You Owe Your Parents Nothing
I've decided over the last few days when collecting over my thoughts, that I will be dedicating this blog going forward, far more to Anti-Natalism, The Fraud Of Family, and everything to do with topics like this and what a joke this world is, and a lot of what I focus on will also be geared towards the youth.
For example, it's important that the youth know at all times, that you owe your parents nothing, and not even gratefulness they brought you into this world. A world that makes no sense and where you are under constant pressure to perform and act, and will get no reward for doing so in playing your part.
Some of the things I'm seeing in the formation of new families really stirs absolute hatred and disgust in me, and especially with the selection of partners they chose and how further they have alienated their children by bringing them into two families that simply don't work.
The thing is, this precedent all started partially from the Silent Generation but even more so with the Boomers. The Boomers created this ugliness from their completely uncontrolled breeding, especially with people they didn't even like.
You have every right to be upset and angry with your parents who brought you into a world that you did not want to become a part of, and yet you will be expected to make sense of every step of your existence in this world.
I can tell you from my own personal observations of newly formed marriages and families, that for a Millennial or Gen Z person, these marriages or once they have a child, things begin collapsing with their relationship and satisfaction within far less than even 1 Year.
You can take that to the bank.
I have seen no exception to this rule.
And, I'm even also in a very uncomfortable situation with some remnants of my own family who have made bad choices and turned the family into a clown show.
I hate seeing them during Holidays and I really despise Holidays.
This world is a total cesspool, and I even become angry at seeing other people bring more and more people into this place, knowing what lies ahead and what they have forced their children to have to deal with by being here.
Every day, nothing makes sense here in this world.
Every moment of my own life that is not spent in solitude, is spent in complete annoyance and irritation of everyone around me, high anxiety and very negative energies, even employees at stores, traffic, basically everything and everyone.
Let's be clear. The world never actually did ever make sense on any level in the past. But now, it's also that people's interactions and every thing they do in life, also make no sense on every level, to a point where even friendships are a burden.
Every instance in this life where you must pretend to be someone you aren't, or where you have to act on a role or be polite, it weakens you as a person, your character and your resolve.
It dehumanizes you, and it also is something that is energy draining and completely exhausting.
All moments spent around people, if even your own family who does not see eye to eye with you on anything, or who has different religious views or sees no problem with having introduced race mixing into lower parts of the family tree, becomea a huge menace and liability and takes away from any moment or possibility you could have being around people who are completely harmonious with your spirit.
The amount of beeps, noises and gadgets like AI listeners that modern people employ in this life, makes it very unbearable to be around such people. Modern people seem to have endless distractions around them and the children, and train their children to become used to these things. I really can't stand it.
And almost all modern families have both dogs and cats. Not only are their own children not enough to entertain them, but they absolutely need their yappy dogs!!!
I've particularly noticed in the last 2 decades, that most Western families who raise children, do so with constantly bombarded them with attention and entertainment, and is any wonder why they grow accustomed to this later in life?
There can never be a moment of silence or no demands or distractions and I really despise people that cannot appreciate silence and a break.
Thanks for the post and Merry Christmas (hahahaha)....just joking....
ReplyDeleteI really can't stand the text message I got today with the Merry Christmas notes, even from people that don't practice Christianity. Are these people delusional?
And the family stuff is just too much. I live thousands of miles from where I grew up, and that is how I like it...leave me the heck alone. They only want to keep me in the loop, so they can use me somewhere down the line.
It is a painful existance, this place.
I am also ready to just move on from it all, and move to a quiet, rural place. I have the resources to do it, but I want to make sure before I pull the trigger.
I live in a metro area that is a living hell most of the time because of all the zombies and goofy people that I interact with on a daily basis. These people lack intelligence and soul. I have been going along to get along for too long, and I know a change has to happen if I want some piece of mind.
As for your topic today, I agree with your on all of it. These parents should be put in jail for bringing children into this world. With all the lbgtqabcdefghijklmnopqustuv stuff, the taxes, the disrespectful culture, and screw up in leadership positions, what the heck where these parents thinking? They do have children for selfish reasons. For women, they just want their slave for life. Welfare mothers, in particular, only have children for the sake of getting more food stamps and benefits from our corrupt government.
