Never Believe Anyone Who Tells You Their Stories About Having Children
Those who have children love to tell you about the great joys of having children and how you don't know what you're missing unless you have them, and also of how children have been the greatest blessing for them in life, can never be taken seriously.
And the reason we know they consider their children "blessings" is because they have a guaranteed retirement plan. If their child does not survive them, then they can recoup expenses from anything their child has as assets.
Thankfully, more and more studies are coming out to reveal the truth, and in fact, it's been discovered that everyone who tells you that their children have been the best thing to ever happen to them in life, actually came from a reality before having their children where they were just bored in life together along with their partner and didn't feel a purpose or goal in life which made them decide that maybe having children would be a good idea.
So these advice givers who have children are telling you their happy stories from a basis of being bored, miserable people without direction in life and that's why they wanted children in the first place.
I almost ripped into Goatis for suggesting that men without children are losers, in one of his most recent videos.
ReplyDeleteGoatis didn't even understand "obligations" that come from having children or a partner.
I love the guy, but he is clueless about women and natalism. Perhaps that comes from his somewhat inferior racial makeup. I don't know. He just doesn't get it.
Bringing children into this low class world today is high stress, and that will lead to a very poor life for YOU and your children. You won't live a long or healthy life because of those burdens.
Grow up Goatis.
I do agree actually it's one of the things most that I dislike on Goatis with his views. Children are not the answers to life's problems or one's happiness, and I think he overly simplifies the whole situation behind the desire for sex and correlation with biological urge to reproduce. We don't want children just because we want to have sex. The design that sex and the desire for it is connected to procreation as a trap, is a major flaw of our species.
DeleteEven to the most logical extreme, there is no sense in having children in this existence. Only the worst people are reproducing.
I mean humans have a strong urge to have sex because of procreation, that's how it's guaranteed, no?
Delete@Jedi Govna, It's not true, not for all Humans. Only NPC's have the urge to have sex for baby-making, hence why they say they want to have your "babies". It's not just Women who will say this, I've known Men who talk about fantasizing getting a girl pregnant and making her "have their children".
DeleteI've never had a fantasy or interest in having sex to have children. In fact, it's always been an overwhelming fear and aversion.
I mean I don't think anyone has an "urge for baby-making". What I meant is that isn't the urge to have sex the same thing as an urge for baby-making, since in nature it'd be basically the same thing? You wouldn't think to "pull-out" in nature
Delete@Jedi Govna, I already explained it in the previous comment. Wanting to have sex for the sake of "having children" is something NPC's do, because they only live for their biology.
DeleteWisdom begins when one recognizes that not every Human Body possesses the same consciousness. NPC's do not have any real form of consciousness, they are wholly slaves to their biological impulses, so much so, that they don't even understand their own biological demands.
That's why you always hear NPC's who claim they feel a certain way, but don't understand their feelings or why they are the way they are. They are biological robots.
Sex was made by the demiurge coupled with the reproductive necessity attached to it unless you use workaround methods to avoid it, which proves that the design is to enslave our species, and to keep bringing more life into this hell.
Why else would those who created the Human Species, or any species for that matter, attach a method of connecting Chakras centers with someone along with pleasure to something that serves a reproductive function, and one where you cannot control whether or not you want to induce pregnancy!? Think about it.
That is such a high level of thinking, when you understand the inner workings of these demons Archons.
ReplyDeleteTheir sinister ways to shame people into having children.
The way they use biology to get people to screw like bunny rabbits and bring more cabbage patch dolls into their shameful and low class world.
Having children is short sighted and leads to a very stressful life. Your children only can bring pain. Goatis is just a naive, and from an inferior class to think that people without children have wasted their lives...very immature and wrong linee of thinking from the GMan
ReplyDelete@Joey Aragon,
DeleteYup, believe me it's a nightmare. I see it in 2 Men I know right now, in fact one who just had a newborn some weeks ago. They have no time and can't keep any promises any longer, and the thing is that everything is a constantly changing "story" because of ever-growing challenges with how things evolve with the newborn.
And the thing is, it's not just them outgrowing clothing or beginning to play with electrical outlets and getting into trouble around the house or eating dangerous objects.
It becomes a lifelong, pervasive challenge.
