Revisiting The Main Reasons I Chose To Never Get A Vasectomy
While the idea of a vasectomy was moderately tempting in my life, I strongly opposed to it based on a lot of grounds, but once again, tracing back to my early Exposure in Biology and what I have come to understand how the Body potentially reacts to something unnatural imposed upon it.
And this is something I deeply despise about Nature. It's a bitch.
These are some unbelievably dire times...
My whole philosophy in general, and it mostly stands similar to Goatis, is the fact that anything you do which is "man-made" or not "natural" comes with potential implications, consequences, unwanted outcomes and even volatility of sorts.
And this is something I deeply despise about Nature. It's a bitch.
And whether or not you choose to get a vasectomy, I strongly recommend you fully do your research on it and do not quickly buy into the hype behind it. Because there are definitely risks, and some of those risks go further than the tubes simply "re-attaching" with your possibility of once again re-impregnating a girl.
For starters, if you come from a racially homogeneous family, meaning that your family has very little to no admixtures of other races, and provided you have strong genetics, your body has a strong tendency to exacerbate all forms of healing and may even try to make adaptations of its own that are rarely made in those who have intermixed with others. Meaning there is an even stronger chance of the tubes reattaching or a tube outgrowth, especially if the procedure was not done really well.
Some of the risks associated with how "Nature" or things tend to operate, also, is that the operating mode of a body or processes within the body may not function the same when it assumes "something" to exist, which in fact doesn't exist, and that's where further complications arise.
Lower Testosterone Rates and even a diminished sense of Orgasmic Pleasure is a known side effect from getting a vasectomy, but the problem is that it may not manifest right away, possibly not until many years or decades down the line, and most studies that deny the reality only focus on short-term studies, of which they document recovering patients who got the procedure, showing no changes in that.
But there is a lot of evidence out there that shows that Men who get the procedure have a shorter lifespan of their Testosterone Run and Pleasure, which then again one must calculate within the levels of risk vs. reward, how often one will realistically have sex with Women nowadays, and how much longer we might even still exist on this earth. To each his own, I suppose. But I chose not to do it.
But I can see how it can be tempting. The other unfortunate thing for young guys now, is that I don't see a world around us anymore where you can have the same type of intimacy that we used to have back a long time ago where the subject of preventing childbirth could be discussed or agreed upon with the girl you are seeing, whereby there are all kinds of different ways you can mitigate it, even such as the calendar method.
Intimacy is gone with all modern encounters, and I hear more and more stories of Women who purposely try to get impregnated by a Man and lie about their fertility window or "method" being used all in order to get pregnant and trap a Man, along with how many Men these days in Europe and America are raising children that are not even their own!
So I can understand that this really might be the only option for Most Men, along with how greatly expanded the court system is in sticking child support to a Man.
These are some unbelievably dire times...
Thanks for the post.
ReplyDeleteWhy is Goatis so "hell bent" on men having children? I agree with much of what he has to say, but he is way off on his views with family, women, and having children. This is never a good deal for men.
@Pocket Aces, Well he has already had 2 children, but the thing is Men begin to change once they have children because they also undergo biochemical changes after they have children, like the Women.
DeleteIt is what it is I guess, but it is his life and personal choice.
I always knew from my youngest of age that I did not want to have children, and I never had that feeling change even once in my life.
And especially seeing how much worse things get, I almost feel like I was far too easy in earlier years on when I used to insist finding Women who didn't want them.
It almost feels like I've time traveled or something, because I remember days when Women found it an absolutely turn-off if a Man did not want children, and I wanted absolutely no part in it, especially in a dark world like the one we live in.
In times past, Women would immensely shame any Man who did not want Marriage or Children. But I never cared for either.
Are u ok
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