The Truth About Commanding Attention

Attention is a really big factor in all of our lives, and while commonly associated more with Women, the truth is that it's no less for a need for Men, but Men may like to pretend in a stoic manner that he does not desire or need attention.

Attention, essentially, is an Energetic Exchange.

As Humans, we are social creatures, and this applies to all classifications of Humans, and naturally yes, to Spirited Humans.

There is nothing wrong with "attention", desiring it or giving it as such, but the issues revolving around Attention in our Modern Times, is that Attention is a gateway to manipulating and using others, robbing them of their energies, and most importantly, the problem is when the desire for Attention is rooted in Narcissism.

The Narcissist always wants Attention, just for Attention's sake.

There is no purpose, no reason or logic behind it, and it's used solely from the standpoint of extracting it from someone, never reciprocating, and also never having some kind of "goal" or "purpose".

For example, I would be a liar if I told you that I didn't also dress the way I do for attention, or that certain things I say or activities in life that I engage in, are not for some level of attention.

The only difference is that, I'm not "bound" by it, and I'm not looking for the approval of others in it.

If I've gotten someone's attention for whatever reason, if it's another Woman, if it's someone who shares the same Music tastes or for Germanic / Prussian Heritage or what not, then I see that as a "win" and my very next thought and interest gravitates to establishing a connection with that person, rather than "celebrating" myself.

I do what I do, in the sense that I like to attract and congregate with others who share my own sets of values and interests, so the desire for this attention is not all about "Me", and there is a HUGE difference with this.

Attention gives us a motivating force in life, and also can be used for positive purposes, especially to gain a grounding of commonality with others or acceptance, but the problem is that 99% of attention given or received, is used for inherently negative reasons, even if otherwise appearing well-intentioned.

This is why we have such a society today that is bursting at the seams with Narcissism, and that it's so extreme that people, especially Women, even crave getting attention from other people who they don't like, including unattractive Men, just for the heck of it.

This is basically Energetic Prostitution.

The worst part about Modern Women, is they all want to command attention, from nearly all Men and other Women, but for absolutely no reason or purpose, outside of feeling better about themselves.

They only want Attention for Attention's sake, and that fits the bill of someone who is a parasite.

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