Take care PSA, and I hope you have a Happy New Year! (hahahahahaha).....
Let's just get through this time and laugh at the absurdity of this planet.
I was fortunate to have some
January is the 11th month not the 1st. Modern man is deranged to make the middle of winter the beginning of the year (it would even make more sense for it to be the winter solstice)
Delete@Pocket Aces,
DeleteGreat Comment and satire! Because it sure was fitting!
Christmas makes less and less sense every year, not only from the fact that it's not Celebrated as Yule, but it becomes absolutely retarded once more of your family "passes" on and when you see the ridiculous decisions younger members of your family have made in their life, especially whom they married and who they have children with, and how those children have become.
All the children in other parts of my family, are of mixed heritage but also they all have some kind of Learning Disability or Development issues.
However, it's also a reflection about how far off the beaten path Caucasian Families have gone up to this point, and why they have no future, and yet the people who have had these children, look at themselves as "superior" because "they made it" and "fulfilled their biological role" even though they have achieved it with people of other race, and it so happens that the arrangement of it they chose will also favor the other races for each next successive generation, rather than our Germanic Lines.
They also view me as "beneath them" for not having had children at all, even though they condemned their children to the worst form of existence by bringing them into an already broken world, but also one of being mixed race.
I would say the purpose of children, generations ago, was to ensure the survival of a person or family...to provide security for the tribe. I am not sure that is necessary today. I would say most parents want the worship perks that having a family brings. Sinister parents just want to control other human beings. I have seen some black mothers yelling at their grown male children like they were pieces of garbage, in public. It was embarrassing to see. And, there is nothing worse than a man raised by a pack of women. It is not their fault a male figure was not around. Regardless, these men are weak and have little character.
ReplyDeleteI noticed that in the animal kingdom, females do most of the hunting, such as lions, cats, and eagles. Yet male humans are supposed to do 99.9999999999999% of the work
Delete@TiredOfNames, Correct! The thing is, even for the labor tasks a Male has to do of any species, it usually only represents a small portion of his life, and involves finding nesting sites or secure areas and stable food sources. Even if the female is doing the hunting. The so-called "provision" and "protection" that Males of any species offers to the female and its young are miniscule, compared to what is now demanded of Human Males.
DeleteIn addition to that, prior to the 1960's, Men were NEVER expected or demanded to have to provide all these things, up to now including "Paid First Class Airline Trips" to their Women, along with all the other things that Men in the past did not do.
In the past, Women were expected to build a life together with the Man they are with.
Today, Women expect a Man to have everything, and "THEN SOME" and even that still is not enough, because she expects to be entertained 24/7, and "YOUR" entertainment must be different than every last guy she has been with, otherwise she's "out".
I appreciate this post.
ReplyDeleteI actually get nervous twitches around my family they bother me so much.
I also see how they ruined my life- which makes me even more angry around them.
I'm actually being forced to come to the airport with them to drop off a relative- even though my parents are already going- so it's unnecessary for me to be there...... they were also about to force me to take a long trip to 'surprise' their uncle who is 90, the day after Christmas by going to his house and bringing food for him because it's the 'right thing to do'- another exhausting and inauthentic event, at least on my part. That poor man also likely doesn't want to be bothered. My family forces me to do the 'good'/'right' family things like sitting with them at dinner and attend family events when we actually have a horrible relationship with each other. After which I feel so drained I stay in my room all day.
I find it interesting how the first time I lived alone, I actually experienced myself fully, and could feel my presence distinctly.
I noticed that I was not as naturally angry + tense, and was a lot more chill than I thought.
Also, @PSA I know this is random but what exactly do you mean by a "cursed family line"? How can someone's family line be cursed?
@T345, It's amazing how toxic some family members can be, isn't it, even to a point of being more unbearable than a random stranger you don't know off the streets...
DeleteThe chances are too that if there is at least 1 person that bad, that there are many in one's family who are that way.