Most children also eventually have an "Anti-Meat" phase, or for certain types of foods, then you deal with all kinds of other challenges.
The thing is the challenges are constantly changing, and I'll tell you, it makes sense to me how NPC's are capable and willing to endure raising children while someone who may be introverted, prefers peace and quiet or wants to have freedom and leisure would not be able to deal and constantly adjust things.
Then as you get older and even after your kids move out, you have to hope they don't get with someone who brings shame to the family or ruins things in the family, and I have been on the witnessing end of what kind of turmoil and awkwardness this brings.
As things point to the "Autumn Stage" in life, family arguments and disputes also begin to erupt over Estate Planning and Burial Expenses, or other "attributes".
I am serious when I say it's a lifelong problem, there is no happiness that comes from it.
Who cares if your child says "Daddy / Mommy" for the first time, or the first time they walk or do this and that. All of that stuff is really petty in the far bigger picture of the responsibility and burdens it takes to raise a child, and the Science even demonstrates that even people who do have children and may have relatively happy lives with the families they created, still do not have more "Net" Happiness compared to People who never have children. Those who don't have children are always happier.
Children are always a part of your life until you or they pass away. What a headache to endure. The attachment to children is suffering.
ReplyDeleteI do think Goatis comes from a lower racial makeup and that is why he takes that position. He also seems like a irresponsible person, who could never run a business or build a business or even be a strong role model in his community.
I love the Gman, but I just am baffled by his natalism stance, given that he correctly advocates a low stress life.
Yes, and he will also react to videos with women who are clearly ignorant or mentally ill but then say- "good for her" when she has a child... I've also noticed he does this thing which my sibling does which is manipulative, although to be honest probably everyone's manipulative on some level-
DeleteBut I feel somewhat forgiving to him, because you have to consider that goatis is someone who probably for most of his life, has likely been dealing with people who misunderstand him, who believe things based on what they're told not, who betray him, and use the system against him. So I feel like his respect and trust for others is low, and why he can sometimes come off aggressively or like he's 'psychopathic' for others, this aggression is likely directed at a different type of person, he may project onto others as well if most of the people he's met in his life act negatively towards him.
but I also think it shuts HIM off from considering the potential that not everything that is 'nature' or following your impulses is always a good idea.
Even his choice of women has been very questionable, and some of the opinions he gives have to applied realistically unless you want to get sent straight to jail, which is the part where the irresponsibility comes in I think
@Joey Aragon,
DeleteIndeed, and all for them to live and lead a life which will be 90% suffering / boredom anyway with hardly any exceptions out of that, only for them to also eventually die.
The thing is to any degree that Mankind had some enjoyable "legacy" in the past, all the juice has been siphoned out of that, just as the nutrition has been depleted from nearly all the world's soil and waters.
This world is long past it's prime, and the other thing many New Agers believe is that the Earth will "regenerate" and Earth is trying to "cleanse and heal" itself, which is also a myth.
Science shows the Earth is weakened and destroyed, and it's being destined for its eventual destruction, it's magnetic field is also nowhere near what it once used to be, and magnetism is required for health and life to flourish properly in this system. Just as Humans and Life are dependent upon Water and Oxygen, they also are dependent upon the Earth and Sun's Magnetic fields.
You are surely entitled to your opinions on Goatis, I don't find him to be racially lower on the pecking order, he is in fact quite good, but I just think his views are mostly too idealistic for an idealistic world, not a realistic one, I think he knows that to some degree, but we're long past the point of where one could live idealistically the way things are supposed to be, this even includes with the opposite sex in Dating, Love, Children, etc.
Hormonally, all Men "change" after they have a child too, so the thing is when someone has a child, believe me Man or Woman, they are "different" even on an energetic level because the body reprograms itself on the basis of the child(ren).
I do think that Goatis is relatively successful in his Niche of life, albeit a very different course, for example Goatis has actually traveled a LOT more than I have admittedly, he's been to far more countries than I have, but his lifestyle has been much more mobile and he has a lifestyle of being plugged into far less committments.
I have to admit that my life on the other hand has been one much more of ownership and commitments, and at times I've also been less mobile as a result of it, so we do have very different lifestyles in how we live.
