A Case Study Of Men Simping For Women Who Appear As Victims
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I been together with my bf for 5 months. He likes to bites, not playful or soft bites but the kind that leave bruises and not just in one place but multiple place. My friends at work, my family seen it and they said is abuse and not good but I tolerate due to childhood trauma. He told me that he never done it to any of his ex only me.
I asked him why, once he said so others they know that you mine and because I just want to eat you."
Here's what's telling, the fact that almost ALL the people trying to encourage her to get away from her boyfriend, are OTHER MEN and little no Women in the comments.
Truth be told, any unbiased and proper analysis of her statement, it sounds too vague, too naive and not without enough of details to really make any kind of basis for an assessment on whether or not she deserved the "abuse" or if there is something more to it that she is not revealing.
On one hand, it almost sound like there's some BDSM involved, or something else.
But realistically, the only position a Man should be in, as I would be if presented such a situation, is on the basis of Neutrality or maybe inquiring first on more details before making any kind of conclusion or telling them to leave her guy.
I cringe at how a lot of guys love to play the role of "Captain Save A 'Ho" and feel the need to come in and "Rescue The Princess" or trying to prove that they are a better Man than others.
The Men who observed this post, don't even know who this person is, never saw her face, and know nothing about her.
It is bad form to make a judgment on something where there is not enough details to really know what the truth is in what's going on.
Interestingly enough, one person in the comments like myself also believed this story to be bullshit, because the marks do not look like bit marks, and are indicative that she was likely pushed against a wall or an object if not hit with an object in ways that targeted those parts of her limbs.
But what's really telling about so many of the Men alive in this world today, is how eager and ready they are to jump all over a Woman's case or cause, when knowing none of the facts. Always so ready to throw other Men under the bus or get other Men out of the picture not because they genuinely want to "help" the girl, but because they want a chance to get with her.
Another thing I have discovered too in my years of using the Internet and Chatting online, even when I did use the Internet to meet Women, is that when I have read and seen thousands of chat logs between Women and other Men, the degree and depth that some Men will go to in order to try to convert a challenge in a Woman's life into his own "benefit" is absolutely alarming with the fact of how lacking in directness the Men can be.
In fact, many years ago, I had a fake female profile online that I used for a specific purpose, and some business owner I knew who was Married, hit the profile up, a much older Man mind you (I made the girl out to be in her 20's), and because I posted something that had to do with being depressed (creating rapport), the Man messaged the profile and insisted if I ever needed someone to talk to, feel free to get in touch or "stop by his shop" and he'll give me a free sandwich.
This is why we are in the mess we are in today.
In my many years of any courtship or involvement with Women, never have I resorted to some of the obsessive measures Men are willing to go to for some action, even risking not knowing how someone looks or what type of person they are, just because they have XX chromosomes.
What's telling about those comments above, is nearly NONE of the Men want to understand more, and their reflexes AUTOMATICALLY go towards suggesting to "RUN" or "LEAVE".
Not even asking what kind of objects he uses to hit her, or learning when this practice began, NOTHING.
It's also telling how many Women try to garner sympathy in so many Men in general by pretending or just claiming that they were a "victim of abuse" from their former exes, and Men are discovering that 9 out of 10 Women who make this claim are liars, and even "Pearl" who runs Just Pearly things online, has exposed this truth as well.
I will tell you even from my own experience with Women, that almost all Women I've ever dated have claimed that they have been sexually assaulted / raped and abused, even by their own family members, and even from early on I knew they were liars.
Because the body language and way they brought the subjects up, are not what someone would do if they were a victim of such things.
Captain Save a Ho' - made me laugh out loud.
ReplyDeleteThe fact that so many men are still offering women sympathy and being desperate to be a white knight makes me pessimistic about the future. Whilst you believe soon we will see men putting women in their place, and making them do hard jobs, I struggle to see this happening because of how badly programmed men have been to simp for women, aswell as mens high sex drive. Which makes them be willing to throw other men under the bus just for some action.
ReplyDeleteAll the women I have dated, whilst a small number, have all claimed that they were sexually abused. One was that woke victim chick who said she had been sexually assaulted by 8 different men in her past and I laughed in her face. 8 different occasions! you have more chance winning the lottery. She kept sleeping with me after I said that so that just shows it was a lie because a true victim of such a rare event, would immediately break up with me on the spot and never talk to me again. The other woman said she was 10 years old and got assaulted aswell as a hookup from a nightclub. Almost all women like to lie about these things which means men should stop believing any women.
@Kyle,
DeleteYes, and I completely understand that. But even the Simps are going broke. There are fewer and fewer Simps, but what we are seeing is those "Few" Simps who continue, are becoming more and more desperate. Some of the Simps are from other countries too, such as Arabs or Indians.
The big picture however, is that there is a "Net" Effect of Decline of Women who are being courted and pampered in the same fashion even 10 years ago. I would say that Feminism more or less "peaked" between around the time when the first Trump Presidency began and the COVID Agenda.
But yes, the future will not be bright, even as Feminism disintegrates, because society will come down with it. Women destroyed everything of the West, and this is why I say that even if there was the "will" to recover the West, the "way" would never happen.
It's just totally gone.
Yes, once you hear a Woman claim she was abused or sexually harassed / assaulted / abused or raped or whatever, it's time to run for the hills! Toss them away like a hot potato.
Women LOVE to use the "bait and switch" technique to finesse men out of their time and money. Don't fall for it. They are demons. ALL women are ass@#$les.
ReplyDeleteTo expand on the "bait and switch"...and other random thoughts about women...
ReplyDelete1. Women are chameleons, and what you see is NOT what you get.
2. They will mimic behaviors from men, to extract what they want from them.
3. Women have "conscience by concern", and don't have empathy. They are only concerned about what can impact them or potentially impact them.
4. Women don't mature past the age of 16.
5. Women "monkey branch" as much as possible.
6. Women have no honor and will turn on you quickly.
7. Women are easily the most dangerous creatures on the planet and can destroy your life in under 15 minutes.
Not a good deal to mess with women. Often, a man will let his biology take over, and esteem women for more than they are worth. Don't do that. They are a dangerous, demonic attachment to have. Same with having children. These are not positive. healthy attachements. Stay single, and NEVER screw around or build relationships with women in your own city. Better off taking a weekend trip or vacation and play around with women there. Use a fake name, if needed. Just do your biological urge there, and then get back to you life, in your city, after that trip or vacation. That is the more sensible move. And, quite honestly, you will have more fun that way. Saving money and having more experiences win life. I don't like to talk much about my past, but I have enjoyed a lot of partners...and I am not suggesting that for everyone...as I have spent some money on these bitches, but I never gave them my real names, and it wasn't necessary. We had respect for each other and had fun. I also was very naive in college, and had normal relationship with several women. And after college as well, with a 8/9 Irish women that I almost married. When I compare both lifestyles, the better way was getting my action from the massage girls, and other women that were whores in real life. Both are not great, becasuse of the time and money spent. However, biology comes calling sometimes.
Regardless, I am enjoying my 50s, because the biology is backing down a bit, and I can avoid the drama.
Just be careful out there, because their are many scammers. I would suggest going to a Asian Massage Parlor that can give you full service, and just relax there. Go during the day, as it won't be as busy...this will save you the heartache of dealing with a silly women, who will gasligh you all your life. Don't be that guy. Don't be the one to save others. It never works out because they will eventually not appreciate it, and you will be just rewarding and enabling evil.