It's Amazing How Much Having Children Changes People & Their Habits

Someone in my own family who I cannot stand, who also happened to marry someone who is not German, well, not only has most of the family lost interest in the couple on both sides, but I have noticed family members and friends on both sides have mostly ceased contact and hanging out with them except when absolutely necessarily, maybe at certain holiday events for example.

In any case, I have become the new "dumping" ground for the person sending me unsolicited photos of their child for every new life event, including the first "carrot" they eat, or the first time they have played out in the snow.

It's unreal how many "firsts" parents are obsessed with documenting and taking a photo and then with the need to get validation and praise by texting the photos.

The marriage is also immediately dissolving as well, as "insensitivities" have also shown their face with this couple particularly only a little after 2 years of their marriage and now being one year into having a child. It is always uncomfortable to be around them.

Though, I was not going to just give this one as an example.

Every new person I know having children, including former people I've known or hung out with or  interacted with in some way, even younger people, every single one of them who has a child, begins to act differently and is in misery now.

One guy I know, who used to always hang out on his porch and I would see him routinely, he would smoke his cigarettes and enjoy the sun and be in a positive mood, all of this changed once he had his child, and he is almost never to be seen, stays inside all the time and is playing video games on his downtime.

His wife also is a parasite and was excited to have their child.

Last time I saw him, he was depressed as hell when mowing his lawn.

The thing too is not only is the Man under more pressure to provide everything for that child and to be a good father to him, and I'm not saying there's anything bad or wrong with that, but meanwhile he is IN MOST CASES dealing with a Woman who will begin to resent him at least from post-partum depression or the hormonal consequences and mutations that take place in Women are giving birth to their first child.

When a Woman has a child, the body begins to "displace" both herself and the Man in her life as a biological function to focus solely on the task of raising children, and nothing else.

This is why, when Women have children, they have nothing else BUT the child, once they have children, nothing else exists. Even a dying family member, "doesn't exist" while they have their child.

Women also develop the likelihood to feel that now that their "biological mission" is complete, that they feel indifferent to letting go or kicking the Man out of their life. This behavior is NOT only demonstrated in Humans, but also in many other species, even certain Birds and Insects!

And the hormones will also influence her to feel the urge to remove you from her life, after you have that one child.

A client of mine who I have dealt with for years, a Multi-Millionaire, every time we convene for an appointment, he has something to say about his kids... And not positive. You can just hear the regret constantly, and his wife even humiliates him and degrades him right in front of me without shame, and the girl is from Eastern Europe.

Almost every public gathering I've been to in the last 2 years especially, whether a holiday, a concert, a show or something else, I notice people are being more vocal and unashamed of confessing the truth about their experiences having children, and how they lost their lives and friends, or how difficult it was and not worth it.

When people have children, they completely only then live for the sake of the child.

While it may be selfless to give up things for your child, and it might appear as a great thing, if that child one day does have children, he / she will have to give up his / her entire life to also make another child have everything and only for the cycle to keep continuing on and on.

Just for the sake of survival at all costs, to bring forth a new slave even in a broken, war-torn world that has no purpose and is a total Dystopian shit-show to live in.