While my commitments have brought me a lot of great experiences, learning and advantages, they also do come with another cost, but such is the thing with "life".
@T345,
DeletePart of the problem is that Men never get to actually "choose" someone in relationships, even true for someone like Goatis as much as Brad Pitt or Ryan Gosling, etc.
The thing is the sexual market is controlled by Women, even if a Man has multiple choices, he still doesn't actually make the selection.
Part of the problem is someone unique like Goatis, and especially anyone who tends to be unique or live life off the beaten path, and also people with a lot of empathy, will always end up finding the most psychotic specimens to be put in their path in life.
I've had it happen to me as well. I don't ever meet someone simple or ordinary, all the "options" I've been given in life were truly by psychotic, insane Women.
After COVID, life has changed dramatically for everyone, however I will say that I did prefer the days when things were (or at least seemed to be) stable with Luna when he was at the peak of running his channels, meetups and everything.
I think COVID put a dent in all of that, as it has even for my own organization and also any social connections with others.
If it were not for COVID, I would probably still be running social gatherings and keep the Fraternity Alive, even though I have still gotten tired over the years. But now, it's not even a second thought, I'm totally done, just as I'm done with Europe and Humanity.
@PSA Yea, I definitely agree that the pre-C0Id days of G were the best, until the a**holes ruined it. I don't even remember him getting the level of hate he did before, but after the Luna situation, it's like all of these strangers came out of the woodwork, making their life mission to destroy him.
DeleteI don't know if it's because he grew in popularity or if they were always there, and L just gave them something tangible to use against him.
I understand G holding back now. But it's too bad. I guess this is the downside to being like him and getting fame and an evil woman.
I have sometimes seen men with really questionable choices, too, even supermodel level men, which is baffling! You only see that with women if the man has money! With Brad Pitt, I'm just having a hard time believing he was abusive, and it seems much more likely the MOM was fighting with him and used the children in the argument and turned them against him. She also adopted several kids that are not his, who have accussed him of racism or being an absent father to them, when in almost everyway he is NOT their father.
And I feel like I see relationships all the time where the men are being led by their partners.
I met a very handsome, sweet, empathetic, funny intelligent man recently, who's seemed to have a series of bad relationships where the women weren't treating him well and used him, even though knowing him, he's an extremely good partner. Imagine that happening to a women with the same qualities! I am sure that women wouldn't have trouble finding a man.
I told my friends who are also female, about how I liked him and they already had things to 'complain' about him even before I expressed anything bad, including our age gap, and one of these 'acquaintances' told me he was just an 'average white boi', that he's a redflag and she doesn't know what I see in him, despite him outpacing me in almost all areas, him being MODEL level attractive and being far more mature, emotionally intelligent, fun, empathetic, emotionally deep, etc than the high functioning autistic DRUG addicts, QUESTIONABLE looking men, closeted gay man, and 20+ other men she's slept with!
Then something happened between us where he gave me an ultimatum I was unable to fulfill as I was stalling the relationship due to my insecurities, which would've likely caused problems further down the line anyway. I asked 3 different female aquaintances for help on what I should do, and each one told me he was a red flag and that I dodged a bullet, and that him confronting me makes him 'manipulative', and 'controlling' and that he seems too 'emotional'.
I even asked my female therapist on how to respond to his message to me, and what I had initially instinctively felt like saying to him was apologizing to him and explaining to him how much I liked him/what I saw in him and how it had nothing to do with him, and explaining my insecurities to him even though I knew it wouldn't necessarily fix the situation, I wanted him to know it wasn't about him because I felt very bad having any part in hurting him. I asked my therapist for help, and she told me not to do that and just reinstate my boundaries and just say I wasn't ready for a relationship, because 'saying that(what I wanted to say) wouldn't look good on me' :|. I now regret not saying more to him and I've had to block out thinking about him much at all because I just feel overcome by guilt and sadness.
And I wasn't even egging these women on to talk bad about him, just imagine if I 'made stuff up' or encouraged these women too talk trash- and I've seen other women do that.
I suppose I really can't blame goatis or man who end up like him, I would've also probably been fooled by Luna too because she doesn't seem THAT evil at first. But she definitely exploits the system and uses very evil people to get what she wants, which just puts her on the same level as them.