What I've noticed in some far out parts of my "extended family" is that they would wait until some of our other "Elders" would die off, or at least be on the verge of dying, before they introduced someone in the family whom they are now seeing, and then immediately "get married", whom they know the family would not have approved of.
In your situation, sounds pretty horrific as well, and worst part is they expect you to just "function" or somehow put on a "face" to be able to make up for all the lost amount of time that you have not spent around the person or to even know what's going on at times in their daily life. When families grow apart, they have little to reconcile with over time and it gets worse for when the much younger generations are under compulsion with it, because things start to just make no sense, and where someone who is 90 years old, clearly would live in a vastly different reality than someone who is in their 20's.
The one thing too, to remember about family, is that there is a "reason" if you only typically see your family on Holidays, Weddings or Funerals, and that the reasons for it are never ever good or by accident.
Any family line can become "cursed" but I meant it in a more general sense by just bad luck with some "outsider" who started inter-breeding with one's family and cursing it, rather than any kind of "spell" curse being cast or anything like that.
Yes.... I agree it doesn't make sense how you can share DNA with your family, and live with them your whole life, and can't trust or get along with them...!
DeleteUnfortunately, it puts us black sheep in a position where we must leave the nest, and cut off our connection to a 'support system', for the sake of our humanity and self-preservation. But even the word- Choice, is shortsighted because people don't have control over others or ourselves. Which points to the 'tragedy' of the black sheep.
And.... yes isn't it lopsided how if you find the right person, you can get along with, trust, and open up to them in a very short time, compared to your entire life with your family lol?
This is why I really resonate with your message that family is a trap and notttt as similar as they seem.
There totally is this sticky, toxic mantra of family above all, which just gaslights and guilts you into the family trap. Your point about many families only meeting a few times a year is really good....., and it's not like friends only meet on holidays and funerals!
How odd...... extended family is almost worse in it's own special way, because you see them even less, and you're right-- it's even harder to put on a face like that, the more it extends the more strangers you have to deal with. Still somewhat weirdly disrespectful.... as if the death of the family member was a good thing for them lol....? It shows a split within the family, no wonder many families don't get along. It would be much better if family was made up of like-minded people who mutually like each other, regardless if you're genetically related. It's like forcing a relationship because you're genetically related isn't always a great idea!
@T345, At one time in the beginning of mankind, families have "had" to be intact, even on a spiritual level, because the Human Species primarily descends from 7 Great Ancestors. But it is through the tragedies and conditions of time, that the families have gotten destroyed and polluted.
DeleteThe notion of "Family" for most people on Earth at this time is an absolute sick joke. Unless you happen to be born into an Amish family, or on an Island where people tend to be more homogenous and grow up / interbreed among their tribes, or if someone tends to descend from a people who have maintained their ethnic heritage in a very solid manner.
Outside of this, the Modern world, all the Media Influences and Technology has entirely allowed the NPC's to have "free reign" and completely tread upon other families and spoil their bloodlines and cultures and turning everything into a total wasteland.
Most people today are born into families of people who are utter trash, and there should be no hesitation to call them out for what they are, instead of feeling sympathy for useless, worthless family members who serve as a detriment to one's life and future.
Because this is the reality of what has taken place, it's not like some grand mystery, although making it appear that way allows a lot of power for the ruling classes over everyone.
When a family has eventually come around, to entirely toss our everything that was the pride and honor of the family from older generations because they are useless NPC's and especially if they intermixed with others, then those family members are utter scum.
If you are born into a very very toxic family, and there are various types of toxicity, granted, but the way you will be able to tell that something is truly not right, is all of their friends and people whom they associate with, also are toxic and just don't seem to make any sense, their friendships or the grounds they seem to connect on always have no sense whatsoever, and you'll notice they just tend to be outright losers.
Often times you might even spots their friends in the most strangest places in public.
The only people in this world that are your family are people whom you immediately identify with on an energetic level and even mutual understanding, right from the start, as if you knew each other all along, and that includes all platonic connections with others.
There is none of this "mystery" or being constantly at odds or never on the same page with others, it simply means they are not family.