When A Girl Likes You, How They Show It In Their Voice
It's very interesting to get random feedback from any Women nowdays, nevertheless, as I have mentioned to you, I do not really socialize online, however I am very much active and integrated into some Bird-watching groups.
To my surprise, some girl (an Austrian one, mind you) sent me a message and began liking all my photos, and immediately escalated her chat to a "Voice Message" she left after she was strikingly impressed with some Bird species I'm obsessed with which I thought she might like, since it was similar on the basis of the bird species she connected to me on, interestingly enough!
To my surprise. Believe it or not, not only in my Online personal life, but also with running the PSA, almost ALL Messages we get, over 90% of them are SPAM and BOT Messages from fake people and accounts.
So immediately when I saw her likes and when she messaged me, I immediately began thinking it was a Bot account.
It's actually quite amazing to hear to a voice that is so sweet and feminine and yet shy and passionate for once about "something" and felt the need Thank me through an audio message. Something I don't get every day, that's for certain, probably not in many years honestly.
Some many years ago, I may have been "tempted" move things along rapidly and "dance in lockstep", which would mean also giving an audio message in return, and immediately trying to bring things to a phone conversation and then meeting offline.
These days!? I won't chance it. If anything, she would have to do 99% of the work, and I'll do my 1%.
That 1% means her coming to my "house".
But whether or not her intentions are just fleeting, of which I assume most girls are, especially these days, and even over the numerous offline encounters I've gotten from random ones in public, although I've never met this girl, I have not yet been as impressed even on a "starting level" as this, since the girl I met on a Flight to Florida back in 2018, who I also didn't pursue further...
I just don't pursue them because I know it will be a waste of time, and there are far, far too many girls who use it as an "ego trip" to just block, ghost or reject you even if they like you, because they are testing or using you, or just wanted to see if they "still got it" or "can get you".
That's why most girls "act interested" and then go cold.
With this one, I'd take a slight gamble maybe she was impressed a bit more, which is shocking, because I've been in these bird watching groups for many years and they attract some major losers and ugly people, this girl is actually amazingly pretty and I haven't heard a sweet voice like that in quite some time.
Just thought I would share this so you guys can understand what it means when a girl actually likes you, but also how refreshing it is when you can find one that somehow really connects on some interest of yours and isn't putting on an "act". You can really hear she is smitten about the bird.
I guess what shocks me the most, is out of my years of "birding", I have never once found a girl who really connected with me about birds, nor in these groups, or in birding events I've attended, nor with any of my exes. Most of them acted like the same way they do around guys who are into video gaming, and there's nothing worse also than when you find girls who try to pretend like they are into a hobby or passion of yours, when they are just pretending because they want to be "liked" by you.
So this is a first for me, quite surprised and wonder if something in the "ether" just happened to synchronize somehow for me.
Also, it perfectly illustrates just how FAR away most Men are from really finding the ideal girl who you would want to be with. So Many Men lack any kind of standards, and really don't give much thought to how they would want the "ideal girl" to be in their lives, and just are so ready and eager to give them the world! When there is some "substance" to them and if they are not an NPC, you actually have something to work with and build off of with them. There are very very few Women like that left in this world.
Her voice is enticing, but I'm not eager to even give her the world! That's her job to get to me!
Dating apps in the UK are an absolute joke, they are full of scammers, prostitutes or women who just waste your time. Many bitches have no intention of meeting anyone, but they will still go online and chat with men when they are bored and waste their time by leading them on, and making it seem that one day they will meet up in real life; but it never happens. These bitches are so evil that they will keep this up for as long as possible, they will waste weeks or months chatting with somebody and yet every time you ask them to meet up in real life they always have an excuse not to meet.
ReplyDelete@Alex, 100% the apps are all rigged and useless, I can't believe guys still even use the apps. They were never even "good" even the beginning days when they first came out.
DeleteEverything you said in the post is absolutely true, and I always advise Men never to waste time "chatting" with girls online, never using Emoticons with them or playing into their whole feed including putting "likes" on all their photos.
All of it just feeds their pathetic egos.