X or Boomers and this presents seriously Genetic and Social issues for them.

Also, the idea of a society where people were more vulnerable and trusting of others seems to be a fearful thing for Millennials and Gen Z, but they fail to see or accept that a time in history did exist where we could live like that, and also could even leave our household doors open without fear of being robbed.

In fact, without this general trust and stability existing in a society, you cannot have prosperity and growth as a culture. There is no possible way!

And I see that all of this is nearly gone in all Western countries now, it's not just America.

There is no Nostalgia in modern relationships, and Nostalgia is the fuel of Romance.

You rarely see people who reflect on their past experiences with someone whereby it cements something in their relationship. And this is because, their relationships were never first based on friendships.

Now things are so different, it is viewed as a turnoff and being "pigeonholed" if you are made as a friend first, because you've been friend zoned.

Even though a basis of friendship is the only path to an actual Love or Romantic Relationship.

Trust me when I say anything that is not based on that is fraudulent and based on using the other person, and it's only a matter of time until it becomes revealed at some point in someone's life.

It is a shame, that the Boomers in their own cruelty and selfish greed to maintain themselves and also use the younger generations as their Underling Slaves, have discovered all the tactical tricks in the playbooks to gaslight younger generations in their own propaganda dog shit.

I saw this nonsense emerge in the 80's, and it was Boomers who began telling the dog shit statements such as "Darling, you are so young and have plenty of time to meet the right one!" And "The moment you stop looking for love is the moment it will find you".

Little do most people know how nefarious and damaging these statement actually are and that they also played with the gaslighting agenda of trying to insist that "White Replacement" was a conspiracy theory and paranoid idea and would never happen.

With Gen Z and Millennials, in my own eyes and reflections, I see generations who lack a homogeneous spirit and cultural background on addition to their race which inhibits their ability to form any real connection or understanding with another person at their level.

Millenials and Gen Z are so unaware of their own identities, that they do not understand they need Intimacy and Vulnerability to be happy in life and also to be content with one partner in life without this constant urge to stray

Most people stray because they are lacking a sense of fulfillment from something and it drives them to become bored and wanting new stimulation.

I cannot stress enough as to how important Intimacy is in a relationship. Because the lack of intimacy will make even the most Honest or Sincere person want to maintain distance and involvement from their partner and even have inclinations to be dishonest about all kinds of things, even petty things for no reason!

Imagine going shopping for something while you don't have an idea what you want to buy!

That's what they are doing and instead of studying and researching what they want to buy to be able to sort it out, they instead shop randomly the whole mall and come home disappointed.

In my view and study of Millenials and Gen Z, I think it is futile to believe they can be corrected or learn intimacy and vulnerability because they are largely already damaged goods. They will never come to see or value it like older generations have.

Because they are lost.

The majority of them will never allow themselves to be intimate with someone on the level required to have a satisfactory and fulfilling relationship that only gets better with time.

And they are also the generations known for relying on the most Self-help including the advice from Pick-up Artists, and Dating Coaches or Specialists, as they refuse to rely on natural and primal instincts to dictate their behavior around the opposite sex.

No other generations of Humans in world history ever needed dating and sexual "manuals" on how to attract interest or mate with the opposite sex.

And most certainly, no species of animal has ever questioned this, not even any other primate, only Humans. That is unprecedented!

This means that their interactions on any level with the opposite sex, inevitably must become sterilized, robotic, mechanical and also very detached and unemotional.

Nevertheless, Boomer and Gen X Marriages or Relationships in modern times have also declined because of the Internet and overall normalization of degeneracy.

However, one thing that Gen X did not manage to ride the coat-tails of from the Boomers is the legacy of where pair-bonding, intimacy and vulnerability could exist between sexual partners to make the experience enjoyable.

Boomers have much more satisfying sex lives, at least globally if not in America, compared to all younger generations, and this is why most younger generations find themselves disappointed in their sexual experiences and are often left confused and disappointed that sex was not what they expected and felt more like a chore.

In addition, I cannot stress the importance of Intimacy and Vulnerability being necessary for a satisfying sexual relationship, and also one whereby there is more honesty and willingness to share or reveal fantasies and fetishes.

Since Millennials and Gen Z rarely develop themselves and have no sense of self, they are incapable of intimacy and vulnerability because of trust issues, head complexes, and also unease about themselves even in the nude around another person.

Younger generations do not realize thay while physical and sexual attraction are prerequisites for sexual desire, that Sex in and of itself relies on both a combination of Energetic and Chemical components that make the experience either feel like Paradise or as bad as a Hellish Slavery.

If you do not meet someone on the same Energetic Level, your chemicals will not activate properly and you will have difficulty performing or enjoying or other might become awkward.

Racially mixed people will also inevitably have less enjoyable sexual experiences.

To claim that today's dating scene is a swamp is simply putting it nicely.

I think that things are so bad now that no matter how hard or well one's intentions are to have a proper relationship that it is ultimately impossible and that they will inevitably setup for exploitation and ruin.

And it is unfair that the older generations simply write things off as everyone's fault to begin with or try to gaslight them about how the longest relationships or marriages they've known existed where both people embraced "Christ" and put God / Jesus first.

The first fact that gets overlooked about religious couples is that they usually only get together and "stick it out" because their religion believes that if they have children that God will bless them, and often they only got with the person on the basis of having children because the religion have them Divine Promises. This is especially true with Jews, Christians and Muslims.

Believe me when I tell you, Boomer Propaganda and Gaslighting has been extremely effective for decades now, because it's made to sound "reasonable".

But the Boomers are taking a dump on your head while your eyes are closed, trying to convince you that what you feel on your head is a "hat" and you should be grateful as it will protect you from the rain.

Boomers love to constantly dismiss your grievances by talking about how tough their times were - even though they really weren't - and always try to convince you to "count your blessings" or that maybe "God had another plan for your" or they "God removed your significant other from your life because they were not meant for you or good for you and only God knows best". Even though this God miraculously delivers the right person for another the first time around.

Boomers are also the ones to suggest how they don't understand the situation of the younger generations. And the reason they don't understand is because they lack empathy and perception.

It's not hard for even a Married Elderly person to see how selfish and narcissistic the youth of today are, as to why relationships are impossible.

Boomers are also the ones that suggest single people to get "pets" if they are lonely. This was a Boomer trend.

Boomers also are the ones to constantly suggest that someone should "expect less", constantly. Even though this initiatives a regressive effect and spirit inside of a culture or society.

Boomers also were the ones to gaslight youth in to never seeing as if something was wrong if they still hadn't attracted a mate into their 20's and this is because the Boomers had been setting society up for total destruction and did not want the youth to realize how they destroyed the future for them.

So it was imperative that Boomers constantly instilled a false sense of optimism or hope for the future, even while it was obvious to a thinking person that something is wrong.

Boomers also are notorious for gaslighting you to just accept that "life isn't easy / fair" and that things shouldn't be easy and how much it requires hard work.

Even though they never had to endure anywhere near that level of hardship, even in dating.

This is because they wanted to subject the younger generations to their own consent of a newfound form of slavery, without them realizing it.

Trust me... If you haven't been born as Gen X or older in this world, no matter where you live and irrespective of social or economic class, you really have never "tasted" life as it ought to be, and I regret that you have been handed such the short end of the stick.

We are living in times where the stick bring handed out to you used to have a carrot and the carrot was shit food to begin with.

But now you are born where you see a stick that never had a carrot and you are being told you ought to eat the stick and be grateful for it!