Just to also share with you another scenario taking place with someone I know right now

Someone I know who dreamed of one day raising grandchildren... Well, let me tell you...

Her daughter ended up getting married and having children late in life, into her 30's...

Health issues and decline overall due to Age has also made it more difficult for this Grandmother now, and she has been made "obligated" to babysit a child while she herself can barely walk or keep up with the baby.

Her whole life now is also dedicated to ordering toys for the baby which are then immediately discarded or become problematic for the baby.

This is how modern families live and the types of things you go through, and just the absurdity of everything.

In a matter of months, the couple I know, and they've been married 2 years now, have begun falling completely away from each other on every level of household responsibilities and duties, and the mother mostly only ever cooks up frozen food.

I will tell you also that in my lifetime, I have rarely noticed any couples who were ever happy that had children.

The only ones who may have been moderately happy came from couples who were friends from the get-go and never gave up their hobbies or identity in the process, and that may be either how they organized or planned their life to avoid that.

Even still, children are draining and they both even aged horribly and both developed serious health conditions as a result of having the children even in the better case scenario.

But, they are a very rare exception of a happier couple.

Having children is such a nightmare. I've never once had desire for it in my life, not even slightly.

If anything, I've always had an aversion to it and I've often felt dark presences around most people who have children.

This is such a taboo subject, but it shouldn't be. Massive efforts have constantly been made to hide the secrets of the true unhappiness behind having children, plus the fact that you can't take someone seriously who says it's the best thing that ever happened to them, because it's not 'them' who is saying that, but the hormones that re-engineer them to dedicate a life to child-bearing.

Imagine all the things you can't do when you have a child. Can't play music when the baby is sleeping.

Need to corner off certain parts of the house and block off electrical outlets and make sure that no small items they could swallow are in sight.

I could list over a thousand headaches you have to deal with and even then some, because as the child grows, you have to deal with the challenges of every new stage of their growth and development, including how their personality might become, etc.

While children are very stressful to raise for everyone, they are even thousands of times more stressful if you are an Introverted being.

If you ask me, I would say that having a child is one of the most horrible decisions one can make in life. Next to get Marriage, Going to College, or even getting a Mortgage.

All of those activities actually destroy someone's life completely.

Many just don't want to tell you the truth and are ashamed to admit if they fell for it.

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